2006-10-05 18:07:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get out as fast as you can...
2006-10-05 18:13:28 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First get away from him. Second find out if you really are pregnant or not. Third Stay away from him Fourth go find someone you trust and talk to them about what options you might have and what is best for you and for your child should you continue on to give birth. Whatever you do get away from this guy. He is not going to change just because there is going to be a baby he will probably get worse and then you willhave a baby to be abuses as well as yourself. Get out now and stay away. You can do better even if you are alone with the child. If you cannot do it for yourself then for God sake do if for your child You at least can run away or try to fight back the baby has no chance but you to save him or her. Please look for help it is out there. God Bless You and Help You To Get Away From This Man.
2006-10-05 18:13:09 · answer #2 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him right now! Abusive relationships don't get better with time! Sooner or later something very bad will happen to you. And if you stay in an abusive relationship, you may not live long enough to have your baby. My friend's Aunt was in an abusive marriage for 4 years and everyone kept telling her to leave this man but she stayed. Guess where she is now? Oak Ridge Cemetary in Illinois. Yes, he murdered her with a shotgun. Get out before it's to late! God bless you and good luck!
2006-10-05 18:22:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to think about your life without him. The baby is no reason to stay. In fact, the baby's safety should be a reason to leave! You can build a new life without him. You can do it!
There are plenty of resources for abused women. You should talk with a counselor if you don't want to tell your friends and family yet. (but trust me, they know)
2006-10-05 18:11:34 · answer #4 · answered by Katherine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get caught up in abuse.I friend of mine wasted 6 yrs trying to make things work with a guy who kept on swearing at her(emotional abuse).When he left him, it was because the guy had a gun to her head and she got a protection order.
Please do yourself a favour and get out!You also need to ask youself if you really want to share a baby with such a person.This baby is going to make you connected for life.
"The first time you are subjected to abuse, you are a victim but the next time it happens, you are the enabler." Goodluck girl!
2006-10-05 18:15:31 · answer #5 · answered by T.I 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An abusive person is always abusive, so after two years it suddenly hit home...I don't think so....give us a break, we are mature people here and not prepared to deal with foolishness. You had to see it coming!....so now it is up to you.
2006-10-05 18:14:31 · answer #6 · answered by Frank 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think its by him You need to stop thinkin of you for a sec and think of seed growing inside of you., the world is not perfect nor is any Man, if hes becoming keyword becoming a abusive i guess he didnt used to be try to find whats bothering him, iight Keep your head up and pray gurl dont give up on him for real youd not want him to give up on you.
2006-10-05 18:13:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABORTION
Look, you dont NEED HIM and you certainly dont need HIS BABY
Cook up a pot of HOT scalding coffee everyday, especially when he is home, AND ---the next time he so much as raises his hand to hit you , throw the HOT coffee in his face (by this time of course, you will have to have led him in the kitchen near the pot)
I AM DEAD SERIOUS
2006-10-05 18:13:27 · answer #8 · answered by What gives? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter if you're pregnant or not... GET AWAY AS FAST AS YOU CAN!! You and your (possible) child deserve better than that.
2006-10-05 18:09:44 · answer #9 · answered by Raven Sky 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to find a womans shelter and go there, they will be able to assist you with what you'll need, if you are pregnant someone there will talk to you about your options ... please don't stay, if he's starting now imagine the worst that will happen because it will ... good luck and stay strong!!
2006-10-05 18:09:55 · answer #10 · answered by emnari 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get out of there like a fat kid in dodge ball!
Please report him to local authorities and get to a safe place!
Keep the child or get an abortion or put the child up for adoption, whatever you like. But PLEASE get away from him as soon as you can, like, NOW!
2006-10-05 18:26:38 · answer #11 · answered by Mary Catherine M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋