One guy is from work and he had a crush on me for months but was too shy to ask me out, so I asked him out, the other guy had a crush on me while I was dating his friend, and the third guy I recently met because he fixed my car and we were staring at each other so when I started talking to him, he asked me for my number. I don't know these guy very well, but they all seem nice and I can't decide which one I like the most. So would it be okay to go out with these guys without letting them know I'm dating others at the same time?
2006-10-05 18:10:55 · 29 answers · asked by pureessence 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do so many people assume that I'm a slut for going out with three guys at once? Like I clearly mentioned, I don't know these guys well and I want to get to know them by DATING them. Why can't I see them at the same time? It's not as if I'm in an exclusive relationship. I don't plan on being a girlfriend to all of them, just one of them. Who said anything about sleeping with them?
2006-10-05 18:32:24 · update #1
I'm not doing this for the fun of it. I just don't want to get into the situation where I'm wasting time dating a guy who is not for me while the guy who is good for me is just waiting around and maybe will get hooked up with someone else.
2006-10-05 18:37:10 · update #2
You have to be upfront if you want to date all of them.
If you're not, you're just a lying sIut.
2006-10-05 18:12:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
There's nothing wrong with seeing three guys at once. Just make sure that you don't string them along for a long time. Your not in any type of committed relationship with any of them, so get to know them. If you see a relationship going deeper and farther than the others then break those others off. Choose the best out of the bunch. Go for it!
2006-10-05 18:15:56 · answer #2 · answered by RelationGuru 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 21:57:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but once you make a commitment to the ONE, you should let the other two know that you just recently started seeing someone and you don't want them to fall in love and be crushed. I'd say 2 to three dates with each, but not sexually...that can always wait, and has been the destruction of many a relationship.
2006-10-05 18:16:31 · answer #4 · answered by Paulie is YoPD 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sure it's OK to date all three. You should be honest about it with them though. Of course, it won't last long, but later in life you can think back to the time when you dated 3 guys at the same time... and smile thinking about how fun it was.
2006-10-05 18:19:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl out of past experiences and being in terrible wrong places at wrong times...your best bet is to just be friends with all of them. If you start dating a bunch of guys at once you will deliver an unsuccessful message to them and everyone around you that could haunt you for the rest of your life. Think twice about the future and be true to yourself. Remember just because they are cute or nice doesn't mean that they are true roses.
2006-10-05 18:18:22 · answer #6 · answered by Crystal M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no reason you cant go out with all 3. However, make it clear you're DATING. I know that's an ole time function. And not really popular in this day. But try it. You will love it! How else are you gonna be able to get to know them, and make a choice. That is precisely what dating is all about. YOU GO GIRL!
2006-10-05 18:15:29 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm sure you have not limited yourself to only three guys,but as long as you are not married it should be okay to date as many guys as your heart desires. You better go for it while your young , because when you get older there will not be that big of a pool to pick from.
2006-10-05 18:19:42 · answer #8 · answered by willieearlramon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's okay. And no, they don't need to know who else you are seeing until you decide who you want to get serious with. Dating 3 guys can be tricky, but if you can handle it, have fun. It will work itself out.
2006-10-05 18:18:48 · answer #9 · answered by Psychic Sk8r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it's ok. It's called the datng game! As long as your not sleeping with all of them, otherwise it could get complicated. As soon as you decide to become exclusive with one of them I would break it off with the others. But if your only young then to hell with it! You're only young once and it would be a good lesson to learn, it will probably bite you in the *** though! I did it when I was young...
2006-10-05 18:16:01 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl i don't know what's wrong with you but you need to use wisdom, because none of these guys doesn't have to be the one, please exercise caution in your doings, because getting hurt is not good, so talk to each and everyone as friends in this case you'll know who cares, from who is playing around and from there you'll get a clear answer, good luck and be careful.
2006-10-05 18:25:43 · answer #11 · answered by sam-sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋