Family & Relationships - 5 October 2006

so my boyfriend and his ex dated a while and every time i ask i don't get complete answers until later... like he said he caused a stain on his floor by spilling soda about 3 months ago ( this stain is in his bedroom!!!)... today i found out it was his ex. they are still friends and she is basically a slut. am i being paranoid? as i find out more and more stuff like that i become more and more jealous almost. they are good friends so i can't tell him he can't talk to her, yet it bothers me when i hear about her or when he is with her. i get these jealous feelings everytime she talks to him. is this normal?

2006-10-05 17:45:59 · 29 answers · asked by confused 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-05 17:45:38 · 6 answers · asked by Erica M. 1 in Singles & Dating

every girl i meet has only wanted me for my money

2006-10-05 17:44:19 · 27 answers · asked by flaco 2 in Singles & Dating

Let's focus on siblings since it's different for parents and spouses.

2006-10-05 17:43:48 · 4 answers · asked by Kindred 5 in Family

Our mother has been very ill for the last 2 months, and my sister doesn't show any concern. She doesn't even call me to ask about our mom. Yesterday I received an invitation for her son's birthday party. I don't want to talk to her or even see her face. Should I even make up some excuses for not going or just don't attend period. Our father passed away 3 months ago, she never visited him when he was sick, she just showed up when he died in the hospital. I forgave her for that. However, I don't think I can forgive her this time. I don't think I would want to talk to her again. Am I wrong?

2006-10-05 17:43:38 · 9 answers · asked by Angelina 2 in Family

Theres a guy I been talking to online for a month. We really hit it off. We've spent part of nearly everyday talking, at times for 2+ hours...hes sweet, hot and he seemed to really be into me. We've talked about meeting in person. Heres my prob: This week has really been a hard one for me, stress, problems, raging hormones, etc. The last 2 days, I havent talked to him, so today I sent him a msg thru myspace which he read but didn't reply. 3 hrs later I sent him an IM and got no reply. Then I sent a msg that said "You should know by now that I like you, but Im tired of feeling like the one doing all the pursuing...if you're still interested you know how to reach me." He sent me one back saying ok? I thought you knew I was swamped this week. I replied, No, Mon. when we talked you said you were swamped, but I havent talked to you since to know. I later sent an Im sorry type of msg...he read it but I got no reply. I realize now I overreacted but dont know what to do next...help

2006-10-05 17:42:34 · 9 answers · asked by Doogie 4 in Singles & Dating

There is this cute guy at school and I'm not sure that he even knows me I see him about every day after school at my volleyballl practice being that he has to stay to help. Well anywhoo He's a softmore and im a freshman, and I don't want to make a COMPLETE *** out of myself so please give me advice on how to talk to this cuttie..... :-*

2006-10-05 17:42:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-05 17:40:53 · 15 answers · asked by tiwn raro 2 in Singles & Dating

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2006-10-05 17:40:23 · 8 answers · asked by nendlin 6 in Friends

ive been dating this guy for 5 months.he told me that he needed time.he has to pay back his ex.he owe her money.we still communicate.i was thinking to lose contact with him but im not sure if i can do it.what do you think he wants from me?serious answers please.

2006-10-05 17:40:22 · 6 answers · asked by skyrus 3 in Singles & Dating

http://blog.360.yahoo.com/blog/slideshow.html?p=21&id=peq_75M1eqowYuqRa3ZUfF_bZ7U-

No, it's not a picture of me (although that is my 360 page). Also, what country do you think she's from?

2006-10-05 17:40:12 · 4 answers · asked by Banana Peels... 2 in Friends

Well my first question was about this guy I met through a friend(fine as hell) and she knows he likes me but doesnt want us to talk for whatever reason.Well I stated I dont call guys and I went for it like u guys told me.I stepped out of my comfort zone.I called & he had to call me back .I didnt think he'd call but he did in minutes.We just talked for an hour.The conversation was GREAT.My question is throughout the conversation we talked about girls and guys and he seems a little bitter and I know I am b/c I just had a baby(2m) and my babys dad treats me like crap.& he seems to have had his share of bad apples.Well im a really good women an not looking into anything serious right away b/c of my situation.The women he's dealt with I am nothing like & I keep trying to tell him Im different he says he's heard it all b4.He says he's not judging me & wants to get to know me but I see myself crawling back in my shell.How do I not do that & show him I am different.Im trying to get over my BD!

2006-10-05 17:40:04 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-05 17:39:53 · 2 answers · asked by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 in Singles & Dating

Any advice for a single mother who has a 14 y/o son who has behavior problems? He goofs off in class, tyalks back, is defiant, doesn't follow directions, has bad attitude, is rude to mom. I am at my wits end. What are some things I can do to keep my sanity? Any suggestions?

2006-10-05 17:39:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We've all had embarassing moments...what's the most embarassing thing that has ever happened to you in a sexy situation?

2006-10-05 17:39:44 · 14 answers · asked by gogojunk 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok i have been "untrusted" by my parents ever since last year. Now they don't let me leave the house. I finally got them to let me hang out with my friend tomorrow. All we are doing is going to a volleyball game, hanging out at her house, and then going ice skating. However my mom believes we have our hearts set out to do something else. Because about a month ago i snuck out with some friends to meet up with some guys. So now she thinks i want to just do the same thing again. But i am really doing what i said i am doing. I just want them to trust me. Does anyone have any ideas on how i could get them to trust me again?

2006-10-05 17:39:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I found his pick on a sex offenders list from the state he is from...She wont believe it becuz he made up this huge story to cover it ...now everyone likes him again but his story dont even make sense! I dont kno how else i can find sum evidence that he is not right for her and im not sure wat to do??

2006-10-05 17:37:08 · 17 answers · asked by Elle 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

How do you forgive anad forget something that someone has said to you in the past that has been very hurtful and aggressive talk towards you ( this kind of talk is from a 18 year old stepson)

2006-10-05 17:33:59 · 13 answers · asked by dee d 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend,his name is james,he is married among four years including this year.He is my classmate when I am study in primary school.He ever love me that time,but I refuse because I like another guy(he is my boy friend now),he too liberate me and wish my love.We have contact until now.The girl that he had married is my friend,her name is Jessy.Jessy love him very much.James accept her love when I refuse his love,but he tell me that he too has a good feeling to Jessy,he say he will try to love her after marriage.He too protecting Jessy very much.After four years,now James told me he is not love Jessy anymore.I angry then I ask him,what the reason and in the four years is he never been try to love her?He answer me he try to love her but he can't,he afraid what will happened so he try to resist until now. He telling Jessy that the problem,but Jessy not understand,she said she will suicide.What can I do to advice James for not to divorced Jessy?

2006-10-05 17:32:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex wife and I got divorced 4 years ago. And we were only out of contact for the first couple of months after that we worked our way back to talking everyday sometimes twice a day. That is up until this last June, now we talk occasionally but it is rare. And everytime we talk she ends up pretty upset because there is so much emotion between us. She tells me she loves me and cares about me. But the reason we got the divorce was because I had a long term affair. She said tonight that when we got the divorce that a part of her died and a door closed. And in these last 4 years even though we have grown closer then we married she hasn't been able to open that door back up and thinks we are better off apart. And can't decide if being friends which hurts is less of a hurt then going our own way. She is seeing someone but still tells me how much she loves me. I don't push just want her to be happy, even if that is without me. I know what I feel and I can't stop loving her.

2006-10-05 17:32:26 · 13 answers · asked by tattooed_and_pierced_countryboy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I never had an actual girlfriend till I was 19. Before that I spent all my time at the brothels. Now that I'm 21 and actually trying to date real women, I find that they are so much more complicated. I so wish I could go back to that, but I think I've used all my luck up considering I still havent caught any dieseases. Why are real women so hard to figure out????????

2006-10-05 17:31:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I received an email from a friend who forwarded an email from my brother. It seems he wants to reconnect; I don't know why. We haven't spoken or seen each other in 30 years. I'm not sure how I feel about it -- I'm leaning toward "not good."

How would you handle this?

2006-10-05 17:31:09 · 6 answers · asked by AJ H 2 in Family

2006-10-05 17:30:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Theres this guy in one of my classes at school, but i just can't work up the courage to talk to him! I feel like a chicken ****, but i really just can't do it! Please help me!

2006-10-05 17:30:36 · 6 answers · asked by randina1988 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a problem i'm working with my bf in the same place, only that i have a degree he hasn't recently i got an offer from my boss my salary is going to be higher, like: he 500 and i 1000, he says that maybe we're going to have problems in the future, and i think maybe he is right but i love him, but nowhe is very upsed i dont know what to do

2006-10-05 17:29:31 · 18 answers · asked by cindyosita 1 in Singles & Dating

In your experiences, have the people you've been with been the same as you or different?

2006-10-05 17:27:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex-hubsbands sister,has a problem with me. I don't know what it is. she always looks @me in my eyes and never speaks just looks. We wasn't the best of friends when her bro. and i were married, but i liked it that way. I felt it would keep the drama level down in the family. because i didn't want to know what was going on in their lifes if it had nothing to do with me. should i even confront her and ask her what her problem is with me or should i just let it go since i don't have anything to do with them anymore. but i do speak and conversate with the rest of them.sometime i that shes just hating because i'm doing good without her whorish brother

2006-10-05 17:27:39 · 11 answers · asked by Brownsugar 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

was just wondering if that ever happens

2006-10-05 17:27:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My son has had these thing happen in the last two years, I was in a sledding accident, so one day we were out having fun the next i was gone for three weeks in the hospital, then we had to move. After I healed my daughter who was 19 years older than him was diagnosed with cervical cancer, he watched her throw up on a daily basis and lots of care revolved around her for over a year to which she passed away this past june, we then had to move again. The day his sister died he did not cry, My son is a child who does not do well with change, he likes to know a routine. We still are working on one at home being I also have my granddaughter who is 7. He also has gone from a private kindergaden to a public first grade. He is not doing well with the school rules of no touching other students and staying in his seat. He is very angry, I feel the school i aiming at me although my friends and family tell me i am doing nothing wrong. Also his dad is not involved in his life, md knows, etc

2006-10-05 17:27:21 · 8 answers · asked by WILDFIREJOANN 3 in Family

i asked before but i kinda presented it wrong...
This girl i like is getting married in 25 days ish, i dont expect it will be a big wedding or anything special but yea. I have known this girl a little but never got all too friendly with her, but i liked her and she came ot me about it and i bitched out, and everytime i talk with her or say anything shes more of a shy smiling person, as when i have saw her with other people is more outgoing, loud etc. Then well, i guess what im saying is there could be something there, and she just pops in my head quite a bit.
I have her phone number - it would be kinda wierd to call her since i have never called her before but i will do it i think. I think she wants a boy friend bad and feels like this marriage is a way to have that feeling for a while. The guy is a total *** hole cheated on her multiple times, i dont think he cares all to much, just sex, hes in the army, i can see in 10 years her heart broken with 2 kids to raise, should i call her?

2006-10-05 17:26:31 · 8 answers · asked by aaaaa4857376237 1 in Other - Family & Relationships