ok i have been "untrusted" by my parents ever since last year. Now they don't let me leave the house. I finally got them to let me hang out with my friend tomorrow. All we are doing is going to a volleyball game, hanging out at her house, and then going ice skating. However my mom believes we have our hearts set out to do something else. Because about a month ago i snuck out with some friends to meet up with some guys. So now she thinks i want to just do the same thing again. But i am really doing what i said i am doing. I just want them to trust me. Does anyone have any ideas on how i could get them to trust me again?
2006-10-05 17:39:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
be vigilant about being where you say you are going to be when you say you are going to be there, make sure you call to check in as directed, and Never be late coming home again.
2006-10-05 17:41:40 · answer #1 · answered by kayro3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless your mother is somehow going above and beyond what you described in your question, your mother is not psycho.
You just need to change your outlook on life a little bit. yes, you want your freedom...but your parents don't want you to abuse your freedom, Sometimes communication is the best thing and in this case, if you want them to ease up on you, the more communication the better.
You also might want to change some of your friends, because it sounds like they might be part of the "problem." My HS friends were never the type to encourage sneaking out to meet up with the opposite sex.
2006-10-06 01:33:19 · answer #2 · answered by superchrisw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problem is not that your mom is psycho it is that the trust factor was broken the night that you snuck out of the house and i have a daughter who is 15 and if she would try that i would surely bring the hammer down on her and YES i would not have must trust in her for a while and yes she would be grounded i mean like staked to the couch and dared to move.....take some time to differentiate between psycho and trust you will be sure to find your answer
2006-10-06 00:55:37 · answer #3 · answered by penelope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is all on your head, you have a long road ahead of you. Once you lie and sneak behind your folks back you are going to have to suck it up and deal. It well take them a long time to trust you and your getting angry about it is not going to help you one little bit. You must be honest at all times and never complain when they question you or check up on you. You caused this and now you must live with the consequences.
2006-10-06 01:26:12 · answer #4 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever sneak out again, and do what you say you're going to do. Be responsible and show you're mature and can handle doing the things you use to do.
2006-10-06 00:43:48 · answer #5 · answered by Goose Feet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be the kind of kid that does creepy things. You are the one that violated the trust, you need to earn it back. Just wait...... til you have kids, you will realize you never should have called your mother a psycho..............
2006-10-06 01:18:47 · answer #6 · answered by eagfan5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you shouldnt have broken the trust that they HAD in you. you just have to gain it back and it may take a while. you cant expect to be trusted if you arent trustworthy.
2006-10-06 00:43:57 · answer #7 · answered by goldie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does phsyco mean??
2006-10-06 02:54:46 · answer #8 · answered by Pencil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋