How do you forgive anad forget something that someone has said to you in the past that has been very hurtful and aggressive talk towards you ( this kind of talk is from a 18 year old stepson)
2006-10-05 17:33:59 · 13 answers · asked by dee d 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
coming from a step son
u dont have to forget
but u should forgive him
make sure he knows that u intend 2 keep the parent happy
i sed some things to mi stepmom that i now wish i hadent
we r good frends now
but it took a wile
it took me a long time to accept her becaus she was taking my mothers place
i still have troble talking to my mother
i wont elaborate on that
but that was mostly y i said some things i wish i hadent
we argued alot wen i was younger
but she stood by my dad and kept him happy
now i have a litle sister
my dad is happy
and so am i
so like i ses
dont forget but u nead to forgive him
i hope this helps u
good luck
2006-10-05 17:52:22 · answer #1 · answered by fragle2c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not easy to be a mother let alone a step-mother. U must do yr best to forget & forgive whatever words he said that hurt u. If not, the rest of yr life will be very stressful and not happy. with blessing.
2006-10-06 00:47:14 · answer #2 · answered by Renew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just rise above it all. He speaks very aggressively towards me, or should I say he did. I am a good hardworking person and I do not tolerate being disrespected and that is what I told him. If you cannot speak to me in a civil tone, do not speak to me at all. It took more than once of me telling him this, but it did sink in eventually and we have no problem in that area now.
2006-10-06 00:43:24 · answer #3 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to learn to forgive to be forgiven. The Lord died on the cross so that we could be forgiven . I think we need to follow his example. Let the Lord take care, hand him all your worrys and cares. That's what he does. I'm sure we have all done something that we needed to be forgiven for. So try it . You will feel so good when you do. God Bless.
2006-10-06 00:46:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that. You just have to remember that kids can be cruel sometimes, and that a lot of times they don't really mean what they say. Good luck, hope it all turns out for the best.
2006-10-06 00:36:00 · answer #5 · answered by Thursdays 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What comes around will go around to him, he'll regret it one day. He's just being a hormonal punk. Don't be a door mat and get thicker skin. You'll be friends one day. You can't dislike the ones you pray for, pray for yourself and ask God to soften your heart to forgive him, it will happen, you just have to beleive.
2006-10-06 00:42:09 · answer #6 · answered by smily 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you believe in God,is easy to do it.You leave the person in the hands of God,and you forgive the person.
2006-10-06 00:39:18 · answer #7 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are kind of people who lives in past.... and for them its like carrying the garbage compartment with the running train all through the year.... its now up to you to take or leave the garbage compartment.....
2006-10-06 00:37:31 · answer #8 · answered by think 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can let him win by holding onto it.
OR you can forgive him. Each time it comes back to bite you, repeat, "I distinctly remember forgiving the on _________."
Satan will get the message.
2006-10-06 00:36:38 · answer #9 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am 29 and a step daughter and i remember everything my step mother ever said since i was 11. if you figure it out let me know.
2006-10-06 00:37:11 · answer #10 · answered by kayro3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋