Family & Relationships - 5 October 2006

I like this guy from church; however, we cannot be too open about it because my religion has strict dating rules. Two of them being that I'm not baptized, and I'm not completely divorced. Anyways, I think this guy likes me back, but I'm not sure. Every time he sees me at church, he says hi. Even if I'm talking to another person he approaches me from behind, and gently touches my shoulder. Even if I'm a couple feet from distance he will wave hi. The other day he asked me if I had an extra songbook, I said no, but we ended up sharing. We were inches from eachother. When we have a chance to talk he seems to really listen to what I have to say. Also, when he asks me how I am, and I say kind of, he'll ask me why in an interested manner. So do you think he likes me or not, and what should I do?

2006-10-05 17:04:08 · 8 answers · asked by melivaga2004 1 in Singles & Dating

a girl you don't know asks you questions like "what grade are you in?" and "do you live around here" ? shes really fine and idk what does it mean? This happened at school it was after the bell ringed for lunch to end this is at highschool and i was gonna get a drink of water on the water fountain and then she asked me those questions and just walked off. What does it mean? she likes me?

2006-10-05 17:03:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have this friend and I feel that she has not been a good friend to me. Everytime I would tell her my personal business she would make direct but indirect comments to me. It seems as if she has always tried to put me down in some way. I stopped speaking to her a couple of times and when confronted she would make excuses. I feel she is jealous of me. I would give more examples but i want to be discreet.

Well she was talking to this guy who was a professional athlete. They never went out or anything. Well he tried to talk to me and i refused. I never told her. Does anyone think I am wrong for not telling her? I didn't tell her because I felt that she would be more nasty towards me, etc.

2006-10-05 17:02:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Why does a person stand in front of God and family to take vows for life and suddenly one day just say "Okay, I'm through"? If abuse is involved I can see it.

2006-10-05 17:02:14 · 13 answers · asked by sinfulways44 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-05 17:01:32 · 1 answers · asked by Dan 1 in Family

I never hear of women having any. Ladies whatta ya think?

2006-10-05 17:01:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

The guy that i like is very shy and is very quiet during class. I only have second period history with him and my friend sits right in ront of him. She's always asking him questions for me and think that he's getting the feeling that she likes him. I have personally asked him one or two questions but i dom't know what to do.

2006-10-05 17:01:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-05 17:01:22 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-10-05 17:01:11 · 10 answers · asked by ruggall 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm a guy, something is up with this girl. Im 16. Shes 17. Ever since i got back to school, shes been different. One day, she starts resting her arm on my leg. I touch her shoulder, and she totally hugs me. She stole my hat for as long as she could. Riped a small hole in my shirt. Then all of a sudden its not as cosistant. So I brushed it off. Shes steals other peoples hats, wrestles with her male friend. But is still paying attention to me. Talks to me when ever she can. Then the other day, one of my friends asks whats up with us. That she may like me and is always touching me. Next day, she tries to write on my arm and it seems like she is trying to touch my hand. But when i asked her about it she says she does that to everyone, but i havent seen the same attention to anyone else. Today in the hall walked right into me. Problems are shes bi and apprently wants to have a relationship with a girl, but it wont happen. She touchs other guys. So does she like me and if so how do i ask

2006-10-05 17:00:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

dating

2006-10-05 17:00:36 · 11 answers · asked by dkkachhawa 1 in Singles & Dating

How many partners is too many?
How many times is too many?
How young they lost it?
What's normal in terms of number of times and/or partners?

What would turn you off from marrying someone about their past? I am sort of turned off by my fiance's past and want to know if I am over reacting.

2006-10-05 16:59:27 · 12 answers · asked by Funkadelik HomoSapien 1 in Marriage & Divorce

OK... I REALLY LIKE THIS GUY(DARVIN) AND THERES ANOTHER GUY WHO IS IN LOVE WITH ME(JOE). JOE IS OK LOOKIN AND HES REALLY NICE, AND DARVIN IS REALLY CUTE AND HE IS NICE TOO BUT IM KINDA STUCK ON THE PART OF WHO TO B WITH... JOE WILL DO ANYTHING FROM MAKING ME A POEM TO BUYING ME A $300 SOFTBALL BAT. I JUST MET DARVIN THE BEGINING OF THE YR SO IT WOULD BE KINDA WEIRD IF HE GOT ME SOMETHING. IM NOT ALL BOUT THE THINGS THEY BUY ITS JUST HARD. I DONT NO WHAT MY QUESTION IS BUT IF YOU WERE IN THIS POSITION, WHAT WOULD YOU DO?

2006-10-05 16:59:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-05 16:58:59 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend tells me all the time that he loves me and he does lots of nice things for me; things that any girl would love to have. He is a gentleman and does little sweet surprises for me. He is also very romantic and brings me flowers and tells me poems. However, I don't love him and I feel awkward whenever he tells me that he loves me. Should I keep at it and hope that I will love him too eventually or just try to find someone else? I don't want to loose him because he is wonerful. But I don't love him and I am not happy trying to show something that I don't feel. Does love come after a while? Should I tell him that I love him even if I don't? Or, should I tell him that I don't love him? I don't want to hurt him but I want to be happy too. What do you guys think? I keep fighting with him so I won't be aroud him but then when we get back together I feel great and I think that I love him too. Am I weird? Sometimes I think that I'm not capable of loving. Thanks for your answers.

2006-10-05 16:58:31 · 13 answers · asked by Dally J 3 in Singles & Dating

do you think it's right that
my babys dad gets to do whatever he wants whenever he wants 24-7 (when he's not working) while i'm away at college with the baby struggling?
we're are together but it just doesnt seem fair to me.
even when we go to visit him he spends more time with other people than us.
kinda feel used for sex cause everytime i go back and we see eachother that is the first thing we do.
what do you think about that?
I Love him with all my heart but he does things that make me think.

2006-10-05 16:58:29 · 9 answers · asked by lady_luv 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-05 16:57:59 · 16 answers · asked by Knibble T 1 in Singles & Dating

We broke up 3 months ago, were together 7.5 years.It was mainly my fault,I messed up,just got complacent and took her love for granted.Anyhow I realised what I had when she left me and went and saw professional help about all my issues and really turned my life around.I have honestly amazed her and despite her initial uncertainty in our future things seem to be turning round.We started dating again about 3 weeks ago and have been having a ball together.Talking like we used to and really enjoying each others company.After our last date wed night she came back to our house (she moved out and I still live there) and we had great sex and she even stayed the night in my bed and we fell asleep talking,cuddling and i was stroking her hair like i used too.Then for the first time since the break up she called me last night for a general chat,nothing in particular,just for a chat.I am letting her initiate all contact with me and giving her the space she asked for.What do you guys think?

2006-10-05 16:57:10 · 7 answers · asked by whitey 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you think this is good for waiting so it willl be special when i find him or i am just a dork or something and never gonna get a man.

2006-10-05 16:56:59 · 12 answers · asked by *~LuV fRoM aBoVe~* 1 in Singles & Dating

She is so hot, she's living right next door to me :)

im new here and i i just found that yesterday, she is so hot....

yesterday she was entering her door with a girl friend, when i was entering mine too, and i looked at them and said "neighbours" kind of like, hi neighbours,

now, i dont know nothing about her, should i write her something and insert the little note inside her door?

give me creative suggestions, SPECIALLY GIRLS cause my hope is high i wonder if i have a chance :)))))))))))))))

2006-10-05 16:56:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

All 25+ year olds say something in here, anything... I'm starting to think I'm the only oldie here. Btw I'm 25

2006-10-05 16:56:57 · 14 answers · asked by brown_sugah064 4 in Singles & Dating

I am 20 years old 4 years ago I thought I found the guy who I wanted to be with. I have a 3 year old with him but hes not around. I have been sitting back waiting for that special some one to come along but Its been 3 years. I need advise. Please Please Please!!

2006-10-05 16:56:37 · 9 answers · asked by tiffanydeannabney04 1 in Singles & Dating

In a relationship between a man and a woman. I am concerned primarily abuse men inflict on women in a relationship. Give an example. What is the best way for a woman to deal w/ this sort of abuse after leaving the relationship?

2006-10-05 16:55:46 · 6 answers · asked by nene 3 in Singles & Dating

today i had a serious conversation with my friend. asked him if it was cool for both of us to forget what we have said to each other,and everything we wanted for eachother.we both espressed how we feel about not being able to be with eachother.and we both been hurting for that.he asked me what i thought was gonna make me feel better.my answer to that is be with him,but cant.so i just told him the only option i have i dont want to put it into action. i have never been lucky,in this matter. now i found someone who makes me feel special,loved,apreciated.i do the same for him.we only been intimate once and it was spontanious.we didnt planed it, we just couldnt take anymore. what we feel for eachother is hurting us both.i cant stop thinking about him is involuntary.especially when he reminds me all the time that he loves me on text mesages.the problem is we are both unhapilly married.i am married to a husband that changed the scond i said i do.and him to an alcoholic.

2006-10-05 16:54:42 · 5 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont get this. I've had girls get mad at me for not asking them out, yet when I hit on them they didnt act like they were intrested in me. They play hard to get forever and then wonder why us men move to greener pastures. Why shoot yourself in the foot like this??????

2006-10-05 16:54:35 · 7 answers · asked by 571234 6 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been dating for about 4 months now. I haven't trusted him because of little things he has told me and some "coincidental" things that have happened. I spyed in his email yesterday and found that he had signed up to a "bed buddy" dating site mid last year. When I saw that it freaked me out. I asked him about it and he completely denied it even after I had shown him the site with all of his information on it. CC info, name, he had some friends on there. Even tho I showed him everything in his face he denied it. He even swore upon his mother and everything he knows. It bothered me a bit but not as much as him lying to me in my face. I need some opinions. Oh yea It was just a one month subscription.

2006-10-05 16:53:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

we live together and I need this to be as painless and less confrontational and quick as possible to get him out of my home.

2006-10-05 16:53:16 · 12 answers · asked by nene 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend lives with me (and off me), I have tried numersous times to get him to move out , or put him out and he comes back like nothing happened. I have most recently changed my locks and he has no key. I would move out if this were his place but its mine and everthing is in my name so I can't leave. I just started a great new job, my kids are in schools, and I am finishing college up so I have too many ties to just leave. How can I get him out asap? Really, I am just scared to ask him to leave anymore b/c what person in their right mind stays with all the things I have done to put his *** out.He has been physically abusive once before and he is verbally and mentally abusive to me and my children alot lately and my kids are scarred to stay home w/ him anymore. My boyfriend an I have a child together and this is the only thinkg holding me back b/c he is so young that I depend on him for childcare of his son. No one is willing to take on me and 3 kids at once. What can I do.

2006-10-05 16:51:35 · 21 answers · asked by nene 3 in Singles & Dating

the color of life through my eyes are dark and gloomy with a hint of flashes of light. What about yours?

2006-10-05 16:50:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my bf just so annoying. he wants a long relationship i'm not sure if i'm ready. he says if i lose u i will died.

2006-10-05 16:50:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating