do you think it's right that
my babys dad gets to do whatever he wants whenever he wants 24-7 (when he's not working) while i'm away at college with the baby struggling?
we're are together but it just doesnt seem fair to me.
even when we go to visit him he spends more time with other people than us.
kinda feel used for sex cause everytime i go back and we see eachother that is the first thing we do.
what do you think about that?
I Love him with all my heart but he does things that make me think.
2006-10-05 16:58:29 · 9 answers · asked by lady_luv 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
p.s.
we are trying for another baby does that change anyting?
2006-10-05 17:27:12 · update #1
Yeah he needs to grow up and be a dad and a boyfriend. When U got kids your whole life changes and u cant go out with your friends like u used to. He needs to spend more time with u. and it does sound like he is using u for sex. You need to lay down the law to him and if he dont wont to give in then u need to get away.
2006-10-05 17:04:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't seem fair to you because it isn't.....
If you're still together (which is what I am wondering) you both need to work together to make each other happy. However if you 2 get together and the first thing you do is hop in bed, who's at fault?
You for letting it happen, or him for expecting it?
I say cross your legs until he talks to you and shows some respect for you and your baby.
If you're separated then you have no business hopping in bed with him at all and I would say it's on you to end the sex part of it and keep it a daddy-baby visit.
2006-10-05 17:14:20 · answer #2 · answered by KIRRA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT'S OBVIOUSE THAT HE IS ONLY USING YOU FOR THAT!! WHILE YOU ARE AWAY HE HAS NO RESPONSIBILITY AT ALL SO HE CAN DO WHAT EVER HE WANT'S AND THEN WHEN IT'S TIME FOR HIM TO DO HIS THING HE WILL DO IT WHEN YOU COME DOWN!! HE ISN'T WORTH IT IF HE WAS A MAN HE WOULD BE WITH YOU HELPING YOU OUT WITH THE BABY SO YOU CAN STUDY!! HE ISN'T WORTH HIM TRUST ME THERE ARE PLENTY OF OTHER BETTER MEN THEN HIM OUT THERE WHO IS RESPECT YOU AND TREAT YOU WAY BETTER THEN WHAT HE DOES!!
2006-10-05 17:02:40 · answer #3 · answered by pqr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it does sound like hes using u! the next time u see him ask him if he can watch the kid for awhile.
2006-10-05 17:02:24 · answer #4 · answered by ashley b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop giving in so much
sounds like he is using you for one thing, and one thing alone.. sex
You need the ring on your finger or you walk
2006-10-05 17:00:57 · answer #5 · answered by Mopar Muscle Gal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he is using you! Stop having sex w/ him and watch what he will do!
2006-10-05 17:02:31 · answer #6 · answered by nene 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IT NOT FAIR TO YOU AND YOUR CHILD. BUT YOU ARE ALLOWING THIS TO HAPPEN, HE IS USING YOU FOR SEX
AND THAT ALL, AND YOU DESERVE MUCH MORE THAN THAT
AND I WOULD LET HIM KNOW THAT YOU DONT APPRECIATE
THIS BEHAVIOR, BUT ONLY YOU CAN STOP WHAT HAPPEN
TO YOU. GOOD LUCK.
2006-10-05 17:15:24 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no idea is like that
2006-10-05 17:16:32 · answer #8 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well women are a sex objects. so duh
2006-10-05 16:59:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋