today i had a serious conversation with my friend. asked him if it was cool for both of us to forget what we have said to each other,and everything we wanted for eachother.we both espressed how we feel about not being able to be with eachother.and we both been hurting for that.he asked me what i thought was gonna make me feel better.my answer to that is be with him,but cant.so i just told him the only option i have i dont want to put it into action. i have never been lucky,in this matter. now i found someone who makes me feel special,loved,apreciated.i do the same for him.we only been intimate once and it was spontanious.we didnt planed it, we just couldnt take anymore. what we feel for eachother is hurting us both.i cant stop thinking about him is involuntary.especially when he reminds me all the time that he loves me on text mesages.the problem is we are both unhapilly married.i am married to a husband that changed the scond i said i do.and him to an alcoholic.
2006-10-05 16:54:42 · 5 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we just stay in because our counselor said it be damaging for our spouses if we leave them.we met on a marriage counseling group sesion.and for our surprise he work right next to the building where i work.so we became friends.we both went to counseling because our spouses were depressed and it was getting to us in a negative way.but our counselor say we need to be there for them to help them overcome their depresion.
2006-10-05 17:00:25 · update #1
we are both very confused about it.
2006-10-05 17:02:06 · update #2
What is keeping you from getting out of your marriages? If you are not happy then you should take a stand. Not for him but for yourself.
2006-10-05 16:59:05 · answer #1 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your life is yours alone. If you remain in a situation that will continue to result in you being unhappy, then you have only yourself to blame. It is never advisable to leave one relationship to enter into another "better" relationship, but consider the marriage. If you are unhappy with the marriage, go. If you are unhappy with the marriage, but lack the sense of self to make YOURSELF the priority in YOUR life, stay. However, staying in an unsatisfying relationship for someone else's sake is emotional hostage-taking.
2006-10-05 17:08:00 · answer #2 · answered by donkeybigbird 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgiveness is well bit I simply forgive and unwell certainly not act the equal round them my mother used to hit ne while I used to be three and I do not believe her I do something at the back of her again so I simply forgive however I additionally omit!
2016-08-29 07:10:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you put as much effort into your marriages you would not be thinking of each other.
CHEATERS.
2006-10-06 00:22:06 · answer #4 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would suggest u both get divorces and see were that takes u
2006-10-05 17:01:19 · answer #5 · answered by sandy k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋