Do you think this is good for waiting so it willl be special when i find him or i am just a dork or something and never gonna get a man.
2006-10-05 16:56:59 · 12 answers · asked by *~LuV fRoM aBoVe~* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I did not have a boyfriend until I was 20, that is a little extreme, but I had things to do I wasen't all obsesed about boys, and nothing is wrong with that, everyone is ready at their own time, I have a daughter that is 12 and one that is 13 and yes they talk about boys but neither of them have a boyfriend. If your friends are so involved with their boyfriends look for that girl like you that is now sitting alone wondering what happened to her friends. You will be much more ahead in life, you will see broken hearts and all kinds of things that you will be so glad you are not a part of. Enjoy being 13 it is a great time, get focused because while they are focusing on one thing a boy you can focus on so much more, music, acting, pets, etc. My daughter just made a new friend at school (a girl) and she is so excited because we are all going to the mall together to get Halloween stuff, think of things like that. You are so far from a Dork I hope you realize that.
2006-10-05 17:04:30 · answer #1 · answered by whattheheck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U are 13 my dear not 93 and never had a man. And if you were 93 and still havent found a man, as long as you can say you lived your life full of happiness then more power to you. Society puts pressure on people, especially women to "find a man" and they say your life is not complete until you have one in your life. I say girl, you are 13!!!!! Enjoy your time with your friends, figure out your hobbies and do something constructive. Stop worrying about finding a boyfriend, they are immature at your age anyways....who needs them.
2006-10-06 00:01:54 · answer #2 · answered by dlite1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At age 13 there are more important things to be thinking about than boys. Do you have any hobbies or sports you like? I say that you arent a dork- you just need some time to grow into yourself. Good luck- and spend more time worrying about school- it will take you farther than boys EVER will!
2006-10-05 23:59:49 · answer #3 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg girl! Good for you!! Honestly, be proud you dont have a bf! Your only 13, you have plenty of time to worry about this. If you hold off now, when the perfect one does come along, you'll know and you'll be ready! Look at all those young girls out there who have had multiple sex partners and what not, its terrible! I lost my virginity to the father of my child, you wont ever understand how special that is unless you wait :) Good luck and dont follow peer pressure!
2006-10-05 23:59:53 · answer #4 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 13 years old. This is not something you should be worrying about. Enjoy being young, having friends, going to school. Boyfriends will come eventually, you don't have to rush things. Believe me, someday you will look back and wonder why you worried about this so much. You need to grow up and learn about yourself before you try to learn about someone else.
2006-10-06 00:01:02 · answer #5 · answered by Cherry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is normal and at that age, I advice you to enjoy your childhood before you turn 16. Trust me, alot of things will be happening you just want to a child again. Take the time sweety and don't rush to grow up. It's not as fun as people make it out to be... unless you want to start taking on responsibilities...
2006-10-06 00:00:17 · answer #6 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're thirteen, of course it's normal. I had my first boyfriend sophomore year, and my first kiss too. In fact, in my middle school only three or four girls ever dated, and that just meant they were sluts or would grow up to be sluts. Your first boyfriend or kiss probably won't be special out of being special, just special out of being the first and having those weird flaws, first isn't always the best.
2006-10-06 00:03:47 · answer #7 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really shouldn't be asking complete strangers these kind of questions or even advertising your age. I have a teenage son and preteen daughter and, as a dad, I seriously think you should stick to IM'ing your real friends - people you know from school. (unless you're a cop, and if so, book em Dano).
2006-10-06 00:12:16 · answer #8 · answered by Rob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i didn't get my first boyfriend until i was 15... most girls don't have boyfriends until they are older than you think... it may seem like the opposite, but you would be suprised... don't worry it gets SO much easier! you have so much more tiem to date and meet people.. don't stress it!!!! good luck!
2006-10-06 00:03:15 · answer #9 · answered by confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think its its good for waiting, that way when u find the right man, it'll be like heaven!
2006-10-06 00:00:10 · answer #10 · answered by ashley b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋