We broke up 3 months ago, were together 7.5 years.It was mainly my fault,I messed up,just got complacent and took her love for granted.Anyhow I realised what I had when she left me and went and saw professional help about all my issues and really turned my life around.I have honestly amazed her and despite her initial uncertainty in our future things seem to be turning round.We started dating again about 3 weeks ago and have been having a ball together.Talking like we used to and really enjoying each others company.After our last date wed night she came back to our house (she moved out and I still live there) and we had great sex and she even stayed the night in my bed and we fell asleep talking,cuddling and i was stroking her hair like i used too.Then for the first time since the break up she called me last night for a general chat,nothing in particular,just for a chat.I am letting her initiate all contact with me and giving her the space she asked for.What do you guys think?
2006-10-05 16:57:10 · 7 answers · asked by whitey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That sounds wonderful sir. It's nice to see a guy admit when hes wrong and willing to go to great lengths to prove his love. Giving her space and letting her initiate all contact is great but there is a negative side to this as well. She might feel your not trying and you need to prove your love to her and your sincerity. You dont need to be a pest and become an annoyance to her. One of the most sincere ways to show love is to restrain from sexual indulgence and to allow her the time she needs. Court her properly and be patient. Treat her as if there is no one else in the world. Ask her out on dates or just a nice quiet evening infront of the fireplace w/a glass of wine and talk about memories or what you want to do. Be very interested in her life, never failing to ask how her day was or anything of interest to her and be interested in it. Dont just let it go w/her saying "oh today was busy", you want details. Inform her of your day or what you'd like to do. Become one.
2006-10-05 17:10:49 · answer #1 · answered by Ivory_Flame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are headed in the right direction. Continue you to give her space, be understanding and supportive.
2006-10-05 23:59:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations! I think she wants you back...
Yeah, people screwed up sometimes, but people changes too....
2006-10-06 00:02:03 · answer #3 · answered by Jasmine Ird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep up the grat job...hope it works out
2006-10-06 00:02:25 · answer #4 · answered by butterfly_kisses81501 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound like you two are having a good time, sound like she really like you too!
2006-10-06 00:02:52 · answer #5 · answered by birdsdafly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she will always have in her mind what has happened in the past....trust me been there..done that..
2006-10-06 00:01:23 · answer #6 · answered by buffy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it up
2006-10-06 00:00:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋