We have been dating for about 4 months now. I haven't trusted him because of little things he has told me and some "coincidental" things that have happened. I spyed in his email yesterday and found that he had signed up to a "bed buddy" dating site mid last year. When I saw that it freaked me out. I asked him about it and he completely denied it even after I had shown him the site with all of his information on it. CC info, name, he had some friends on there. Even tho I showed him everything in his face he denied it. He even swore upon his mother and everything he knows. It bothered me a bit but not as much as him lying to me in my face. I need some opinions. Oh yea It was just a one month subscription.
2006-10-05 16:53:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He shouldn't have lied, for sure. However, if he did this before you and he began dating, what difference does it make? But if he lies about this, when faced with the evidence, he could be lying about other things as well. Be careful.
2006-10-05 16:58:13 · answer #1 · answered by Cherry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i does not difficulty approximately it... he would have signed up just to look at pictures of bare human beings. some websites won't permit you look on the photographs of human beings until eventually you create an account... or maybe he's telling the certainty and he never signed up. My buddy Mark is married to a Korean woman who does not understand the existence-style here and while she appeared in his digital mail she on the instant freaked out and does not talk to him for days! What she observed replaced into all those common canned spams that each and every physique gets asserting "hi it quite is cindy from the personals, thank you for writing to me and look at my information superhighway cam!" and different others like it and replaced into completely confident that he replaced into cheating on her with a majority of those information superhighway chicks. i'm no longer asserting that that's what it is, yet you never understand. Plus in case you have been courting for decrease than 4 months and this befell mid final 365 days then it is going to possibly no longer subject you. you basically invaded the adult men privateness and have been given mad at him for something from formerly you have been courting him. I as quickly as heard somebody say that a question that has no appropriate to be asked does not deserve a trustworthy answer. He would experience an analogous way.
2016-10-15 21:34:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find someone new. How could he lie when you had all of that evidence? Don't allow yourself to be disrespected. The fact that he lied is the issue, not the subscription itself (since it was purchased before you met). Follow your instinct!
2006-10-05 16:59:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We dont need to tell you something you already know...If this is happening 4 months into your relationship, imagine what he'll be doing in a yrs time? You deserve better, someone who will be honest to you so maybe its better you found out earlier rather than later. Dont let him get to you, his loss, NOT yours!!
2006-10-05 16:57:48 · answer #4 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This was before you guys were dating, who cares. He probably forgot about it (or not). He's probably lying because he's extremely embarrassed. It was kinda wrong of you to go into his email and then confront him about something he did last year.
2006-10-05 16:58:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on who the e mails are from some people chat online to girls and flirt but they could be from the far side of the world and its just a bit of fun their never going to see them if its someone you know then dump him
2006-10-05 16:59:14 · answer #6 · answered by mcdonnellbrendan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen darling I'm not gonna tell you to leave him, give him another chance and lay it out on the table by telling him that one more lie and I'm out of here, tell him things that will make him not do it again. not bad things; but tell him the plain truth and things that will get a hold on him if he means you good.
2006-10-05 17:21:03 · answer #7 · answered by sam-sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is lying to you about this, what else has he been lying about? I think it is time for you to dump this dude and find yourself an honest companion.
2006-10-05 16:57:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need to make this guy your ex. Good luck to you
2006-10-05 16:56:24 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater always a cheater, even if its on line
2006-10-05 17:02:34 · answer #10 · answered by ***dreamcatcher**** 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋