Family & Relationships - 5 October 2006

I just started doing Q&A, but I've seen some of the answers and I'm probably going to get some pretty mixed results with this loaded question. On the other hand, I've seen a wild mix of questions, so what the hell. I'm a 33-yo guy and I've always acted about 10 years younger than I'm supposed to. I just finished my 2nd degree after a weak career path and so I've spent 5 years in college town. During this time, I've been dating 20-23 year old girls, which gets mixed opinions, but I just treat everyone like a person and often neglect the age difference. Since I graduated, I've suddenly become aware of the age difference and practically cut ties with everyone that I used to hang out with. I've taken a job in this college town and I'm finding it very tough to figure out where to meet girls that aren't in college. As a result, I work all day and spend evenings and weekends at home alone. Everything else in my life is great, just need to find that girl now. Ok, fire away kids!

2006-10-05 17:25:51 · 16 answers · asked by chemicalburn2003 2 in Singles & Dating

what happened.

Did she choose you?

Did you choose her?

Are you still married?

Did you marry your lover?

Did it blow up in your face?

2006-10-05 17:25:32 · 10 answers · asked by Tian 3 in Marriage & Divorce

In 2003 i was pregnant with our first baby i was only 19 and my husband and bestfriend/his bestfriends fiance , fooled around. Nothing major he promises. But I forgave him , but I missed my friend so now a couple years later i called her to see how she was. she did apologize after it happened. But after talking to her i am hurt again. I dont know what to do ? Am I just being stupid. I want to be her friend but im afraid that there will still be feelings between her and my husband. And it makes me all depressed . What should I do??

2006-10-05 17:23:13 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

So my dog started to hump her. then she said i am gonna break up with u cuz of ur dog. And my dog i love more then anyone in the world. he is blind and def.

2006-10-05 17:22:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-05 17:21:21 · 9 answers · asked by mimiisin 1 in Family

This is about sitting across from someone on the couch or on the floor, etc. and putting your feet (barefoot or with socks) against their feet (also barefoot or with socks on) and pressing feet to feet, rubbing feet to feet together with them. Do you all think that this should only be done between two people that are dating? Or is it okay to do with friends and anyone else? Who do you do this with?

2006-10-05 17:19:03 · 12 answers · asked by sports3430 1 in Singles & Dating

Talking to this a guy on the phone I really like but he lives all the way in another state, I keep trying to just talk with him on the phone and figure out if I really like him or if he likes me or if it would ever wk if he moved back or whatever, anyways... my shyness always kicks me in the butt and I find I cant even talk right? what the hell is this? I have known him for awahile just cant get to know him.

2006-10-05 17:18:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-05 17:18:41 · 20 answers · asked by tiffany m 2 in Singles & Dating

My son is 36 years old, and he wants to have his own child. He is going through a divorce, and I told him that he would meet someone that can have a child with him.
He tells me that he is too old to have a kid. He has been married twice and both ladies had kids when he married them, and their tubes were tied.
I know if he could find the right lady to have a kid with, he would be the happiest man ever.
Do you think he is too old to be a father?

2006-10-05 17:16:58 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If it is your eldest kid and that too a son......

2006-10-05 17:16:56 · 5 answers · asked by relaxplease2005 3 in Family

My Girl-friend has be neglecting me too much lately... i used to hold her all the time... now i dont because she claims it irratates her. i used to cuddle with her.. but i cant anymor ebecause her parents dont like it and since i live at her house i have to abide with their rules and i respect that, but when they arent home she still doesnt cuddle with me and when she does she only does it for 2 effin mins.. im 22 shes 19 and weve been dating for almost a year and not till now have i thought about telling her that i need more attention or im gone. i dont know how to say it... she yells at me to tell me to spend time with her and when i do, she just complains about everything and whatever i say doesnt help.... and when shes cleaning and i ask her if she needs help she tells me she doesnt need it so i go on the computer to myspace just to talk to friends and she flips the hell out and tells me to spend time with her and i go over to spend time with her and she bails out on me...

2006-10-05 17:16:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been thru so many storms in my life and honestly I;m feed up with the love thing so I was wondering is it possible to start a relationship knowing that you wont allow yourself to fall in love.

2006-10-05 17:16:02 · 15 answers · asked by cubby12 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I'm forteen, and I have a boyfriend. We've been going out for two months or so, and I really like him. The problem is that things have started to get more serious, and he wants to kiss me. Luckily before, we've always had interruptions, so he hasn't gotten the chance to do so yet. I was wondering can you tell me how to kiss someone, or give me tips, or anything and everything? Please tell me what to do, or how to do it, because kissing looks complicated, and from the way I've read it in some books, it sounds complicated too.. Like where do you put you tongue? How do you deal with saliva? Etc. Please help me. Youtube video links are fine, I just really would like to know how... Tips, and/ or intructions are the best... Thanks!

2006-10-05 17:15:27 · 19 answers · asked by GeTtHeExTrAcReDiTcUzIaM2mUcH4yOu 2 in Singles & Dating

If my ex didn't have such a big *ick I would have been over him so quickly. I feel so shallow but no one can please me sexually like he did. How can I get over this? I don't want to seem sex obsesses but it was just so good. I haven't been with anyone nearly as big and everyone else just makes me feel loose and bored in bed. I had one guy come close, but what can I do?

2006-10-05 17:14:48 · 5 answers · asked by coochie1 2 in Singles & Dating

i just wanted to know cuz . . .

2006-10-05 17:14:44 · 7 answers · asked by i am the dream u r the dreamer 5 in Friends

Can anyone explain this to me? I've noticed a lot of girls who love to talk and are really outgoing like guys who are shy. Maybe they find them interesting and want to try to bring them out of their shell?

2006-10-05 17:14:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How unatractive is a unibrow to you?

2006-10-05 17:13:33 · 11 answers · asked by Oceans 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been dating for about 4 months now. I haven't trusted him because of little things he has told me and some "coincidental" things that have happened. I spyed in his email yesterday and found that he had signed up to a "bed buddy" dating site mid last year. When I saw that it freaked me out. I asked him about it and he completely denied it even after I had shown him the site with all of his information on it. CC info, name, he had some friends on there. Even tho I showed him everything in his face he denied it. He even swore upon his mother and everything he knows. It bothered me a bit but not as much as him lying to me in my face. I need some opinions. Oh yea It was just a one month subscription.

2006-10-05 17:12:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my parents are on my back about it, mostly to have kids, and i dont want to at all, to me their are to many kids out their who need us, and dont have anyone to love them, what about them, anyway im only 29, when i look at the way my brother treats his wife, and the kids are their to see it all, i just dont want to turn out like them, and my parents use to fight all the time, over little thing's, so i moves out when i was 18, i just dont want to end up like anyone in my family, cause i see what it has done to the rest of them, the women go through hell, so im turned off of getting married and haveing kids, i look after my brothers kids all the time, and i love kid,s but why wont my family just leave me alone

2006-10-05 17:12:15 · 4 answers · asked by louise 3 in Family

I am a married woman. My friend is a married man. Our families are fairly close - we have each other over for dinner, sledding in the winter, swimming in the summer.

He and I have a lot in common and are quite close due to all of the similarities between us. We recently discovered we have very similar tastes in music, and he asked if I would make a copy of a certain CD for him. I did, and he reciprocated with NINE cds...many of them with suggestive lyrics such as Hinder's "Lips of an Angel" and The Darkness' "Growing On Me", and Kiss' "I Was Made For Lovin' You".

Does this strike any of you as strange? Would it appear he is trying to send a message or is this simply coincidence?

Thanks,

Kate

2006-10-05 17:12:10 · 3 answers · asked by Katie Mac 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is this going to screw my future up. I'm scared I"m goin to be a bad kisser/girlfriend!

2006-10-05 17:11:32 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my son is 7 and always thought as his stepfather as daddy who he love unconditionally, and never get to see his real dad! but when my husband (step dad)get mad at me says he got one child. I got 2 son, one by my husband.

2006-10-05 17:10:52 · 17 answers · asked by birdsdafly 3 in Family

A man that you been with for 2 years all of a sudden breaks up with you and dont give u a reason why,then when you talk to him he acts like he didnt do anything wrong.Then he gets upset at you when you ask him why cant the two of you be together anymore.

2006-10-05 17:10:41 · 8 answers · asked by Kittylicious 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for four years, and have a great sex life. My husband agrees, but there is one problem. He loves porno and I simply hate it. He asks of me to be the perfect woman and cook and clean and I do. He is into church and wants me to be that perfect woman in the bible. So why cant he stop looking at porn. This is a bad thing to do? In the bible it says right? I have caught him lots of times and he only apologizes and says he loves me.
He has a myspace account and lists himself as single. He gets a lot of invites to view by cam online? Should I worry? He swears to me that he will never cheat on me. I am stressed and almost thinking of divorce. He knows it hurts me but he doesnt stop.

2006-10-05 17:09:00 · 26 answers · asked by tinkerbell 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have asked him back several times & he keeps telling me no. Why do I put myself through this?? It was a 22 yr. marriage. I left him because he popped pills & drank. I had to leave. Why can't I get him off my mind. I've made such a fool of myself by asking him back. HELP!!

2006-10-05 17:08:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She takes care of herself, does her makeup, puts perfume on, dresses properly for the occasion at hand. Does it really matter to you? I used to not do so much with myself and now I do alot and I get a lot more attention from guys, but wil they want to see me at my worst, when I first wake up in the morning?

2006-10-05 17:08:01 · 11 answers · asked by tigger32188 1 in Singles & Dating

i get kinda jelouse of my girlfriends friends and i say some mean things about them because i dont like them she wants me to be less judgmental and tonight she got realy upset and walked out of my house and went home and doesnt want me to be around or atleast treat her as my girlfriend for a few days. this happens sometimes but not under these circumstances. i want her to be happy again and want to work out our problems but i know i should give her space. but i want to say sorry and have it have meaning i appologize for alot of things and i dont want this to seem like just any old sorry. does anyone know how i can say sorry in a way that will make her know i realy mean sorry and that i had no intent of hurting her. anything i can think of will just make her mad and i fu*k up a lot so i want this to mean it. our 3rd annaversary is coming up on the 11th and i am broke so i cant just take her out but i want her to be happy even if i cant do anything. suggestions please and real answers!!!

2006-10-05 17:05:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have just finished giving birth to my son who is just 1 month and 3 weeks old. I do not know if its my "mother figure" or my current appareance that is making my husband lies to me about his female co-workers.

My husband and I had a huge fight about this girl named Winnie (who interned at his workplace) 2 weeks before I went into labor. He called her a lot (although each phone call only lasted a few minutes) and he emailed her saying stuff about his likings and he wishes they can keep in touch. He got mad at me for looking through his email account and phone. I only did it is because he was acting a little weird.

Until now, he still talks to Winnie. He said she was hired for the weekened (my hubby works on weekend too) and then got fired recently. Now, my hubby is talking to another girl named Sara who is working on the weekend too.

Tonight, I missed my hubby call. When I got a chance to call him back, it went straight to voice mail. I called him 4 times.

2006-10-05 17:05:40 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend likes receiving massages and i think it would be more special if i gave her one myself. Ladies, what are some that make you just go crazy?

2006-10-05 17:04:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for 7.5 years. We split up for 2 weeks, where I did not see anyone else. We also plit up for about 1.5 months, where I did date someone else. We have been back together now for 3 months now. We have 2 children together. I work full-time and go to school full time. He:

>monitors my pc
>accuses me of things I have not done
>fights with me in front of the kids
>calls me a w**** at least twice a week
>tells me I am selfish for going to school
>traps me in the house when we are arguing, refuses to let me out
>throws food and liquids on me
>makes me call him from work (to prove I am there)
>won't give me money (even mine)
>gives me 50.00 a week to buy groceries for a family of four
>has been violent with me when I was pregnant
>told me I was lazy after I miscarried

..because I don't think this is normal. He is crazy if you ask me. Before our last seperation, I have never given him any reason to act like this. I am faithful.

2006-10-05 17:04:15 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce