Did you have an affair?

Question

what happened.

Did she choose you?

Did you choose her?

Are you still married?

Did you marry your lover?

Did it blow up in your face?

Answer 1

Never have, never will. Don't believe in cheating. Thought about it once, for about two seconds. Been propositioned twice, turned them both down flat.

Answer 2

We worked together and the affair went on for a bit over a year. I ended up divorcing my wife after I told her about the affair. That was 4 years ago. We stayed in close contact and actually came close to being back together but it recently went south. And in that 4 years I have not seen the ex lover once since I moved away. Affairs manage to hurt everyone involved and there is never a good outcome from them. Whenever you have 3 people's hearts on the line at least one of you but probably all 3 are going to get hurt really bad. And that is the biggest lesson I could ever tell someone. No matter what happens everyone will be hurt and none of you will come out of it the same as you went into it. And in my case the guilt is something that has never gone away to this day of what I did.

Answer 3

After years that my ex wife didn't want to be with me in the biblical sense. knowing in my mind that the relationship was over. I was not looking for an affair and just happened one day with a friend. I broke off the affair but was harder to break off the friendship. I ended up filing for divorce after 4 more years of trying to save a doom marriage. What helped me make the decision to file was doing time line of the marriage and discovering why I was so unhappy in a dysfunctional marriage. No I didn't marry my lover but remained friends and I don't believe that i blew up in my face it actually got me out of a bad Marriage and happier being out than trying to fix something that was broke so many years ago.

Answer 4

Met a 19 year old nympho during my first marriage.

We mutually chose each other.

I'm happily married, have no intention of cheating, this one is a keeper!

No, did not have a long term relationship. Just tore it up for a few weeks, then she stalked me, LOL!

No, didn't get caught. Felt guilty, but knowing the crushing heartache and pain my ex was going to put me through I would have cheated all the time.

Answer 5

Yes.
I was dating some guy I thought I'd grow to like but instead, I grew to hate him. He said the dumbest ****, lied about the dumbest **** just to have a conversation and was just overall a dumbass. I cheated on him a few times by sleeping with my ex who I'm still in love with. I treated my now ex like garbage yet he still stuck with me. I started to completely ignore him and he finally got the message a month later.

I'm still with the ex I cheated on him with, my dumbass ex never found out.

Answer 6

yes, we chose each other and fell in love w/each other, hated that I cheated but had been left emotionally due to illness years ago..was careful and discreet...never had felt the love before that I felt for the person...no, didn't marry him, wasn't ever going to be able to, no didn't blow up but ended and am sad..miss him already...will care all the rest of my life...bettter to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.....never thought I could have ever done this...will never regret it

Answer 7

i had a affair with a married woman, but i did not know at the time that she was married. it was fun and exciting, we traveled and played all sorts or sex games. she finally confessed and we went our seperate ways!

Answer 8

18 years no.

Answer 9

Yes, HE pursued me. NO, HE'S not married anymore and I wasn't at the time we "dated". NO, we did not marry. YES, it blew up in my face.

YES, he left his wife. NO, he didn't leave her for me. YES, he left me for someone else. Would I ever do this again? NO

Answer 10

no never will