Where do I find my next serious relationship?

Question

I just started doing Q&A, but I've seen some of the answers and I'm probably going to get some pretty mixed results with this loaded question. On the other hand, I've seen a wild mix of questions, so what the hell. I'm a 33-yo guy and I've always acted about 10 years younger than I'm supposed to. I just finished my 2nd degree after a weak career path and so I've spent 5 years in college town. During this time, I've been dating 20-23 year old girls, which gets mixed opinions, but I just treat everyone like a person and often neglect the age difference. Since I graduated, I've suddenly become aware of the age difference and practically cut ties with everyone that I used to hang out with. I've taken a job in this college town and I'm finding it very tough to figure out where to meet girls that aren't in college. As a result, I work all day and spend evenings and weekends at home alone. Everything else in my life is great, just need to find that girl now. Ok, fire away kids!

Answer 1

The best kind of luck that worked for me is simply not to look for any one. I think, perhaps, good people are driven off if they think you are trying.
If you just go on with life and let friendships happen, who knows how one of those friendships will turn out?

Answer 2

Hey Chem,

No kid here, but I was married for lots of years, then divorced. I know where you can meet women of all ages and backgrounds. TAKE DANCING LESSONS at a studio where they give group lessons. You don't say what college town you are in, but I bet the college has dance lessons for the general public.

I know here in San Antonio, there are 10 places to take dance lessons. Most are pay when you show up, but some are certain number of classes for a set amount.

Good Luck ( or email me if you need more specifics )

Answer 3

So, you were getting some, or a lot, from the young college girls and now you want something serious. I'm sure you'll find someone in your workplace, get out more but avoid the college scene.

Answer 4

Haha you calling me a kid? Hehe... Is 25 yo a kid to you? LOL! Sorry I couldn't help it. Sounds like my dream guy although you are too far away. I come from the land down under where vegemite is consumed for breakfast and beer washes it down... I'd like to be your friend but............

Go to the pubs with a bunch of friends after work would be my advice.

Cheers!

Answer 5

Honestly, I don't think anyone finds a serious relationship I think it finds you. Another thing is "Love has no age" I am a 36 year old and I am in a serious relationship with a 22 year old. so when you fall in love I don't think age will have anything to do with it. Its just important they are ove 21.(smile)

Answer 6

Well I believe you find love when you stop looking for it. I think you are getting tired of these young girls and you want a real woman! Just do the things that you usually do. Love has its way of sneaking up on you when you least expect it!

Answer 7

interesting, at least you are being honest, you can go for coffee alone, some girls will approach you to find out why you are alone, take a book and they will ask what its about, or you can join a cheesy club, and if you really want to find a good one, befriend a fat girl (I'm a fat girl) and she will ALWAYS have hot gfs, its an unspoken rule, LOL, and pick one of them up, there are a lot of ways

Answer 8

Dont look for love becaue then it wont be real, if its meant to be it will find you. Now on the other hand if you just want to find somebody to casually date then go to a sports bar or a club.

Answer 9

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Answer 10

If you have co-workers, both male and female, who are around your age, ask them where the thirtyish crowd hangs out. There's usually a few bars or nightclubs that are favorites.