Ok, so I'm forteen, and I have a boyfriend. We've been going out for two months or so, and I really like him. The problem is that things have started to get more serious, and he wants to kiss me. Luckily before, we've always had interruptions, so he hasn't gotten the chance to do so yet. I was wondering can you tell me how to kiss someone, or give me tips, or anything and everything? Please tell me what to do, or how to do it, because kissing looks complicated, and from the way I've read it in some books, it sounds complicated too.. Like where do you put you tongue? How do you deal with saliva? Etc. Please help me. Youtube video links are fine, I just really would like to know how... Tips, and/ or intructions are the best... Thanks!
2006-10-05 17:15:27 · 19 answers · asked by GeTtHeExTrAcReDiTcUzIaM2mUcH4yOu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Think of it as massaging each other's tongue in the same sense that one massages someone else's back with their hands. First, both of you must be in a romantic frame of mind, it doesn't work otherwise. I've tried, believe me. Then the dominant partner takes the submissive one in their arms and brings them slowly together in an embrace, their mouths slightly open, and you take your tongue and roll it slowly around his. He's doing the same thing as you are. How long you do it depends on how romantic you feel, I am sure you have observed adults kissing, sometimes they go in for the long haul and sometimes they just peck each other on the cheek. About saliva, if this disgusts you and you are thinking in terms of his germs invading your body, you're in the wrong frame of mind for kissing, you are being logical and not romantic. Uh, if he has a beak instead of a nose, God help you. You may find his nose rather than his tongue in your mouth. Before you kiss anybody, make sure they have brushed their teeth and mouthwashed, one of my ex girlfriends kept giving me incredibly bad breath due to her eating junk food all the time, and a couple times I actually had to vomit after she kissed me. It's really the timing that is hard to figure. Ask yourself how you feel, and if you feel romantic, seize it! Once the moment is gone it isn't coming back. Hope this helps you.
2006-10-05 18:33:32 · answer #1 · answered by Wilanas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ususally a first kiss doesn't involve tongue. It is most commonly an awkward moment for both but without that first kiss, you won't learn how to be better. It all comes with practice and it is different with every person. The more you do it the more you will learn about what you both like and what works best. It may be scary but go for it. Believe me, in the long run it is definetly worth it. He obvioulsy wants to kiss you, He will most likely get a certain look in his eyes. Since you two are fairly young, he may not know what to do either. But kissing should be natural. Just lean in for it and enjoy the ride.
2006-10-05 17:21:35 · answer #2 · answered by Meagan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in preserving with a pair solutions, right here in France we also greet one yet another by skill of kissing on the cheek... even guy/female, no matter if one or both are in a relationship with some different person. would not wonder all of us. *lol* except that... properly, interior and out of doors relationships. I recommend, often times relationships start up with a spontaneous kiss. It would not could bypass, first date, second date, then kiss. yet if you're in a relationship, of direction you aren't any more going to kiss all of us who isn't your boyfriend/lady friend. and that i don't think of human beings could bypass round only kissing each man or woman... yet yeah, there is not any certain answer on your question. it really is fullyyt subjective, and in my view i'd say both. a lot of human beings opt for to attempt earlier taking off a relationship. some do not. And one date infrequently constitutes a relationship, and some human beings kiss on the first date... of direction, many times kissing someone (on the lips) you aren't any more in a relationship with is awkward and must be prevented in my view.
2016-11-26 20:22:55 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well their are only 3 ok answers so far that i have seen to help you out, but dont listen to the man. and your spelling is just fine.
when you go to kiss another on the lips, just dont have your lips to wet or to dry,the last thing a person wants is a lot of spit in their mouth. but hey when your lips touch, just go with the flow, and dont think about it, learn on you hand, you will be fine
2006-10-05 17:37:18 · answer #4 · answered by louise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay first of all its not a big deal. 2 months? You should be kissing by now. Anyways! Okay first you kiss normally then when he opens his mouth you slowly put your tongue in his mouth & touch his tongue. Then it comes naturaly....you basically play with his tongue with yours, touch the top of his teeth with ur tongue ect. Theres not really a way to do it wrong. Just do it slow & not to hard. Dont put your tongue to far in, you dont want to gag him. Its fun...relax.
2006-10-05 17:23:09 · answer #5 · answered by circe459 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not about tips honey.. Its about the enviornment of romance and privacy where you feel free from all distrubance and fear.. There spent few moments talking and then you will do great.. Basically kiss is a natural instinct, do and learn.. you will do great everytime you do it..
2006-10-05 17:19:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If it is your first kiss, I would HIGHLY suggest keeping your lips together. Tongue is best for later on. Just softly pucker and press 'em together. Nothin' to it, trust me!
2006-10-05 17:17:54 · answer #7 · answered by Susie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just close your eyes go with it. Dont be a slob though and stick your tounge deep in his mouth etc..
2006-10-05 17:18:00 · answer #8 · answered by Oceans 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok im not the one for the best source of an answer but you put your tounge in his mouth. If you trust him swallow his spit. If you don't wait until he is gone or say you need to go to the bathroom then spit it out.
2006-10-05 17:18:17 · answer #9 · answered by wickboom333 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
first off.... its not complicated... really all u have 2 doo is make contact and suck his lips in and just continue it and dont worry u will get the hang of it over time... lol i know i dident know how like 3 months ago and then i got some nerve up and now we kiss like pros good luck ;)
2006-10-05 17:18:46 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋