Life's a gamble. There's no way of really "knowing." Be wary of red flags of abusive behavior, yet be tolerant of the little things that aren't worth fighting over.
Also, keep in mind that time can change people. All the time we hear of people complaining "That's not the same person I married."
Good luck to you!
2006-10-05 17:23:06
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answered by thezaylady 7
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i wonder that myself. some people say you just do. but i kinda think i'll never really know, because i never really Know anything. No relationship will be perfect. you just have to make sure the good out weighs the bad. And don't compare yourself to other couples, this will only make you feel like your relationship does not measure up. because the thing is, what works for some couples does not always work for others. i guess you can wait it out and see if you "find out" or just take a leap of faith.
2006-10-06 00:25:24
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answered by imperfectly 4
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Well, it just feels right. One of the ways I know is that I don't feel like I have to be someone else around him. I don't worry about acting stupid or saying something dumb.
You will still have arguments but you get over them.
2006-10-06 00:29:21
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answered by Angela F 3
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When you choose him, and commit with your heart. There are many, rather than one, in reality, over a lifetime. But the one you let be THE ONE, is your focus, and your choice.
Plus, your breath will change, a pinch in the right places, and his smile will be your smile.
Peace out!
2006-10-06 00:26:27
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answered by rideitmark 2
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When it is someone you are committed to making happy.
The secret to a long-lasting "for life" relationship is not love, it's commitment to one another. Love can fade, but that commitment to each other will get you through those rough times, until love is rekindled.
2006-10-06 00:21:06
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answered by Searcher 7
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you never know marriage in America is a deception.After marriage for a Will we find about each other.
2006-10-06 00:21:47
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answered by Anonymous
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You need to know well the person.And that is taking time (months,years to know it).
2006-10-06 00:22:47
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answered by cobrasnake 6
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you know hes the one when all you can think about is him!
2006-10-06 00:21:54
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answered by ashley b 1
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By your shared dreams and by his non-erotic touch.
2006-10-06 00:20:13
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answered by Joe Cool 6
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you just know
2006-10-06 00:26:07
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answered by Anonymous
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