I've been thru so many storms in my life and honestly I;m feed up with the love thing so I was wondering is it possible to start a relationship knowing that you wont allow yourself to fall in love.
2006-10-05 17:16:02 · 15 answers · asked by cubby12 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why bother then?
2006-10-05 17:27:12 · answer #1 · answered by eyeque195 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have receiver some good answer but the truth is. Love is something that only you can define. the reason that you don't fall in love with the person that you are in a relationship with is because, you are protecting you self from being hurt. This is you way of being able to walk away with out your heart being broking. You can start a Relationship fully know that you don't love that person. One of two thing will happen you will learn that person inside and out. You will the love or dis like him. The other is you will be in the relationship so your not by your self. The love thin is kind of crazy!!!!
2006-10-06 00:59:39 · answer #2 · answered by leadzon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible. I happen to know a few people in that kind of relationship. They're in it based on convenience and a *safe* relationship. Only problem is, when you're with a person for awhile, there will still be a bond and feelings may grow.
2006-10-06 00:23:04 · answer #3 · answered by xugu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Falling in love is not feeling urge for sex, and it's not possible you fall in love with every dick and harry you're with in a relationship. It it is possible you feel urge for sex with anyone due to how hot they look but falling in love with them is deeper than that and it's special. My point is it's not possible you fall in love with everyone, and you should know what falling in love is so that when you truly fall in love, you don't let it go.
2006-10-06 00:23:06 · answer #4 · answered by scooby doo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you fall in love it will be something that you can't help. It will hit you specially when you don't want it. You just have to be pacient and have trust. Put your past behind you and move on. The things taht hurt you only make you stronger!
2006-10-06 00:19:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are not fall in love,you do not need a fake relationship.Love is not working never in that way.That is the reason why many couples live a hell living,without love.And that is the reason why there are thousands of divorces around the world.Good question.
2006-10-06 00:20:39 · answer #6 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you cant make yourself not fall in love. You can try not to fall in love but you might fall in love anyways. Depends on who you are with.
2006-10-06 00:20:01 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes... it is possible. Just act as a friend and don't start expecting things from your partner.
2006-10-06 00:18:22 · answer #8 · answered by relaxplease2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Giving someone all your love is not assurance that they'll love you back. Don't expect love in return. Just be content that it grew in yours. I say let love grow in your heart.
2006-10-06 00:19:13 · answer #9 · answered by mjt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May I suggest that you read this book:
http://acacia.pair.com/Journey.of.the.Heart/abigail/A_1.html
It might change your perspective on love and help you understand how to tackle some of life's most challenging decisions.
2006-10-06 00:41:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it. I have actual proof that its possible.
2006-10-06 00:34:06 · answer #11 · answered by c_mitu89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋