Is this going to screw my future up. I'm scared I"m goin to be a bad kisser/girlfriend!
2006-10-05 17:11:32 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Society these days may make you feel like that but dont be worried...one day it will come and you wil have your first kiss...and first boyfriend...it will come in time...dont rush it or you might get in over your head...or get hurt...or both
2006-10-05 17:14:26 · answer #1 · answered by A Sad Guy... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No hun, I'm 17 and I just had my real kiss(tongue) in april when I was still 16. And the closest thing to a relationship I've had has been an internet boyfriend who I broke up with after a month or so (hey I was 12). And I'm not even a social freak you know one of those who don't socialize with anyone, and are not very attractive. I'm fairly attractive, and I've always had guys like me I guess I'm not big on commitment and that's why it never happened until I had a chance for a one time thing.
My friend is 18 and has never frenchkissed anyon, and she isn't a social outcast either. Don't rush into things they will happen when they are supposed to.
2006-10-05 17:19:26 · answer #2 · answered by c_mitu89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't have my first kiss til I was 16. Although it seems like a big deal right now, it totally isn't. It definitely will not make you a bad kisser or girlfriend! I was naturally a good one ;)
2006-10-05 17:20:39 · answer #3 · answered by Jenna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because other people start goin out at 13 doesn't always mean its the best or right thing. i've never been in a real relationship either and im scared of the same thing lol
2006-10-05 17:14:29 · answer #4 · answered by Jessie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope it's not. I'm 25 and have experienced A LOT! Trust me on this...you are going to have many, many experiences. Enjoy it now do everything you want as a teenager, focus on school and your goals. Tons of guys will come along later but don't let that be your focus now. Guys suck most the time anyway. And I'm not saying all of them do, but for the most part. Don't look for things to happen...they will happen on their own. And it will be all the better when it happens unexpectidly.
2006-10-05 17:17:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not bad to have never been in a relationship & dont let ne one tell u that is, take your time . It wont screw up your future becuz u can always find a bf that will teach u how to kiss.
2006-10-05 17:16:28 · answer #6 · answered by kaye22705 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all, it's commendable in fact.
Stay away from guys, we're nothing but trouble & we only really want one thing (ask around).
We get we're after and then move on to another girl.
Wait ubtil you get your life on track before adding a painful relationship to the mix.
Ask my friends Melissa, Tessie & Sarah.....
they're all over 17 and still have not dated and all they can say is they are soooo happy they don't have to deal with all the crap their other friends go through.
2006-10-05 17:18:44 · answer #7 · answered by KIRRA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not. Some day if you meet a nice man he will be delighted that you did not have any previous relationships. And your family must love your companionship uninterupted by worries over boys. Take your time. You are only more beautiful to those you love and who care about you. Your purity is a gift.
2006-10-05 17:16:49 · answer #8 · answered by abu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fret little one! You'll kiss when you are ready. No hurry, and don't be forced to do anything you're not comfortable with. If you are looking for that first kiss, join clubs that you are interested in. You'll meet new peeps and you'll open up a lot of additional social opportunities. Good luck, you're fine though.
2006-10-05 17:15:59 · answer #9 · answered by babalu2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is neat that you are waiting for the special someone for your first kiss. You have your whole life ahead of you. Enjoy being a teenager. You are not wierd. When the time is right, your boyfriend will cherish you for waiting for him. You'll be a great girlfrien with your head on right, and won't have to carry a lot of past baggage with you.
2006-10-05 17:19:07 · answer #10 · answered by becky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO DON'T BE SILLY!! HEY I DIDN'T KISS A GUY UNTILL I WAS ABOUT 17. I NEVER HAD A BOYFRIEND BEFORE UNTILL I WAS 19. IT WAS MY FIRST RELATIONSHIP AND NOW COMING UP TO ABOUT 3 YEARS LATER WE ARE HAPPLY MARRIED FOR THE PAST 2 MONTHS!! JUST BECAUSE YOU HAVEN'T BEEN KISSED OR HAD BOYFRIEND BY NOW DOESN'T MEAN YOU ARE NOT NORMAL FROM OTHER PEOPLE!! DON'T WORRY YOUR TIME WILL COME SOON!!
2006-10-05 17:15:00 · answer #11 · answered by pqr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋