My Girl-friend has be neglecting me too much lately... i used to hold her all the time... now i dont because she claims it irratates her. i used to cuddle with her.. but i cant anymor ebecause her parents dont like it and since i live at her house i have to abide with their rules and i respect that, but when they arent home she still doesnt cuddle with me and when she does she only does it for 2 effin mins.. im 22 shes 19 and weve been dating for almost a year and not till now have i thought about telling her that i need more attention or im gone. i dont know how to say it... she yells at me to tell me to spend time with her and when i do, she just complains about everything and whatever i say doesnt help.... and when shes cleaning and i ask her if she needs help she tells me she doesnt need it so i go on the computer to myspace just to talk to friends and she flips the hell out and tells me to spend time with her and i go over to spend time with her and she bails out on me...
2006-10-05
17:16:23
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goes to the computer when she just told me to get off to spend time with her. im fine with her talking to guys but not her ex boy-friends and thats the only people she talks to on-line, well, she doesnt talk to them she just effin stares at their profiles... but when i go on just to see how a friend is doing that i ahevnt talked to in years... she flips.... i dont even look at female websites... my question is... what could her problem be??? i spend more time trying to figure out what the hell is wrong with her than i do actually spend quality time with her... im a very fragile guy.. i need her comfort and love as much as i can get it... im not a "lets make love in the middle of the mall" type guy but jesus... she doesnt even hold my hand in public because she claims it makes it harder for her to walk... she yells at me constantly...
2006-10-05
17:16:46 ·
update #1
she also calls me immature because i like to laugh and have fun with the times are right... i think she tries to act too mature for me.. but shes really not and she doesnt know that.. i cant even listen to music without her saying turn that **** down.. i like emo/punk/ and alternative like dave matthews, and old smashing pumpkins.. she likes the music i hate at the time... i mean i have to say i hate a song when it firast comes on just so i can listen to it... cuz if she knows i liek it and i start singing it.. she'll flip out and turn the station. but when we're in the car and and some rap song like old nwa, and i start sing it.. she flips out and says is this the **** you listen to when you used to get high???
2006-10-05
17:17:10 ·
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but what i am trying to get to is that i need to let her know somehow i need more attention, like i need.. or im gone... ive told her before attention means alot to me... oh and when she doesnt give me attention i go outside and walk around and give myself attention by looking at the natural beauty of life and she gets pissed and thinks im leaving her and chases me down in the car... ****, i want attention and she doesnt giove it to me till i leave for a walk for my own attention... how can i say that i need more attention with out her getting pissed?
2006-10-05
17:17:32 ·
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How long has this been going on?, Maybe its just her harmones cause sometimes when im with my boyfriend too long i teend to get a little irritated :S.. but i think at that time i was about to start... My monthly visit. Anywayz.. I Think she has some issues, Try talking to her about it and confront her about how you feel, and see what she says, Try treating her out to dinner or something and make her feel good about herself. And see how she acts towards you. I Really dont know what else to say unless u confront her about your feelings. Well Good Luck ..!!
2006-10-05 17:40:30
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answered by Anonymous
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How would you comply with teachings that you simply suppose "are improper"? Does Buddhism educate to comply with a course of deception? Is that what your mom and dad wish - so that you can fake to be whatever you're no longer. Will that cause them to comfortable? I suspect no longer, but when they're particularly that egocentric, then the unhappiness is mostly extra manipulation than specific. If you suppose and have an understanding of the gospel of Christ, why could you reject such an excellent salvation? God has paid the sort of prime fee to make certain your salvation. Why reject what you suppose to be precise? Perhaps God will use your salvation to carry your mom and dad to Himself.
2016-08-29 07:09:46
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answered by ? 4
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She wants her cake and eat it too. You are too clingy because you are purposely trying to get the attention you once had from her and she knows that. She doesn't sound interested, hard to please, doesn't know what she wants, or acts like it but doesn't admit it. She has some serious communication problems. Ask her what she wants or are you afraid of the answer?
2006-10-05 17:23:55
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answered by smily 2
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man she treats you super bad ok at this point you need to just dump her it sounds like she thinks that she owns you and that is not the case ok i think that once you dump her you will feel better and free. you should go and try to find a new girl friend because you don't deserve that kind of treatment and there are many girls that will respect you wayy more
2006-10-05 17:24:38
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answered by allie 4
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I was married once and you sound like your already there, I don't know what to tell you. It's like y'all are trying to see who is in control. If I was you I'd just enjoy doing whatever and she can come to you when she wants to be with you, she'll drive you crazy trying to figure out what she wants because she doesn't know either. Just chill and play it cool she'll come around once she sees you not playing along, then she'll play nice girl all cuddly and make sure her baby still cares. Females are easy once you figure them out, you play them don't let them play you. Peace out bud :)
2006-10-05 17:26:54
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answered by Sean 7
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sounds like shes insecure about something....u deff should sit and talk to her and tell her how serious u r. If she dont want to listen or yells....leave...seriously..u dont need ur mind going back and forth like that...let her know that.
2006-10-05 17:26:48
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answered by Anonymous
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IT SOUND LIKE BOTH OF YOU NEED TO GET SERIOUS
THIS IS CRAZY, BOTH OF YOU NEE TO TALK ABOUT
WHAT REALLY GOING ON. MAYBE YOU NEED TO
GET YOUR OWN PLACE AS WELL. LIVING UNDER SOME
BODY ROOF IS NOT GOOD. EITHER.
2006-10-05 17:27:22
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answered by luckystar 6
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yer a puss... be a man and get some pu.ssy on the side like she is
2006-10-05 17:19:24
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answered by mrbubbachowpuss 2
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get yourself checked you may have her boyfriends diseases.
use protection and or get out!!!!!
2006-10-05 17:29:58
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answered by blackrealty 3
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