Well my first question was about this guy I met through a friend(fine as hell) and she knows he likes me but doesnt want us to talk for whatever reason.Well I stated I dont call guys and I went for it like u guys told me.I stepped out of my comfort zone.I called & he had to call me back .I didnt think he'd call but he did in minutes.We just talked for an hour.The conversation was GREAT.My question is throughout the conversation we talked about girls and guys and he seems a little bitter and I know I am b/c I just had a baby(2m) and my babys dad treats me like crap.& he seems to have had his share of bad apples.Well im a really good women an not looking into anything serious right away b/c of my situation.The women he's dealt with I am nothing like & I keep trying to tell him Im different he says he's heard it all b4.He says he's not judging me & wants to get to know me but I see myself crawling back in my shell.How do I not do that & show him I am different.Im trying to get over my BD!
2006-10-05 17:40:04 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont want to come off to needy or as if I dont like him b/c I do.Im trying to get over my baby's dad an dshow him I can get other guys and I dont have to sit around and wait on his a**.I know my worth and he doesnt which is fine.He wants me too wait around for him.I dont want anything to serious just want to laugh,hang out.Oh by the way he said it doesnt matter what my friend wants or doesnt he likes me so she doesnt matter.
2006-10-05 17:43:09 · update #1
If he's already said that he likes you and wants to get to know you, then what are you worried about? He sounds like a nice guy who doesn't want to get hurt. Start out as friends and if it progresses to more, then great! Good luck!
2006-10-06 00:35:53 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle O 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋