2006-10-05 17:40:53 · 15 answers · asked by tiwn raro 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't go the places he goes. Think of every bad thing he did, and the reason you broke up. Get a boyfriend, and you probably won't be jealous.
2006-10-05 17:43:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a grip, girl! You are jealous because he is able to move on,a and you just can't stand the thought that he wasn't exactly what you thought him to be. In other words, you are angry at yourself for your mistakes. You wish that he would be hurt like you were.
Listen, Guys do not take early relationships as serious as do you girls. If you were sexually active, he was in it for the sheer pleasure. You were in it for the emotional turn-on. Guys don't get emotionally turned on easily, but they can get an erection with just the thought of sex. With anybody.
So move on, get over your anger. Give yourself permission to be happy again. Be happy for him that he is using someone other than you, now!
2006-10-06 00:49:05 · answer #2 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to let go move on what do you care if you see him with somebody else ? was he mean to you good or bad whatever the reason you guys are no longer together so leave it alone .spend your time getting to know the next man dont dwell on your past if you do you will never know whats ahead of you ok just focus on making you happy and turn the other way ok good luck girl ps dont stress it !
2006-10-06 00:47:47 · answer #3 · answered by ellie_m1123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well lady i think u still love him, that's why u r jealous, and u don't like him near u bcoz u have not forgotten the reason for ur break up, try forgiving him, talk to him, this help u move out of situation.
2006-10-06 00:46:24 · answer #4 · answered by rohit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah - get over it! You two broke up so neither of you have any hold over the other. He can date whoever will date him, and you have the same freedom. Getting jealous over an ex's new relationship is neither smart nor productive.
2006-10-06 00:44:33 · answer #5 · answered by My Evil Twin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have all these emotions because they can't be turned on and off like a switch, love is emotional even though you don't want to be with him. try to forgive what it was that he did to you, get some closure, avoid running into him. it's not easy seeing someone you liked with someone else. soon they will get to know him like you did and they will no longer be with him for the same faults he had in your relationship.
2006-10-06 00:49:41 · answer #6 · answered by smily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
typical
the I don't want you but I will be damned if you are happy attitude.......
you should break that bad habit...
that is a character flaw.....
at least you are aware you do it.......
now fix it cause it is not fair to be that way to people.....it sends them the wrong message....and makes people looney!
2006-10-06 00:44:15 · answer #7 · answered by RaeRae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the old saying is:
You don't want him, but you don't want anyone else to have him.
2006-10-06 00:43:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats normal, just dont let your emotions show, act like you dont give a ****.
2006-10-06 00:45:11 · answer #9 · answered by Laugh Now Cry Later 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try growing up and moving on!
2006-10-06 00:51:27 · answer #10 · answered by theradicalwomen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋