I never had an actual girlfriend till I was 19. Before that I spent all my time at the brothels. Now that I'm 21 and actually trying to date real women, I find that they are so much more complicated. I so wish I could go back to that, but I think I've used all my luck up considering I still havent caught any dieseases. Why are real women so hard to figure out????????
2006-10-05 17:31:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Honey at you're age you should have figured that out along time ago when you was, visiting the ladies. it it that now you are looking for a good woman. the kind you don't have to pay to spend time with you well first you got to cleanse you're self of old habits ,and start fresh as if it is your first time looking to date(not-bed). A woman be a friend ,then a lover, or a husband .if you don't go for engagements. we're not difficult it is just that you guy's don't debrief before you go looking.
2006-10-05 17:57:47 · answer #1 · answered by lytesdelite 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that's a myth. Ask yourself some honest questions. What have you done to try to understand women? Have you ever gone down to the bookstore and looked through the hundreds of books on relationships? How about a class in "How to Win Friends and Influence People"? Also, ask yourself - what kind of listener am I? Do you let people talk more and keep your yap shut and listen? Are you really listening? Afterwards, as your driving home from the date or in the shower the next morning do you ever think about what she said? Did you ever try to figure out what she meant? What she was feeling? What might be the motivations behind what happened?
Finally, if you can't figure something out - how about asking a question? It doesn't have to be as obvious as "what the heck are you talking about?" How about - "Could you tell me more about X - I'm very interested."
Don't ask what is wrong with them - ask yourself what is lacking in yourself.
2006-10-06 00:49:30 · answer #2 · answered by Alan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are not difficult, but men are too primitive... joke... Well you know, you find them difficult because their nature is a bit different from men. I see you are not that experienced in real man-woman relationships, maybe that's why you find them difficult. There is a joke but true to life: Imagine there are two books on a table. The first is very thin, the other is very thick. The thin one is titled "Logic", the thick one is titled "Women Logic Volume 1". :) So there is no definite rule to follow in order to understand women. Don't even try to understand them, just say: "You are right, babe, as usual".
2006-10-06 00:48:14 · answer #3 · answered by lugil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those were real women in those brothels, what, you think they are going to share who they really are with you? Any relationship worth having is a lot of work, intelligence has many facets and takes care. You would be bored to tears with a yes person that had no mind of her own, keep going, you are just a pup.
2006-10-06 00:46:36 · answer #4 · answered by OPTIMIST 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will always be asking that question just like us women will be thinking the same thing about you men. You just have not found the right girl and you still are young enough to do that. Try not to rush into things so fast. You will find that girl that you want just be patient.
2006-10-06 00:36:04 · answer #5 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because you don't look at them as people but as sex objects.
You said you wish you could go back to brothels but you're afraid of diseases... you don't want to date them from the sound of it, you want to sleep with them.
No wonder you can't figure them out, you're probably too busy looking at their ****.
Treat a woman with respect and like a person you want to be around, and you won't find them so hard to figure out.
Maybe a bit moody, but simple!
2006-10-06 00:46:34 · answer #6 · answered by baxterstuds 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're probably just meeting girls that you can't figure out. If you've spent that much time knowing different sorts of women, why not broaden your horizons and travel to other countries and see if you hit it off with someone while you travel?
2006-10-06 00:38:43 · answer #7 · answered by Leela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men and women are just so different from each other. We think and communicate differently, so it's a learning experience when you get in a relationship. Try to be patient, learn and grow.
2006-10-06 00:45:34 · answer #8 · answered by Pinkie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some women are shy, some women will be stright up and tell you to beat it.
sometimes those girls that are shy really have a crush on you, just work your stuff and try not to look too desprate for a gf.
2006-10-06 00:47:40 · answer #9 · answered by ***dreamcatcher**** 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men are so impossible.
Women want commitment - men want 1 night stands.
Women offer sex as an inducement - men see it as a triumph.
2006-10-06 00:47:53 · answer #10 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋