i asked before but i kinda presented it wrong...
This girl i like is getting married in 25 days ish, i dont expect it will be a big wedding or anything special but yea. I have known this girl a little but never got all too friendly with her, but i liked her and she came ot me about it and i bitched out, and everytime i talk with her or say anything shes more of a shy smiling person, as when i have saw her with other people is more outgoing, loud etc. Then well, i guess what im saying is there could be something there, and she just pops in my head quite a bit.
I have her phone number - it would be kinda wierd to call her since i have never called her before but i will do it i think. I think she wants a boy friend bad and feels like this marriage is a way to have that feeling for a while. The guy is a total *** hole cheated on her multiple times, i dont think he cares all to much, just sex, hes in the army, i can see in 10 years her heart broken with 2 kids to raise, should i call her?
2006-10-05 17:26:31 · 8 answers · asked by aaaaa4857376237 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
btw shes also 19 .........
also i dont think its she loves him all so much i think its she will be married and be around someone and have a relationship or something i dont know. How could i go about talking about this to her, i would not just be like no dont marry him maybe ask to hang out ? hmmm i just dont want to regret anything :D and i got like a few weeks before my chance for any mind change would be possible. Please anwser in a good way, not MOVE ON or LET IT GOOO, thats just dumb, when i am not really on her or with her, but if making a move could possibly make a change then i would love too. what do you think ?
2006-10-05 17:36:05 · update #1
hate to add more but, is it common for girls to act quick and want to marry young ? or what, i cant see myself wanting to get married right now, in school, i dont have a proper finacial situation and when you get married *usually* its not if but when you are going to have a kid. Well anymore suggestions on how to bring this up talk about it to her in a non jealous / slandering way would be great, thanks
2006-10-05 18:33:47 · update #2
You've got nothing to lose...if she's getting married, the sooner the better! Best of luck to you!
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2016-10-18 21:55:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's a very mature assessment! Based on what you said, I would invite her out for lunch as friends. If there is an opportunity to touch up on the subject, then I'd bring up your concerns. If not, just be as supportive as you can and be a friend to her. Best of luck, hope it works out and you are happy either way.
2006-10-05 17:35:47 · answer #3 · answered by babalu2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think she feels the same way, you should definitely talk to her, but not over the phone. She might be hoping that her engagement will push you to say something to her before it's to late. It's worth a try, if you don't talk to her about it, you'll always regret it.
2006-10-05 17:37:47 · answer #4 · answered by frosty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly i think if you tell her this upfront on the phone she's going to flip out and get mad at you. But if you are concerned you should talk to her and make sure she's happy
2006-10-05 17:31:05 · answer #5 · answered by A train 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO LET HER GO, SHE GETTING MARRIED, AND
THAT THE REAL TRUTH THAT MATTER. SHE HAS MADE
THIS CHOICE TO MARRY THIS MAN, SORRY BUT YOU NEED
TO LEAVE HER ALONG. THE ONLY PERSON THAT WILL
BE HURT BY THIS IS YOU. AND IF SHE MARRY FOR A BOYFRIEND THEN SHE REALLY GOT SOME ISSUES..
2006-10-05 17:31:03 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No harm in giving it a shot,just go for it and see what happens.
2006-10-05 20:21:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it like you said this guy is a ***hole
2006-10-05 17:36:51 · answer #8 · answered by the sweetest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋