Family & Relationships - 5 October 2006

2006-10-05 19:27:31 · 23 answers · asked by bobbie jo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, here's the thing..me n this guy who now is my friend..well, i've been keeping in touch with him every once in a while for the past year..for some reason we just clicked like that..n a couple of weeks ago..i decided 2 write on his wall (the first time in a couple of months) just 2 say hi 2 him, hoping he was doing well. He responded not on my wall, but sent a message..with nuthing but his number on it..didn't say nuthing else..just had his number on it, which kind of made me freeze..i gave him mine a couple of days later, and about a week later he would text me..just a few times 2 say what's up n everything..but i make sure, and i'm guessing he's making sure that we don't talk everyday because that can make u grow tired of a person u kno..y do u think he gave me his number? could it be a possibility that he may like me? My best friend thinks i like him but i haven't really told her anything yet....

2006-10-05 19:26:48 · 7 answers · asked by Ms. Musically Inclined 5 in Singles & Dating

I WAS MARRIED TO MY EX HUSBAND FOR 28 YEARS BEFORE WE GOT DIVORCED, CAN I GET A WIDOW PENSION? I AM 55 YEARS OLD.

2006-10-05 19:26:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hi , i had a frd Gauri kalnoor.she was my best frd,we would meet daily n would chat for long hours.we were very close to each othr.the problem is her dad got transferred to banglore n i dont no her address.i miss her alot n want her back . im waiting for her frm poast six years

2006-10-05 19:26:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-05 19:23:56 · 16 answers · asked by Chawchee 1 in Family

Well I know girls love to talk about themselves, but how would I go about starting a conversation with a girl that would allow them to talk more about themselves.

So far I've only been able to start conversations by telling this girl like things I've done that are pretty crazy over the weekends or like stuff that may have happened that's kinda funny.

2006-10-05 19:23:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am a lesbian and me and my gf have been going on for about eleven months now and a letter was written to her suposubly by me say n i kissed some grl ...she doesnt beleave me because it sounds like me and it even looks like my hand writing..what do i do?

2006-10-05 19:22:24 · 8 answers · asked by deadroses4ever 1 in Singles & Dating

The situation is that my girlfriend is 8 months pregnant....I was layed off on my job and she works part time rent was due last week and we can't pay the electric bill I'm actually suprised my internet still works I feel so bad that I can't give her what she needs I feel like the biggest loser in the world and I can't even sleep anymore the baby will be here soon and all this happening is taking away from the joy and love I should be feeling so now I'm pushing away from her because of my own **** it's almost to much to take I just wish I could find work what kind of man am I that can't provide for his family....I'm only 25 and I'm just at a low point does anyone have any advice for me at all anything will help plz

2006-10-05 19:22:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-05 19:22:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Every time our mortgage payment comes due, my husband has a fit. He works construction, he's a pot head, he had a very strong protective instinct for his family, likes to plan family trips...just trying to say both good things and bad. He smokes pot often with his buddies at my house, we have a two story so I stay with the kids upstairs, we are up here reading, watching family movies, while downstairs it's a different world. This is how it is almost everyday in my life. Today we argued about the mortgage because he hasn't been working that much due to lack of work at his job, but he had managed to get some side work, so he's made extra money there which he treats as seperate. He doesn't feel that he should give me extra money because i have a new job and make enough money to fill in his gaps. The money he made he wants to spend it on marijuana, how should I react to that?

2006-10-05 19:21:44 · 10 answers · asked by E! 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-05 19:21:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-05 19:21:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-05 19:21:32 · 4 answers · asked by Meadowlark 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-05 19:20:19 · 13 answers · asked by gorgeous witch 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay heres whats going on when me and my husband first started going out everything was great but then i got pregnant right away. Well during my whole pregnancy everything ws fine also it was great even, it was like nothing changed. We were making love many times a day, but after i had our daughter everything changed. I tried to keep things as they were before i had her and continue to take care of our daughter, it was really frusturating. We kept getting into bigger arguements and stuff started falling apart. But the things we argured about were silly, i just wanted hinm to show me more affection. But when i realized he wasn't going to show anymore i gave up. Months went by and we were happy or could i say he was happy. But lately i have been feeling like i don't want to be with him anymore, because of all the horrible things he has said to me and done to me. We rarely make love anymore, i try to spice things up but he doesn't want it when i want it only when he does. Whats wrong here

2006-10-05 19:19:49 · 12 answers · asked by foeversexygirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-05 19:18:15 · 10 answers · asked by chinita_13 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Our relationship was very good but now he makes advances and comments on my dressing gives me flying kisses etc and just can't look into his eyes and speak. My feelings for him too are becoming more intense and i don't wnat anyhting to come in between our friendship. Moreover i need to maintain my professional image in the company i work in. Pls help

2006-10-05 19:17:49 · 5 answers · asked by Cutie 2 in Friends

We went to school together in Durban South Africa - Brettonwood High School in Umbilo.

2006-10-05 19:14:26 · 4 answers · asked by CLEVER 2 in Friends

2006-10-05 19:14:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-05 19:12:43 · 22 answers · asked by bobbie jo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She loved a guy, said it was true love, but the boy has no feelings for her. There was a time, they were texting (SMS) and talked about sex. Since the girl has no experience yet, he suggests to find someone whom she can try with, and ends a plan of doing it with him. She got confused wether to give him her virginity coz she loved him so much that shes willing to do so with him but I think the boy likes her as a sex partner...rather the boy is infatuated with her but not in love with her. She haven't told the boy yet that she's deeply in love with him. What to do?

I'm writing this for a friend

2006-10-05 19:12:34 · 11 answers · asked by Samantha 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-05 19:09:59 · 5 answers · asked by kona1277 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

36 hours and counting until my wedding. I haven't slept but 6 hours in the last 48 and I am wired. I lay down and my head fills with list of things that need done or have been done. I have bi-polar so Manic Episodes are nothing new. I have been taking my medication regularly and the correct doses. I have called my doctor and it seems she is on vacation for 2 weeks and her replacement want to me to come in and change my medication around. I don't want to increase my meds or try new meds so close ot the wedding due to my body's reaction. BUT I NEED TO SLEEP. Any ideas ... I know that after the wedding this will pass. I have been able to get things done having them I am like the energerizer bunny I keep going and going and going .. I know I am not having doubts or cold feet. I really love him and he loves me. After 4 years ya just know these things .. I know it has something ot due with my family's lack of particapation and lack of support. They like him they just don't like me.. HELP

2006-10-05 19:09:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-05 19:07:57 · 20 answers · asked by rahsaan m 1 in Singles & Dating

hi i like to download some nursery rhymes for my son (free downloads).if it is animated it would be good(audio and video).pls suggest some websites

2006-10-05 19:07:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im not a very smart guy and i want to expand my thinking how? what do you advice me

2006-10-05 19:07:07 · 9 answers · asked by kasi n 1 in Friends

2006-10-05 19:06:07 · 7 answers · asked by Chuck Dhue 4 in Weddings

2006-10-05 19:06:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What did you do? & why?

2006-10-05 19:05:43 · 12 answers · asked by endless_eternity_forever 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex of 8 yrs cheated on his only gf since our break up w/ me for 1 1/2 yrs of their 2 1/2 yr relationship. she (or so he says) ended it b/c she was never & never would be comfortable here (again so he says) (she lives 2 hrs away) but i have found out more as to the real reasons why their relationship ended (yes, i snooped). should i quit trying to get him to be honest w/ me about the situation? should i continue to feel that the main reason he is now willing to work things out b/w us is for the awesome sex (that he again says he never had w/ her) or could his intentions be true? is he just afraid to admit he has always had feelings for me (he is not a very good communicator although he said they talked about everything including "us") or is he trying to hurt me again b/c she hurt him? i know that he has even used some of the same "lines" that he told me in our previous relationship & now w/ her (ie:thanks for sending me to work w/ a smile). i'm just so confused - pls help me.

2006-10-05 19:04:59 · 6 answers · asked by momatendofrope 5 in Other - Family & Relationships