2006-10-05 19:27:31 · 23 answers · asked by bobbie jo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't see how in the world he could love his wife and continue doing what he is doing?When he married her,he had vows to love only her,he has broken that vow and she is sitting at home being a fool,and why isn't someone enlightening her about this?She should be your friend as well,can't you talk to her?I would put yourself in her shoes,what if this was you sitting there and your man was out cheating all over town and someone knew,but just didn't want to tell you.How would you feel and respond?This poor wife has no clue to what is true and honest around her at all.This friend that cheats on his wife,how is he your friend?Has he cheated on his wife with you?The reason i ask this is you seem pretty concern about if he could actually love his wife at the same time and i see no remorse towards what he is doing.Well if I'm right and you are sleeping around with him.I have one thing and that is,she was special enough for him to marry,so how much more special are you?He is doing it to her,and if he can do that to someone that he married,he can sure do it to someone he isn't married too.Both of you women need to run as far and as fast as you can from this life style before someone really ends up hurt!Best wishes and Good Luck!
2006-10-05 19:43:28 · answer #1 · answered by twjp1962 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been tempted to have an affair, but out of love and fear of God and my husband, I have not. Because the very thought of betraying my husband made me sick to my stomach (I don't think I could have gone through with it anyhow), I don't think someone who truly loves their spouse as themselves (which is the way you should love) would be able to cheat. Love and cheat....yes, but not if you love the way you should.
2006-10-05 20:11:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can see that the male answers are positive and that female defer. You are going to have to bealive me that it is possible. But of course it is not honorable. The song goes like this : If a man is in love with his wife, no matter how many women he find attractive or sleep with ,he is not going to leave his wife.
2006-10-05 19:50:05 · answer #3 · answered by Loser Millionaire 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating can be an emotional connection or it can be purely sexual. So yes, you can love your spouse and cheat. It's called getting a strange piece of tail.
2006-10-05 19:43:16 · answer #4 · answered by Tony 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't possibly love someone and still cheat on them. By having an affair, you're sleeping with someone and going back to your wife/husband and not only exposing them to any diseases but you're lying to their face everyday. Putting someone in harm's way and lying to them is hate, not love.
2006-10-05 19:33:47 · answer #5 · answered by Curly Q Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see how it could be. Besides, what was the point to taking vows to love, honor, and cherish, if you or whoever didn't mean them? I've always thought the reason most people got married was because there was nobody else they wanted to be with than the person they marry.
2006-10-05 19:35:07 · answer #6 · answered by yobaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-26 11:00:09 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IMO, no. It's possible to love your wife and find others attractive. It's even possible to love someone and fall in love again. But to knowingly and repeatedly hurt someone isn't love. To always put yourself first isn't love. To make someone feel so low and terrible isn't love.
2006-10-05 19:30:02 · answer #8 · answered by Dirty_Idea 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
oh yes, i think men are capable of cheating on their wife, and yet at teh same time love their wife. why does your friend forgive him over n over again?
2006-10-05 19:31:13 · answer #9 · answered by (coco) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A man can but a woman can not...
It is not a double standard, Men & Women have different brains.
When a woman cheats, it is with her heart..
When a man cheats he uses a different organ...
This is an accurate stereotype...
2006-10-05 19:30:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋