What did you do? & why?
2006-10-05 19:05:43 · 12 answers · asked by endless_eternity_forever 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yeah, i just bawl my eyes out and get it out of my system. I feel better afterwards. As a woman, our hormones rise and fall so much that our emotions are all over the map.
2006-10-05 19:09:48 · answer #1 · answered by afafae25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he been hurt before, or felt like he had no control over another relationship, something bad may have happened in a past relationship... Men do this when they have a bad relationship because they think they can make it possible for you not to do the same thing to them that the woman in the past relationship did... its hard to explain... and to answer your question yes I have been married for six years, and as much as I love my husband I never see him. He is always here, but most of the time we dont really spend time together. He works nights and has to sleep during the day. I cant get out because I cant drive, Im a stay at home mom with no one to talk to except online... and when we have kids so we are never alone... Most of the time he does his thing and I do mine... So I find myself lonely a lot. But your man may have some trust issues and its probably not your fault... especially if you havent done anything to make him mistrust you. This could have been emotional baggage from a past relationship... My suggestion is to talk to him and see why he has trouble with trusting you. He cant keep you from living your life.. He may need counseling before he can get past his trust issues. I suggest you should both go.... and make a day where you can do something together... Plan a weekend of fun or whatever day you can... Earn his trust, it takes time... I hope i have been a little helpful to you and my heart goes out to you as I am lonely too...
2016-03-27 06:54:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, when i was first time married - i would go out and try to get acquainted with a nice man and have secret affair with him afterwards. one night stand doesnt' count, a guy should fall in love. it was quite nice game. after some period i dumped a guy, which was also a lot of fun - hurting someone is always fun. when my ex hubby became suspicious and controlling i divorsed him and did the same stuff but freely. then i got married again, but guess it happened too soon - i was not through having fun. single life was so much fun for me somehow
2006-10-05 19:14:20 · answer #3 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry i do not have the answer bec im still single however all of my friends are already married and most of them are...oh well not that sad but not that happy. that is the reason i am so afraid..my bf and i used to talk about settling down most of the time., as for me that concludes that nothing assures happiness even if you tie knot with the person., there would always be sadness., thats life. just enjoy.
smile
2006-10-05 19:19:56 · answer #4 · answered by star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you are learning that married is a lonely place.
After 20 years, I divorced him! I've never regretted it. My only regret is not doing it sooner! I wasted so much of life.
2006-10-05 19:14:00 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i used to feel lonely when i was married and discussed with my ex several times, finally we are divorced and both are happy........dont take that route just an example
well, be open and talk to your spouse honestly, share your thoughts
2006-10-05 19:14:44 · answer #6 · answered by west 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it lonliness or just unhappy? If it's just lonliness get out and meet new friends. They will fulllfill that part. As for happiness, if your not happy in a relationship, your not happy with life........
2006-10-05 19:40:20 · answer #7 · answered by redheffer_69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, i felt lonely allthe time, thats why i am single now..... just date and thats that, they can go home then can go anywhere, just cant stay with me.....
2006-10-05 19:33:35 · answer #8 · answered by seilygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not wish to explain but the answer is yes and i love my wife very much
2006-10-05 19:47:53 · answer #9 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage was the loneliness time in my life. I got divorce.
2006-10-05 19:15:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋