She loved a guy, said it was true love, but the boy has no feelings for her. There was a time, they were texting (SMS) and talked about sex. Since the girl has no experience yet, he suggests to find someone whom she can try with, and ends a plan of doing it with him. She got confused wether to give him her virginity coz she loved him so much that shes willing to do so with him but I think the boy likes her as a sex partner...rather the boy is infatuated with her but not in love with her. She haven't told the boy yet that she's deeply in love with him. What to do?
I'm writing this for a friend
2006-10-05 19:12:34 · 11 answers · asked by Samantha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that your friend should look deep within side of herself for an answer. Only she will be able to tell if that is the right thing to do. The only advice that I can give her. Is that she should listen to her heart and soul as that will guide her in her decision. Be sure to tell her that if her heart says one thing and her soul another then it is not meant to be. Maybe she should wait until the relationship got more serious between the two of them. I know that in the begginning of my relationship my bf was not serious about us and I knew that he just wanted to get laid and then leave me. So I gave us time so that we can grow stronger as a couple. I am proud to say that we are still together and he is deeply inlove! All it takes is patience, he loves her then he will be willing to wait. If he does not and she tells him that they must wait then he will get up and leave. She must learn from this experience and be honest with herself on what she wants.
2006-10-05 19:21:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Big question.. have great sex with a guy that cud be a 1 night stand, or wait for a man who loves u and cud be terrible?..The 1 comes with a guilt trip from hell, the other with self-respect. Make her choose.
2006-10-05 19:51:12 · answer #2 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think this girl should wait til she finds a guy that loves her back cos once she looses her virginity there is no way she can get it back and your first time is meant to be the most magical. so i suggest she waits. this guy seems like he is just using her for sex.
2006-10-05 19:21:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm bored with writing an analogous component at here! look - nicely finished for no longer giving into him and what he needs. have self belief me, once you're older you would be glas you probably did no longer. it quite is not what you decide on and a minimum of appreciate your self. in case you do no longer, why could he? do no longer permit him stress you. If he maintains with this stress, do away with him. Why could you prefer to be with him if he does not appreciate your needs and is often pressuring you. you would be happy in later existence.
2016-10-15 21:39:29 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her to have sex with him. get it over with. it's gonna change her outlook on life. the relationship will not work out. she will no longer be a virgin. she'll no longer have that "true love" mindset. those guys that she wishes to encounter will never happen. those kind of guys are busy losing out to guys like the boy your talking bout.
2006-10-05 19:48:30 · answer #5 · answered by loseribe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is playing your friend. He knows that she is interested in him and he enjoys the power he has to influence her in order to make her look like a fool and make himself feel like big stuff. He sounds like someone your friend should steer clear of, this relationship appears that it will only lead to hurt.
2006-10-05 19:25:33 · answer #6 · answered by Lyf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont do the sex sam. wait til your sure that he cares for you..if you really want to remember your frist time as just well pratice, then go ahead, but Id wait until your sure.....if you really need someone though, make sure it is an older man, he will make it the best for you....
2006-10-05 19:20:06 · answer #7 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex with them if you love them but they dont love you back. It will just complicate things.
2006-10-05 19:31:29 · answer #8 · answered by Caitlin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shoudl tell ur friend that she is a push over and that nothing will come of this... you sghould try and hook her up with someone else... try and find her a re-bound
2006-10-05 19:18:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes going to tell all his buddies about how he got it from a virgin and he'll have no guilt about it knowing that she knows he doesn't care for her.
2006-10-05 19:16:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋