Do you think a mate should be forgiven for an affair???

Answer 1

That is a very hard decision to make. It all depends on what you feel is right in your heart. If you want to save the relationship/marriage, then you should consider marriage/couples counseling. If not then you know what you have to do.

Good luck

Answer 2

There are only two practical choices; forgive or divorce. If you can't totally forgive, then you might as well throw in the towel as it will nag you forever and you'll bring it up at each argument in the future.
If your relationship/family is worth it to you, you forgive. Put it in perspective of what it was, just a hop in the sack? 100 years from now you'll say "so what".

Answer 3

I say it depends on if this the first, how long it went on and how many times, and o-yea, if someone got pregnent. If this is the first time then go to couples therapy,if the cheater says no then drop them,If there is a pregnancy or it happend more than once,see yea, and have yourself checked for those nasty little S.T.D.s those are definitly deal breakers. remember tho they say once a cheater always a cheater, beware and get it all checked!

Answer 4

Honestly I think you need to decide this for yourself no one can tell you what is right but yourself if you still love them try to work though things talk about it try not to agure but if you couldn't live with knowing that your spouse slept with some one eles I think you should end it do whats best for you and no one eles you'll thank yourself in the long run.

Answer 5

Yes I think they Really, Really should be forgiven. Right after you get home from having you'rs.. Called tit for tat. if to hotttt don't play a player.

Answer 6

Depends of the severity of the act...