my ex of 8 yrs cheated on his only gf since our break up w/ me for 1 1/2 yrs of their 2 1/2 yr relationship. she (or so he says) ended it b/c she was never & never would be comfortable here (again so he says) (she lives 2 hrs away) but i have found out more as to the real reasons why their relationship ended (yes, i snooped). should i quit trying to get him to be honest w/ me about the situation? should i continue to feel that the main reason he is now willing to work things out b/w us is for the awesome sex (that he again says he never had w/ her) or could his intentions be true? is he just afraid to admit he has always had feelings for me (he is not a very good communicator although he said they talked about everything including "us") or is he trying to hurt me again b/c she hurt him? i know that he has even used some of the same "lines" that he told me in our previous relationship & now w/ her (ie:thanks for sending me to work w/ a smile). i'm just so confused - pls help me.
2006-10-05 19:04:59 · 6 answers · asked by momatendofrope 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you should feel proud that he considers you as the one that he can count on to be there for him, just dont let that turn into him walking all over you
2006-10-05 19:08:45 · answer #1 · answered by Elizabeth M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow! You really think your hot stuff. You believe him when he tells you your sex is better than someone else's? That's the oldest line in the book! What he's doing is screwing a woman who lets him. that would be you and any other woman who'd let him. Now, that he's broken up with his last victim, he's looking for someone to get it from regularly. That would be you... for the time being. You're not confused. You're just unwilling to accept the obvious.
2006-10-06 02:11:53 · answer #2 · answered by BILL BEAKER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i wold be concerned because if he cheated on her what makes you think he isn't going to cheat on you? Maybe he does love you and wants to be with you so why would he even talk to her. I would set up my own rules bout talking to her n stuff not gonna happen if he wants to keep you. if you see him still in touch wit her after you've told him you didn't like it, leave him thats the best thing to do, if he really wants to be with you then it should mean nothin to him stop talkin to other girls, his ex especialy. Good luck n best wishes, you are worth more than that n u don't need his crap k
2006-10-06 02:39:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am experianced with a man cheating on me---and thats almost as far as i will go with my story--as for you-- YES be very worried!!!!
2006-10-06 02:12:52 · answer #4 · answered by Deidre~&~Joshua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i think ,i would be concerned if she is still sending him letters and calling.
2006-10-06 02:17:18 · answer #5 · answered by tia c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God your confused. What are you trying to say. please keep it short and simple so we have a chance to maybe understand
2006-10-06 02:33:10 · answer #6 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋