hey im a boy who is 14 and on my first date, and i have no idea what to talk abwt. i usualy sit there listening... im a usualy talkative guy but i have no idea what to say, how to say it, and how she will react. she seems to be losing interest in me and i dont know what to do... the other thing i want to know is what kind of things make a girl blush (i rely dont know how else to say it lol)
2006-10-05 18:24:56 · 7 answers · asked by no 1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-10-05 18:28:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could ask her question like what she would in certain situations and see what she'd say and then maybe tell her what u wud do differently.. ask her the basics.. fav food, place to eat, colour.. wtv.. i was once stuck in the same situation and the guy wasnt really interested in me coz i didnt talk much i was soo shy because i hardly knew him,, it was a bit awkward and i fell for him to hopesly anywayz im sure theres plently to talk about if shes a nice girl, maybe you could make jokes and talk about whatz going on around you.. with sumthing funny that happened recently.. tell her old memories.. i dunt know... anything!!|
Good Luck!!
2006-10-06 01:33:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... i think it's sooo cute when guys say sweet things. like... I can't decide what I like more, your eyes or your smile. Sweet things like that will make her fall for you. I'm 14 too and so i know a little bit about guys your age. Talk to her about her family and what activities she does outside of school. Don't ask questions like... What kind of grades do you have? because that just makes girls think you are only intrested in how smart they are. Tell her she looks really cute in the outfit she's wearing. or how you like her hair. girls fall for sweet talkers trust me!
2006-10-06 01:29:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont every initiate conversations with "soo...what do you want to talk about?" "what else..?" etc etc I hate that! I think you should tell her about your day and what you did with your friends and ask her about her day. This will get the ball rolling and you guys will just keep talking.
Now things that make girls blush is talking about - their feelings for you (early in the relationship), anything sexual
2006-10-06 01:31:15 · answer #4 · answered by Knowitall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know you are scared of her losing interest in you. but all that worry is only going to make you continue to be shy and quiet. don't be afraid to make a fool of yourself. if she truly likes you, she'll laugh along with you, not at you. once you can get past that "i don't want to ruin my image" phase, things will get a lot easier.
2006-10-06 03:06:32 · answer #5 · answered by loseribe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her exactly what you just wrote.
2006-10-06 01:37:16 · answer #6 · answered by Myra G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to talk!! =)
2006-10-06 01:27:43 · answer #7 · answered by mbd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋