Yeah i'll be at school and i see this really cute girl and she comes up to talk to me and then all of a sudden i get an erection! I CANT TALK TO GIRLS BECAUSE OF THIS, what can i do to solve this? Is there anyone else out there with this problem? This is no joke i have a serious problem, i am only 19 years old, help!
2006-10-05 18:16:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good for you because some guys are totally dead. There should be more like you around.
2006-10-05 18:19:38 · answer #1 · answered by kitty 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Someone said "you have a problem." No, No, No. Probably the same person who sits listening to rock music CD's so she can hate them more and demand they are pulled from music store shelves.
There is NOTHING wrong with that. You are in your sexual peak right now. Much like a few years ago when you went through "the big changes," you'll find just about anything arousing -- and it will be pretty much non-stop, but it will calm down nearly as quickly as it started.
As for how to handle it, I learned to position myself behind things at parties and such so if something happened it appeared I was just leaning on things.
As comic relief, I strongly recommend the episode of the BBC series "Coupling" entitled "Sex, Death, and Nudity." It's a hilarious show that would be a great icebreaker on any date.
The web site says this about the episode (among other things)
Most embarrassing moment:
Steve having to hide his erection behind a stack of buffet plates at the funeral, while the vicar attempts to comfort him in his "distress".
2006-10-06 01:32:11 · answer #2 · answered by The Jeep Pilot 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're 19 and having this problem? When you say school, do you mean college?
Uh, maybe you should think of your mom or something, then hopefully, you will calm down...
what about clothing? Does wearing briefs or boxer briefs help *control* things?
2006-10-06 01:18:38 · answer #3 · answered by ucd_grad_2005 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think of something that isn't sexy? I think it's probably natural to get boners if you're attracted to someone a lot...
2006-10-06 01:17:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you do have a problem, because that usually happens to teenage boys who have just started puberty i.e. 11-13yrs old.Go to a doctor and ask him if really you are ok.
2006-10-06 01:18:48 · answer #5 · answered by T.I 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
it's called premature ejaculation and you should speak to your doctor about it. unless you are having thoughts about you and her and so on and so forth in which you are fantasizing. then it's normal.
2006-10-06 01:21:45 · answer #6 · answered by Eli 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋