he's like my internet boyfriend. we were chatting a lot. everyday.we use to send each other sms and stuff. and it was very weird i trusted him so much.he used to describe me as hot and smart.and i loved that.he was great looking, sexy, great character.he was just everything i wanted.i wasn't really in love as i was infatuated.then, one day i was chatting with him behind a stranger's name and he agreed to roleplay her (me). i felt really bad, and i didn't wanna talk to him for a while. hoping he'll call, but he didn't. and now i'm just missing him toooo much and can't stop thinking of him and his amazing touches he described! so should i just call or write and tell him that? or let it go and lose him forever??!!
2006-10-05 18:57:47 · 10 answers · asked by Joy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok, just to explain a little more. i do hav real friends and i used the internet for a little cyberung as well. but he seemed exactly what i needed and he was not like the others. he was 27 and i'm 18 there r 9 years age difference between us, so i don think he's kidding about what he says. right? plus, HE was aking me to be serious with him.we were not only talking about sex we talked about EVERYTHING possible. like politics, entartainment, sports, families.... and he gave a lot of money, writing me sms (egypt -ireland). so do u think he's just kidding?
2006-10-05 19:12:25 · update #1
That business about chatting him behind a stranger's profile and then asking him to role play was amazingly immature and way obvious to anyone with half a brain. Anyone who had been writing back and forth with you will know who your are. YOU chased him away by doing something stupid. He probably thinks you're too immature and a psycho. Move along, and don't do anything like that again. Any guy you do stuff like that to will dump you.
2006-10-05 19:05:26 · answer #1 · answered by BILL BEAKER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people can be surprising. Typically, when someone gets overly defensive and worked up, it means that they are guilty. Are you POSITIVE that he couldn't have done anything to her, beyond a shadow of a doubt? You can never be too sure. Hopefully it's nothing, but honestly if he got THAT defensive over you asking, and couldn't offer a reasonable explaination, then he probably did abuse her. I'm not trying to point fingers or be negative, just trying to make sure you are looking at this with as clear a head as possible. He got VERY defensive, even stating he doesn't feel he can be alone with her again? That's a big silly. Allow him to be alone with her, still. Continue to foster the father/daughter relationship that the two of them share. Just make sure to keep your eyes open and keep as clear a head as possible. Check for other signs, and be sure to report anything. Another possible solution by the way - sometimes when kids have a really large or hard BM, they do bleed. It's possible that this happened, just keep that in mind. I'm sorry about what happened to you as a child, and I'm sure that your daughter will be okay. Just keep an eye out. Good luck.
2016-03-27 06:54:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the really amazes me. Do you really believe that you are the only one that he is talking to. THIS IS THE INTERNET and yeh sometimes ppl meet and something happens for real but how many ppl does it happen to if you concider all the ppl on here. If he is having hot and heavy sex talk with you then you can bet he is doing the same thing with others. if you are tryig to find a relationship on here then dont do it with anyone that only wants to talk hot and heavy, find someone that you can have a proper conversation with and that respects you. Dayam remember this is make believe and go find a live offa it
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2014-09-25 21:50:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As u said he is yr internet boyfriend so what he said may not be real and truthful. So stop thinking about it and carry on forward.
2006-10-05 19:04:00 · answer #5 · answered by Renew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Your cyber friend cyber cheated. He broke the cyber trust. I think you out to cyber dump him, and maybe get some real friends. You know, people with faces.
2006-10-05 19:04:33 · answer #6 · answered by wuxxler 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like he's not giving a rat's azz about you, and who knows if he ever did. I'd say, move on to someone who wouldn't do such a thing.
2006-10-05 19:03:16 · answer #7 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the electronic train has left the virtual station.
Your enfatuation can be cured -- "time" will make you glad it stopped.
2006-10-05 19:01:51 · answer #8 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek professional therapy until you realize that this isn't real.
2006-10-05 18:59:57 · answer #9 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a great imagination, so imagine him gone for your good
2006-10-05 19:10:38 · answer #10 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋