The thing is, i dont want another relationship at least not right now, but i dont know if i want to become that guy, i feel bad just hooking up with girls and then not calling them when i know they are definitely expecting something, is there an easy way to tell girls that this is all i want without ruining my chances or is this just completely wrong? What do you guys think?
2006-10-05 18:51:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, at least you should hint it somehow that score is all you want. There are some girls that don't mind just that. Not everyone is out there to rope you into the relationship. Imagine - someone like you but female just left a realtionship and all she wants is to maybe talk to another life human being that is capable of growing facial hair but who's not her ex.
2006-10-05 18:55:39 · answer #1 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you are not interested in a relationship, you should just be honest from the beginning. That way there is no time for feelings to get involved. Instead of saying to a woman that you just want to hook up with them or sleep with them, you should let them know you want companionship, someone you can hang out with, and just have fun. As a woman I know I would appreaciate that a lot better than some guy just wanting to sleep with me.
2006-10-06 01:56:39 · answer #2 · answered by Muriel F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to go about this situation is to make sure to clarify to those girls that -all- you want is just to hook up. Don't play it like you're really, genuinely interested in them. That hurts feelings and causes all kinds of drama. Just find a girl, or girls, that has the same intentions as you and go with it. Good luck. :)
2006-10-06 01:55:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to say just go out, see what happens, and if you don't like it... whatever. But I don't think that you should completely pass off the idea of going out and finding someone. Those things take time and they are unexpected. Just go out to have a good time, if it's going to happen it will happen when you're ready for it again.
In all aspects I do think that you should be honest and tell them straight up that you don't want anything at this time...you don't want to end up leading them on.
2006-10-06 02:00:49 · answer #4 · answered by zrose86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them they'd be a rebound or 'booty call, and not to take it seriously. If they still do after that, you told them how it was going to work.
Nice girls will not sleep with a guy who tells them they're a rebound or doesn't want a relationship: Use a condom.
2006-10-06 01:56:20 · answer #5 · answered by Roadpizza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeh screw it...hook up with them...how long do u expect to be single...girls can smell guys who are in relationships and who just came out of them... and somehow it makes them more attracted to those sorts of guys...just do it...but if ur worried about the whole one night stand type of thing then well just only hook up with the chicks that want that
hope i helped
laterz
2006-10-06 01:54:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recommend passion.com. I hooked up with a guy from there recently, no strings attached. It wasn't ideal but I live in a town with no singles bar and no road out of town.
2006-10-06 01:55:22 · answer #7 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if she puts out she should be prepared to deal with her decision. and you should let her know you don't want a relationship. chances are you'll still get laid since females tend to think they can change men
2006-10-06 01:53:29 · answer #8 · answered by Pipi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shave that thing off from under your lip for starters.
Or grow it on to your tongue.
You whippersnapper you.
2006-10-06 01:55:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET A LIFE
2006-10-06 01:55:57 · answer #10 · answered by twelve_dancing_princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋