Do you think its possible for someone who has been in a sexual relationship before (perhaps many of them like 20 of them) to be in a relationship with someone who is a virgin and wants to wait until they know they love the person (not until marriage, but just until they are in love and feel they are loved back)?
2006-10-05 18:46:49 · 23 answers · asked by Ash 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For clarity's sake I'm the virgin.
2006-10-05 18:54:07 · update #1
possible but very difficult. Sex is a basic human need. Once you have it its very hard to give up.
2006-10-05 18:51:16 · answer #1 · answered by twysty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I really don't think so. The person that has 20 sexual relationships is going to want sex really bad because that's just the way they have been from those past relationships. The other person would want to hold there ground until they are able to give it away.
2006-10-06 01:49:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is all the longer that you are planning on staying a virgin, you might as well just have sex at the first opportunity.
If you are worth having in the virgin form, then it is worth waiting for, more than just until you feel like you are both in love. Hormones are pretty sneeky, and so is a little alcohol.
2006-10-06 23:21:09 · answer #3 · answered by pistola 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. Find a clean guy who is also a virgin. A person who's had 20 sexual relationships is only claiming you as a trophy. Trust me. I've seen them all.
2006-10-06 02:11:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course,sex is just a physical feeling that last only for a little while,love on the other hand can last a life time,When you truly love someone you can or will wait if need be.
2006-10-06 01:53:21 · answer #5 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the virgin is a man, yes. If it's a woman, no. The man would probably say anything to sleep with a virgin.
2006-10-06 01:50:55 · answer #6 · answered by jackdaniels4meee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's not all about sex. well that is a big plus but it's the person who you fall in love with and he will respect you more for waiting.
2006-10-06 01:51:39 · answer #7 · answered by smurfette_ftwayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont believe that fornication so yes its ok to have sex before marriage as long as its with someone whom u love and want to spend the rest of ur life with
2006-10-06 01:51:48 · answer #8 · answered by mell14716 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how much you love the guy, on the other hand you could use your feminine wiles to break him out of his shell. Just be prepared for his first time to be done quicker than poached eggs
2006-10-06 01:50:49 · answer #9 · answered by death_from_above 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish i could find a girl that wanted to wait until she was in love with me. all the girls i meet are just whores who want to **** right away and that is nasty so i quit talking to them. if you meet this perfect girl who has morals and wants to wait for something special send her my way.
2006-10-06 01:49:31 · answer #10 · answered by the_antichrist_jdub 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋