2006-10-05 18:47:27 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Make sure you know for a fact with your own eyes that you seen her take this money from you before saying or doing anything.If you seen this is action yourself,why wouldn't you of confronted her right there on the spot?If this is hear say and you react on it,you risk the chance of taring up a great friendship.However,if you did see this and you don't want to hurt her feelings,then i wouldn't say nothing,but i would have to question her friendship towards you,and i would have to put some space there and when she is around,make sure everything is put away in a safe place,mainly if you do not want a confrontation with her.Personally,i don't know when this took place or where,but i if you and her are good friends,it would of been mentioned on the spot.Don't be afraid to stand up for what is yours to begin with,she didn't have a problem in taking from you to begin with.I hope things work themselves out for you,just be cautious on who your friends are.Best wishes and Good Luck!
2006-10-05 19:10:23 · answer #1 · answered by twjp1962 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
initially you won't be able to call her a pal, she's a thief and through using your cashier volume she's a bully too. you should quit her. Be good, be direct, no ***** footing. tell her that you understand she's stealing funds and that she's putting you in a dreadful position through waiting that you'll be able to keep quiet. Say that you're feeling blackmailed into no longer saying some thing and that lower than no circumstances is she to apply your cashier volume as you'll favor to maintain your job and probably favor a reference in some unspecified time sooner or later. The stolen funds will be discovered out, that's in elementary words a count number of time. If she would not quit then see your manager, say what's occurring and also you received't get into difficulty for procuring her lunch with the stolen earnings case you clarify the way it got here about. good luck and be good hun
2016-12-04 08:04:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u know that she have stolen then u ask her directly by saying that
Did u took my money ,the other day i have seen u taking out something from mine?
dont be very rash as she is ur best friend ask in a way that she will not be hurt and u get ur money back. Mind from now on becareful as u have come to know that ur best friend stole things so be very careful and if it is repeated again then better be away from her.
2006-10-05 18:53:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first thing u should keep in mind that, if she thought u to be her best fren then she wouldn't have done this! she justs acts to be ur friend so that she can gain all sorts things from u. u should ask her directly about your money and if she denies threaten her of dragging to the police. bring her on the track and break off the relation becoz today she stole ur money, tomorow she might steal another valuable of urs. this type of people shouldn't be trust at all
2006-10-05 18:55:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope she might be in sum urgency.
anyway if u both are a real and a true friend. call her separetly and tel her the fact that u hv seen her stealing (oh sorry! taking ur money).
after saying this she vil not take ur money in future. she vil openely ask a favour to spare her sum money. then u shld def help her. FRIEND IN NEED IS A FRIEND INDEED
2006-10-06 00:53:41 · answer #5 · answered by vinsha_goldie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront your friend about situation and tell them you are concerned because that is not a true friend. If you ask some one to borrow some money and they have extra they will give to you. But that does not mean steal it from you.
2006-10-05 19:15:26 · answer #6 · answered by barbara l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her straight up that you saw her so she can admit it and you can save the friendship. If she denies it then I guess she really wasn't your true friend to begin with and she was just using you.
2006-10-05 18:49:25 · answer #7 · answered by mmshall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her know that you know if you dont wanna say it straight out then hint at it. If she doesnt admit it then decide what you wanna do about it. In any case you now know never to leave anything out when she is around. Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me
2006-10-05 18:51:59 · answer #8 · answered by teneesha2003 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you considered the person as your best friend and i think that it will be healthy to tell him/him about the situation. there might be heavy reason for that person to steal money from you., but whatever reason it might be its still a sin.
i suggest to talk to the person he/she might need help and you are one of his/her friends.
goodluck
2006-10-05 19:15:39 · answer #9 · answered by star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her indirectly that u know abt the thing.
& also tell her that if she's facing some financial problems then u cud help her out.Stealing is not a solution.
2006-10-05 18:52:53 · answer #10 · answered by sameer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋