Have any of you called off your wedding days or weeks before or had it called off by their partner? What did the guests/relatives say and the ones who had flown from far afield? What was the outcome? Or did anyone only stay married for a few months? Just curious!
2006-10-05 23:05:05 · 15 answers · asked by jaygirl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I called off my wedding right before I walked down the aisle. My dad saw the panic in my face and asked if I were sure this is what I wanted. I looked at him and threw up. I didn't want to marry him, but didn't want to dissapoint all the guest that came. My dad said that they are only here for one day...this is the rest of your life we are talking about. He handed my his keys and I went out the back door and drove off to my parents house. My dad...who is awesome...went and told the guest that there was not going to be a wedding and thank you all for coming. Good thing that I did this, because he was abusive in the relationship and I later found out that he had put the next girlfriend in the hospital due to beating on her. That could have been me there...I am so thankful for my dad's wisdom and giving me the courage to leave. If it doesnt feel right...don't do it. You may feel bad in the begining, but it will be better in the long run. It was for me.
2006-10-06 04:24:18 · answer #1 · answered by tiggers123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I called it off. The week before the wedding, we had the buck and hens night. We arranged to meet back at a friends place at the end of the night. The girls arrived first and had a few more drinks. The blokes arrived including my husband to be. He had two girls on his arm. He was very drunk, but he walked straight past me into a bedroom. I was flabbergasted. I walked in a minute or 2 later to find one girl sitting on his face and the other slurping on his old fella.
I rang Mum, who came and got me. Next day (late) he rang and apologised claiming he didn't know what he was doing. My theory was that he would go out and get drunk again sometime and if couldn't control his actions, I didn't want to be with him.
I called the wedding off, which sent lots of people into a panic, but I wasn't going to marry the d/head. It cost a lot of money in lost deposits and I sold the dress for a loss, but he ended up marrying someone else who left him cuz he was a player
YAAAYYY MEEE.
2006-10-05 23:40:57 · answer #2 · answered by jewel 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
My ex called off our wedding 18 days before. We ended up getting married 3 months later, had 2 kids, and are now divorced. If you are having serious doubts, don't go through with it!
2006-10-06 09:21:57 · answer #3 · answered by JENNIFER G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, but I wish I had. My parents kept asking me if I was sure when I married my first husband, and my being stubborn kept saying yes, and deep down I wasn't, but I still went through with it.
Divorced 5 years later after years of domestic abuse, I shoulda gone with my gut feeling in the first place, you live and learn I guess.
2006-10-05 23:09:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did 8 weeks before the day...It wasn't nerves I just knew it wasn't right. My family & friends understood and in time, my then partner admitted it was right also.I lost quite a bit of money but it WAS the right desicion and have never regretted it!
2006-10-06 17:52:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was getting married in 11 weeks and then this cocky bloke who'd never asked me out or anything came up to me in the pub i worked in and told me he bet i didn't get married, this was on the Tuesday on the Sunday i called my wedding off and now Ive been married to the other cocky bloke for 6years and we have 2 boys.
but my parents didn't speak to my husband for 2 years because they were so mad about calling the wedding off. so when i married my husband i did it without telling them
2006-10-06 02:36:58 · answer #6 · answered by phillipa 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was only married for a few months.I couldn't see what others could see,blinded by love and all that.She turned out to be a multi timing slag.I'm just glad we never had kids together.
2006-10-05 23:34:17 · answer #7 · answered by duracell18 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah i did but for a reason i will not say he was a Pratt we had paid for every thing,but his mother was a control freak if she said jump then he would ,the wedding was called off and all the quests where told it was really upsetting to have gone throw but that was a long time ago now i guess he will never grow up .........once a player always a player..........................................
2006-10-06 03:03:44 · answer #8 · answered by skye 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't call anything off that close....
We hadn't done any planning yet, but then I found out he was cheating on me. That ended that.
2006-10-06 03:26:57 · answer #9 · answered by Laura 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you asking that question, trust yourself. Something is already telling you something girl!....
2006-10-06 06:14:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋