i know it sounds naiive but why is it that when your heart is breaking, it seems like nothing in the world matters and you cant do anything anymore at all, like you'd rather stick a knife in thru chest! why is that?
2006-10-05 23:11:40 · 11 answers · asked by Ggirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Physical pain can be seen by others, thus compassion can be forth coming.
Emotional pain can't be dealt with by others; it does not heal like a physical wound. Especially when you see the person that you're hurtin' over on a regular basis. It messes with your brain in a way that makes you not want to do anything that may remind you of the other person. Even if you are able to move away from that space, memories of the past show up. Please hang on! If the other person is throwing it in your face, my opinion is that person is hurtin' too. Be strong and be civil---it drives 'em crazy!
2006-10-05 23:32:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Physical pain may come and go in an instance or through medication but there is no immediate remedy in healing emotional wounds. Time alone can do that.
But one should not think of negative things such as the one you said in your question because it only shows an emotional weakness. When you are suffering from an emotional pain, all you have to do is believe in your heart that the relationship you were in before which did not work might not really be the one destined for you. Believe firmly that Destiny will bring to your path someday, somehow, the right person you truly deserve who in turn deserves you and your tears. All the best.
2006-10-05 23:18:23 · answer #2 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Physical pain usually goes away fairly quickly. Emotional pain can last a long time and for some, even a life time. Give yourself time and hopefully you will look back on the good times and enjoy the memories.
I'm sorry you feel so bad!
I've lived through that and even though I still think about him nearly everyday, it's no longer painful.
But it took over 3 years to get past that. Best wishes.
2006-10-05 23:44:23 · answer #3 · answered by Cookie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, physical pain goes away but emotional pain leaves scars on the heart and can hurt for a very very long time...I rather take the physical pain and be done with it instead of suffering for years (or however long)...
2006-10-05 23:13:51 · answer #4 · answered by Ladeebug71 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The heart is like a second brain except when its makes the wrong decisions or experiences pain it causes upset and dis-acknowledgment of the brains desire to create a solution, think or move on.
2006-10-05 23:18:32 · answer #5 · answered by wallerz2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Physical pain goes away faster. A bruise on your skin heals faster than a bruise to your heart or ego.....physical pain heals faster, but the point is, emotional pain heals too, it just takes more time.
2006-10-05 23:32:25 · answer #6 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because it's cut runs deep in our soul...spirit! emotions can't be controlled by the power of our mind either unlike with physical pain...soul or the spirit is the most complex part in our beings that only God can touch and repair and no one else...and he is using TIME.
2006-10-05 23:26:28 · answer #7 · answered by maic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emotional pain only hurts more than physical pain if you're a wussy. And physical pain only hurts if you're a wussy.
2006-10-05 23:13:31 · answer #8 · answered by brave_ulysses@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Because pain is pshycological!
2006-10-05 23:27:23 · answer #9 · answered by andy v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause your heart is breaking ,its not naive it is real feeling.
2006-10-05 23:18:27 · answer #10 · answered by GOOCH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋