I have this problem that when I'm really close to climaxing, I cant hold myself still enough for my boyfriend to carry on pleasuring me,. I really want him to carry it on because of course its really nice, but I find the feelings so strong I just cant relax and stop myself from writhing around, does anyone else experience this and have any tips to over come it and hold still?
2006-10-05 06:11:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that means he's doing something right! I gave ex-wife her first orgasm and thrashed around so much she broke my nose! Had to take me to emergency! Have wrap his arms around your legs or have you ever tried lite bondage? It intensifies the big O
2006-10-05 06:17:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have the same problem when you are doing it alone? If not, why don't you help the BF out and when it starts to get close you start to take over. Have the BF keep in contact with you. Over time have the BF add more contact as you progress.
In this way you can get your fun and train your body to accept the contact from the BF (from using slow increments of contact) and cease your wiggling...
It's going to take some time to do this, so talk it over with the BF and work out a game plan.
2006-10-05 13:20:36 · answer #2 · answered by Paul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breath deeper and focus more on the pleasure, tip your head back, arch your back and tighten the muscles in your upper legs curl your toes put your hands farther out away from your body and that should stablize you so he can keep hitting to right spot!!! orgasms come with involuntary actions sometimes. It is a good sign for him!
2006-10-05 13:16:26 · answer #3 · answered by Sandra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you need to be the one in charge when you feel like that participate don't just let him do everything try a position where you have more control
2006-10-05 13:18:43 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't stay on you long enough to finish, then it's HIS problem.
Find a better lover.
2006-10-05 13:14:03 · answer #5 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe after a while u will get a tollerance for it and be able to take more
2006-10-05 13:14:08 · answer #6 · answered by chevy_man301 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometime you just gotta let him strap you down then go to town
2006-10-05 13:13:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anthony V 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-05 14:13:03 · answer #8 · answered by sextherapist99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get tied to the bed its fun and you can't move.
2006-10-05 13:13:04 · answer #9 · answered by rick k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋