Family & Relationships - 25 September 2006

Why is it that I go off girls that really like me, really want the ones that don't like me, miss the ones that I've had relationships with and always find myself in situations where I don't know what to do, either I don't want to be with who I'm with or get messed around by the ones I think i want to be with. Is god having a cruel laugh at my expense or does everyone else feel like this?

2006-09-25 02:57:09 · 20 answers · asked by crownose 4 in Singles & Dating

im an idiot...may be...but real problem is that i cant get a girl....i tried everyway..but i usually fail...mzy be coz im afraid when im talking or another thing....can someone hlp me...how to begin speach with a girl to be my friend

2006-09-25 02:57:04 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

if im around him when he smokes weed will it get into my sestem and could i fail a drug test? and do these kind of relation ships last?....we have been dating for almost a year

2006-09-25 02:57:04 · 27 answers · asked by Patricia R 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend got over a drug problem recently and has been sober for 6 months. He lives in a sober living home and its about 15 minutes away from my home. I always want to see him, but he says he needs to work on his recovery more, which i completely understand. He says he can only see me on the weekends, but during the week when I ask what he's doing, he usually is doing nothing (not going to meetings) just hanging out with the people at the sober living home. I feel like he makes up excuses not to see me. I've asked him if he wants to may be see other people and he gets upset and tells me no...for instance i saw him this whole weekend and asked him what he was doing tonight, he said, nothing much and didn't even ask to see me..what should I do?? Do I allow him to see me only at his convenience? I tried talking to him but it doesn't seem to work, I feel like he either could be cheating or is just getting sick of me, we've been together 5 1/2 years..help??

2006-09-25 02:55:54 · 16 answers · asked by skeptical 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Flowers dont work here.

2006-09-25 02:53:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My lady and I have been together for 6 months now. We haven't really said we're totally exclusive to each other, but it has kind of been assumed by both of us. Is it cheating on her if I have given a few of her friends moustache rides to after a night out on the town?

2006-09-25 02:53:16 · 12 answers · asked by wade b 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a gorgous bf who adores me, but i have lost the passion in our relationship for sometime already. there's another guy (old and ugly in my opinion) from a far away land offering and promising me a lifetime of adventure. i crave for adventure but i long for security as well. both claims to be in love with me. wad should i do? i feel like a cheat and a selfish ***** now..

2006-09-25 02:53:09 · 15 answers · asked by Samantha T 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been heavily involved with my son in Scouts since he was 6; I'm a trained leader, have served on committee, raised money, worked my tail off, volunteered for EVERYTHING. Now he's a BOY SCOUT & I went on one campout in August - I also have an 8 year old daughter, who has served as "mascot" from the time she was 2. The mother of one of the scouts approached me & say she doesnt' want me or my daughter to go on anymore camping trips; now that they are BOY SCOUTS it's not supposed to be girls involved. Her reasoning "if my son wants to step behind a tree to take a leak, he doesn't want to have to worry about where your daughter is". (her words) I don't think that's a sufficient excuse; I supervise & help, I contribute $ & food, time & energy. My daughter stays with me, not the Scouts. She doesn't interfere or get in their stuff. So am I wrong for being upset? This woman has never gone on a camping trip, she does nothing. Do I let one woman interfere or should I back down & stay home?

2006-09-25 02:53:07 · 5 answers · asked by pumpkin 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Actually looking for details regarding the birth of Louise Nichol Vanasse on April 13, 1971. What was her mother's name? Was she put into any orphanage after birth?

2006-09-25 02:53:05 · 1 answers · asked by Bulgie 1 in Family

2006-09-25 02:52:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have been separated effectively, living separate lives and exchanging child care duties and trying not to be in the same space since January. Now she wants to move out and physically separate. I say, well if you want to move out, let''s just get a divorce. She says that she thinks that maybe we can work it out after being separated for a while. I told her that we are separated and I have contacted a lawyer and started divorce proceedings, even making an appointment with a divorce property mediator. Am I wrong not to try the separation? We have a 4 year old. There are no big issues like addiction or adultery or abuse. In my mind we were simply having a rough period after 17 years.

2006-09-25 02:52:17 · 14 answers · asked by william l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my family does not show it directly but i can feel the disapproval...guys..my family disapproves not because he's not a nice person..i guess they are judging him because he was not able to finish college..he have this great desire for music and he is outside of the country, working as a band keyboardist..

2006-09-25 02:51:27 · 6 answers · asked by 3sh 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Am i too old for her?..even though she's very mature for her age.
I'm also ver young at heart?

2006-09-25 02:51:08 · 18 answers · asked by nottinghill 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boy friend was with a girl for 5 years they lived togeather and every thing they even though they had a kid together but she cheated on him.. he told me that he still thinks about her everyday and that he still loves her and her little girl the girl still goes to his older sisters house. then he told me that they would never get back together that he does not want to be with her all they do is get a long then fight should i trust him or not? i think about it EVERYDAY

2006-09-25 02:48:52 · 13 answers · asked by britt 2 in Singles & Dating

grils aways say why were u there and other things

2006-09-25 02:47:40 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have been talking quite a lot but i cant figure out if she loves me or not

2006-09-25 02:47:19 · 20 answers · asked by jonny_poll 1 in Singles & Dating

My man is not acting right. He has been very distant and short with me for the past two months. When I ask him what is wrong he says he's tired. Things just haven't been the same. I think he is taking advantage of my feelings for him by stringing me along. I care for him a lot but I don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me. Nor can I force him to open up when he doesn't want to. I've decided to phase myself out of his life, but I'm having a really hard time with it. I've thrown myself into my work and started hanging out with friends more, but when I come up for air I'm still more sad then anything. I know this is the right thing but it still hurts how else can I move on? 2nd Q is why do guys do that? Why do they sit in a relationship and let it fester into resentment instead of just letting the other person go if they don't want to be there. They will tell everyone else in the world of their discontent expect the one person who needs to know!

2006-09-25 02:47:14 · 7 answers · asked by Freespirit 1 in Singles & Dating

my husband is so selfish i have gottan so stress about it and when i try to talk to him about our relationship on the edge he do not want to here it. it seems like he is the only one in this relationship ok like this he just bought a new car we have another car all ready but when i ask to use the new car he wants to say he dont wnat to put milelage on it but he can get in the new car as he please i do not thinks that fair put i like this not all about the car it is how he act with it i feel i am the wife i should get and it as i please ok just like today i was going to the doctor and we use the old car for work but so happin he takes the new because he do'nt want me driven it but it is a work car

2006-09-25 02:47:10 · 15 answers · asked by mrs sexy lady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've got these friends & one/both are acting weird. We'll call this one, Mike, yelled at me the other day. The other one we'll call Matt, is ignoring me completely. My b-day is coming up this wk & I planned a bash. Well, I canceled it b/c they are being jerks. Matt said, "Well, I'm going to Texas this coming weekend (my b-day)" After he promised me that he was going. Then Mike is the one that yelled at me for no reason just b/c I haven't paid a ticket before. That's why I canceled it. Now, either one of them will talk to me and all of this happened last week. I've send Matt some message through e-mail and text, but he won't reply or anything. . I also told Matt, after having a few drinks, that I won't talk to or see them this week. .Now, he won't talk to me or anything. .I've even sent a message telling him that I want to do something for my b-day this week, like grill or something. & that I'm sorry for saying that in the e-mail. He hasn't returned anything . .What do I do? Help!!!!!

2006-09-25 02:46:16 · 10 answers · asked by techgirl 1 in Friends

even if sometimes, you unconsciously ask yourself "am i still happy?"....but sometimes, you ARE HAPPY...i mean..is it normal for a 4-yr relationship to ask urself this question?...

2006-09-25 02:46:06 · 3 answers · asked by 3sh 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

how do you know if the friends you made online are really who they claim to be??

2006-09-25 02:45:33 · 5 answers · asked by Samantha T 2 in Friends

2006-09-25 02:45:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 02:45:06 · 3 answers · asked by philip q 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She had fun but says she is glad to be home. Should I bring up the subject of what they did sexually this weekend or just let it be unless she brings it up?

2006-09-25 02:44:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-25 02:44:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-25 02:44:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

working so hard to keep it from them. He does not smoke, but he said that he was sexually attracted to me because of my smoking style...I do not want to quit...but, I feel I should not have to hide it from his parents...I am not saying I should smoke around them, but I should not have to hide my cigarettes and smoking from them...What should I do...he is obviously turned on by my smoking but makes me hide it from some...

2006-09-25 02:42:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

recently when i was wid my girl..i found many of her ex-boy friends phone numbers in her out going cal list...i mean to say not 1 boy frnds number but many numbers....and i found many phone bills which contained her ex boy friends number...so i think she s talking to him through public phone booth...so what do yo think my girl is upto...and do tel me wheather i should ask her about this or no...?

2006-09-25 02:41:49 · 21 answers · asked by get_rich_or_die_try'n 1 in Singles & Dating

I currently like this guy who seems to be grieving over his last relationship, he says he loves her but is not in love with her. when he's around her they get along for one day then the next day they are fighting. He says he doesn't want to be with her though. If he doesn't why is he grieving?

2006-09-25 02:41:45 · 3 answers · asked by stella 2 in Singles & Dating

He is on probation for domestic violence. I have a Personal Protection Order against him. He is also dealing with two court proceedings. One for violation of probation(misdeameanor) for continuing to contact me and the other for Aggravated stalking (felony).

2006-09-25 02:40:22 · 10 answers · asked by Worried 1 in Marriage & Divorce