2006-09-25 02:45:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Those are women with no self respect and who are whores who call guys like that.
2006-09-25 02:46:42 · answer #1 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because nice guys don't finish first, they always finish last. That is just the way it is. For some reason, women these days, and for a long time now, don't have enough respect for themselves, and so they find someone who treats them the way that they have probably been treated all their lives. Going all the way back to watching their mothers be treated like that by their fathers, and onto the first boyfriend. To some women, it is all they know, and until they see or feel the REAL thing ( you know, someone that treats them with respect, kindness and generosity) they don't even know it exists. Which is mind blowing, but true. Just the way it is. If it pisses you off bad enough, do something to change it. Pay if forward. I know you don't think you can make a huge difference, but you have no idea how many lives just one person can touch until you have tried :)
2006-09-25 10:03:32 · answer #2 · answered by pamalamadingdong_1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everybody keeps asking this question.
I don't think that women like the abuse; what they like instead are some of the qualities that bad boys seem to have. Copy what the bad boys do right, and not what they do wrong, and you could be every woman's dream: a bad/good boy combination!
Bad boys act indifferent to what others think (I.E.:this is seen as self-confident & a challenge).
They are unpredictable (fun & excitement).
They are assertive & don't put up with other people's crap (leadership).
Women think that they are tough & streetwise (protective).
Nice guys tend to be predictable (boring).
Nice guys act too submissive & deferr to other people too much (being too nice comes across as either manulipitative or weak).
2006-09-25 09:50:03 · answer #3 · answered by Randy G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Females like confidence; guys who are disrespectful and insult people--for some reason--come off as "confident" to females.
Guys who are sensitive and "care about their fellings" are fine for them, but the disrespectful guys seem more "manly", thus more desirable for a woman, thus they are willing to put up with more from them.
It's kind of like asking why a guy would be with a cute girl who isn't very nice when they caould have someone less attractive who is nicer :)
2006-09-25 09:49:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's nearly always a case of nice guys finish last. These girls think that seeking approval off the bad guys will reassuring them into thinking there is nothing wrong with them...strange logic but it's true!
2006-09-25 09:47:06 · answer #5 · answered by xx_lush_xx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a women and I never went for those type guy's, But I must say my friends go for the Disrespectful Bad Boy types. trust me nothing good ever comes out of it, It's my shoulder they cry on.
2006-09-25 09:50:46 · answer #6 · answered by MS.KNOW IT ALL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my only guess would be that the confidance leval of these guys appear to be high and that is attractive. also, girls always think that they can change whatever they don't like about their guy and that is just not true. but anyway, the sad truth is that both the girls and the guys are just playing eachother. good luck to you. and keep your head up because good guys always have a happy ending...it just takes a while.
2006-09-25 09:49:09 · answer #7 · answered by deeconner23 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because for some strange reason, some women respond to these type of men. It happens all the time.
2006-09-25 09:47:52 · answer #8 · answered by barter256 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the females calling are insecure about themselves and think that's the best they can do. You won't find any classy, self-assurred women on his call list, believe me. Godloveya.
2006-09-25 09:47:27 · answer #9 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woman with low self esteem like that sort of thing. They think they deserve to be treated this way.
2006-09-25 09:47:23 · answer #10 · answered by curiosity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋