Family & Relationships - 25 September 2006

okay my mum made a child support claim to get money for my brother who lives with her and he has to pay money from the time they have been seperated(about a year) and that was fine.Now she is teling them that they havent lived together for several years and they are taking all of his saving which was our money to move, which was very very important.We dont have proof that she lived at the last address they were together, centerlink and blockbuster and places like that would have it on file but they cant hand out personal information, She is going to take everything!What can i do?

2006-09-25 02:28:47 · 8 answers · asked by lily paige 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm seriously considering starting up a male escort business of my own. My regular 9-5 job just doesn't satisfy me and I was thinking that there seem to be so many lonely women out there who would appreciate a nice sophisticated intelligent man to take them out every now and again that I am SURE they would pay. Any suggestions on finding guys?? I'm not even sure where to begin...should I put up a website? Standard fees and charges?? With the holidays coming the extra cash would be welcome.....

2006-09-25 02:28:04 · 5 answers · asked by WonderTwit 6 in Singles & Dating

A lot has been said about crime in our communities and yet little is done.Parents abdicate their responsibilities to teachers without realising that even though their duties are alike,they are in fact different.Parents should teach their children about respect for elders,respect for authorities,respect for the law and respect for other human beings irrespective of gender,race or color.While the teacher's duties is to open the child's mind to understand the value of education by teaching and re-empasizing that there is no alternative to a better future than education and to help the child assymilate into the society by socializing with others in his environment.

More than 80% of those who are exposed to the values of education stay away from crime because they know their self worth and will not throw away their values behind bars and will not live a life influenced by drugs,immorality and demoralising standards.

I believe in the parent investing in their kids by making sure that they go to school,that they know their children's whereabouts at all times and make sure that their children do not talk back at them no matter what.Also,it is not a bad idea to stop your kids from seeing those you believe have nothing to contribute to them because just by knowing who their friends are is not enough.It does not matter how much you give them to eat,how nice you house them or how expensive their attires are,the parent has to be dominant at all times and to make sure that their children listen to them more than they listen to their peers.

Finally,there is a great reward in making sure that your kids live right because the alternative will lead to a sorry and pitiful future.

Am I right? or this is just wishful thinking.

2006-09-25 02:28:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

we have been together for almost three years. all i feel now is pain and confusion.

2006-09-25 02:27:57 · 11 answers · asked by moori3100 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi! I am in love with a beautiful girl but she is somehow not responding. Whenever I see her i feel that she also loves me but trying to hide her love. What should i do?

2006-09-25 02:27:37 · 40 answers · asked by alwaysforu 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so now we are having online confessionals for all u cathys out there that just cant make it to your local confessional for some reason or another.....so confess to me....i will not judge you...and this is TOTALLY CONFIDENTIAL...just type away...I will be here listening (reading)...you may tell me ANYTHING that is on your mind my children....

2006-09-25 02:25:55 · 9 answers · asked by Father Martin Louis 1 in Singles & Dating

Have u guys ever had a big fight and broke up for at least 2 days and then made up? What did u say to make him feel better?

2006-09-25 02:25:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 02:25:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Pardon me if I offend your feelings. I didn't mean it.I asked just out of curiosity. Do any of you have such relation? Please answer

2006-09-25 02:25:24 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-25 02:24:43 · 10 answers · asked by sandesh.sm 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 02:23:59 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-25 02:23:41 · 7 answers · asked by ok 4 in Friends

I am in high school and me and this guy have been TALKING for 3 years....we have never gotten to the dating part it has just stayed at talking...We have gotten past the i like u do u like me stuff....and we both like eachother.....And we both care 4 eachother ALOT...but yet we still are just friends....it's weird because when he wants to try 2 get with me i am supposodly "moved on" and when i am tryin 2 get with him.....it's like umm.....we have been off and on for a while now....any advice???

2006-09-25 02:23:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

your marry some one because you love em right? and that you should know a lot about that person and marriage is SUPPOSE TO BE full of UNDERSTANDING????

2006-09-25 02:23:28 · 8 answers · asked by ayan 2 in Marriage & Divorce

OK...just some background. I'm recently new to the dating scene again and found a guy on one of those dating websites that I'd like to get to know. I've subscribed to the site, and would like to initiate conversation, but haven't a clue where to start. Any ideas? I've tried just opening up word and going from there but end up thinking it sounds stupid or repetitive. This is a new thing for me, and as shy as I am in person, I'm not at all surprised that I'm having this problem.

2006-09-25 02:23:23 · 3 answers · asked by Cheyenne 5 in Singles & Dating

He's my crush during high school days,he knows that i like him but he did not court me. I'm married for 10 year, i have 3 kids now, i was not able to see him face to face for the past 10 years but i still hear news from friends regarding his status, i know he's already married and has kids too.

2006-09-25 02:21:58 · 8 answers · asked by JUSTINE 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What would you do if you argued with your boyfriend everyday for 2 1/2 months and during those two months he moved to his mom's house because he said he couldn't deal with the arguing. But he came back in three days. But then in another 2-3 weeks me and him have another bad argument and that night he tell me he is staying at his moms. I told him to bring me my keys and get his stuff because he is not going to run back and fourth between houses. He leaves but comes back, the arguing continues he says he is not use to arguing with someone everyday. The arguments come from him putting his friend before me and his son. He wants to be in the street all day and night with them. So finally he told me that he isn't ready for a relationship right now. He needs to get hisself together. Should I give him his space and give it time or should I call it quits all together. I think he isn't ready to be a family man because he hangs in the street everyday and I think he has some growing up do.

2006-09-25 02:21:30 · 12 answers · asked by titiyina 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

When I first started dating my wife, she was a real sweetheart. She had a kind heart and a gentle spirit. I never saw her get angry and she was a very quiet person. These qualities are what attracted me to her and made me fall in love with her.

We got married and everything was going along pretty well for several years. We had our occational disagreements, but on the whole I'd say we were happily married.

Then she got pregnant.. since then, everything has been changing.. we got along fairly well during the pregnancy, but I could tell things were going downhill.. I tried very hard to play the role of the supportive husband, but it was really tough for me.. I felt like it took everything I had to put up with her during the pregnancy..

Since the baby was born, everything has been going to hell.. she is a completely different person than the woman I fell in love with.. she's pushy, loud, angry, and selfish..

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2006-09-25 02:21:24 · 23 answers · asked by Byakuya 7 in Marriage & Divorce

A long time ago, like more than 6 months, my friend and I hung out. We kissed but that was it. It was so innocent like caught in the moment type thing. But after that he started getting all crazy and i was leavin and i said "bye love you" to a girlfriend and he was right there and i was directing it to both of them but mostly the girl you know but not like i love you romatically it was like love ya care about you kinda thing. We'll i avoid the hell out of him and he always calls me cryin sayin " I thought you loved me" and " everybody's tellin me you dont really love me" even though i explained to him everything...i dont know he's physco! I guess my real question is how do i block peoples numbers on my cell phone

2006-09-25 02:20:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You have a 14 and 11 year old daughter. The 14 yr old cries everyday for more than 1 hour. You go to their room to ask her why and she says that it is because of her sister but wouldn't say what it is but continue to cry. The 11 year old says she doesn't know why. Afterwards she will look at the 14 year old and start crying too. When I am in their room, they don't talk. When I walk out, the 14 year old murmurs something to the 11 year old that I can't hear what. Then I go back in and ask her. She just continue crying. Although the 11 year old say "she don't know." But in this case, I can tell she definitely know but don't what to tell me. My comment is "if they don't tell me, why can't they solve the problem? If they can't, why can't they tell me? I am the parent. I want very bady to know what is going on? What can I do?"

2006-09-25 02:20:21 · 13 answers · asked by youngwoman 5 in Family

2006-09-25 02:19:47 · 2 answers · asked by mrs sexy lady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I explained to him the only affair I had was for 22 years and it never started out as friend ship and i explained to him i want to learn and that he told me I call to much but I am s o used to calling with my other realationship I asked him to give me a chance how do I change and try to make this work I realy like him. he said he want a submissive woman and I am to controlling, but that I am not . I am scared to trust again and to get hurt againI want to be a better woman help me please and no I am not no young woman i am 44 and gave up 22 years up for nothing as I finaly opened up and realized.

2006-09-25 02:19:37 · 10 answers · asked by pooh 1 in Singles & Dating

I've lost touch with an expat friend I met in Penang, Malaysia. He has a hobby of designing Gameboy Advance games. Last I recall, he was hoping to study film and be a stuntman/action hero. He also has a little sister who was 14 at the time with curly hair and glasses.

I would like to contact him if I can for reasons known only to myself and my intellectual friend. If anyone can offer any information, it would be helpful.

2006-09-25 02:18:31 · 6 answers · asked by Studier Alpha 3 in Friends

I met this guy, and I like him soooo much, even though we haven't even been on a date, we just met at a party. He walked me to my car and spent an hour talking with me. He is physically everything I like, tall, nice body broad shoulders, and has been single for two months and is looking for a relationship. We hit it off so well, that I keep struggling to resist the urge to call him. We made a date for later on this week, but that is three days away and it seems like FOREVER! How can I slow my brain down, and take my time, to make sure that this starts properly and develops into something good?

2006-09-25 02:17:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

look for in a man?

2006-09-25 02:15:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 02:14:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Both men and women have breasts so if it's OK for me to walk around without a shirt on a hot day then it should be OK for women to do it too! Agree or not?

2006-09-25 02:13:00 · 23 answers · asked by DialM4Speed 6 in Singles & Dating

know my question is why do u girls like teasing men, and when i mean teasing for ex. they way u dress sexy, the way u dance and and the way u play on how we think. because to me it seems like its one of girls favorite hoby

2006-09-25 02:12:06 · 28 answers · asked by leo 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 02:11:42 · 10 answers · asked by sandesh.sm 1 in Singles & Dating

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2006-09-25 02:11:36 · 8 answers · asked by britt 2 in Singles & Dating