A very good friend of mine was in a VERY serious relationship up until a year ago, when her guy broke the relationship off, and left her heart in pieces. She was in a deep depression for awhile, but then decided she wasn't going to let this guy get her down. She went back into the dating scene - problem is, she is now having a very tough time finding anyone. From my observations, and from what she tells me.... They all just end up using her, saying they only want to be friends, or altogether don't call her back. She is confused to why this is. But - I've seen firsthand why this might be! She meets a guy, keeps calling and calling, texts non-stop, and is extremely over-bearing. It without a doubt would make most men run for the nearest exit, in my opinion. Now to my question - Should I offer my thoughts on this to her? Should I tell her that this over-bearing activity could be scaring men away? And if so, how do you say it in a nice way without insulting her?
2006-09-25
03:07:25
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