why is that some men who show you in many ways that they are not into you always end up chasing after you when you stop calling or chasing them?
2006-09-25 03:00:07 · 28 answers · asked by stella 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some, men like to play head games with women!! So don't play back!! If you got the message the first time, leave it alone. He is only chasing you now because you lost interest and he can't stand that. Guys like this are bad news and not worth your time and energy. If you start showing interest again he is going to do the same thing all over again and it turns into a vicious cycle you don't need.
2006-09-25 03:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by proudwmn69 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because some men really enjoy the attention that women give when they are really digging them. We call everyday make them feel like that are the most important thing in the world. After a while the guy gets really use to all this attention. Therefore once you cut of the life line and start to move on. They see that you aren't showing interest anymore and their like hey whats going on. Then they start chasing you but most of the time when they say they aren't interest most of the time they are they just want to make you work for it.
2006-09-25 10:09:14 · answer #2 · answered by liliw24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're players and they like the thrill of a chase! Some men even get off on manipulating women. Not just for the "chase" like, "oh, I've got her...this is boring." No. I speak from experience when I say that some men are completely cold and cruel and really enjoy messing with our minds! Even if it means being a homewrecker. Seriously, if a guy is doing that to you, he's not into you and he's not ready for a relationship. Stay away!
2006-09-25 10:06:01 · answer #3 · answered by gidget 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it goes back to the stone age when men hunt and women gather. It is in their primal instinct to go for the chase. Men dont like women chasing them cause it makes the woman look desperate. As a woman it an be tempting to call the guy cause we are natural communicators. So just let nature take it course. Guys can be shy they can be mean when in fact they really like you. Enjoy the guy chasing you. If the guy txts you dont call or txt straight away wait at least 24 hrs. It shows u r busy. Their is a saying "Keep em mean and keep em keen"
2006-09-25 10:07:19 · answer #4 · answered by allydons 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause' MEN want what men can't have! It's like a game to them- just to get a score- like we are the goal- and how many touchdowns can they make?! When we stop chasing them- they gotta figure out why(its an EGO thing)>Man Thinking...>>" was it cause she don't like me anymore- who does she like now, he wonders? could someone be better than him? no way- I'll show her- then dump her just to show her again that I didn't need her in the first place-" <<
2006-09-25 10:10:32 · answer #5 · answered by sawgirl513 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because men don't know what they want. Women usually tend to be the ones who are more caring and love to call and chase the men they like. Men are not like that if they know the woman is in love with them. Men like challenges they do not like easy women , so when you call a guy 100 times a day and stalk them they would defenetly be turned off by you. If you stop calling them and not pay any attention to them they will be coming back with a sick pupppy face looking for attention and love. Next time you feel a guy is not into you ignore him and be a challenge for him.
2006-09-25 10:08:42 · answer #6 · answered by Beautiful Me! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because they miss the entertainment and want it to continue. It's a great ego booster to have women on a string, chasing and chasing. They probably have 2, 3, 4 or even 5 women all in the same boat, and they follow up on whatever members of the harem are not giving them sufficient strokes whenever that's needed.
You are better off getting out of that 'Chain of Fools' as soon as possible and into a one-on-one relationship with someone who isn't playing games with you. There are plenty of nice, respectful, interesting and cute guys out there who will happily call you every day if you will pay them the least amount of attention.
Here's a song from 1965 about a woman caught in such a situation:
CHAIN OF FOOLS
Aretha Franklin
Chain, chain, chain, chain, chain, chain
Chain, chain, chain, chain of fools
Five long years I thought you were my man
But I found out I'm just a link in your chain
You got me where you want me
I ain't nothing but your fool
You treated me mean oh you treated me cruel
Chain, chain, chain, chain of fools
Every chain has got a weak link
I might be weak child, but I'll give you strength
You told me to leave you alone
My father said come on home
My doctor said take it easy
Whole bunch of lovin is much too strong
I'm added to your chain, chain, chain
Chain, chain, chain, chain,
Chain, chain of fools
One of these mornings the chain is gonna break
But up until then, yeah, I'm gonna take all I can take
Chain, chain, chain, chain, chain, chain
Chain, chain, chain, chain of fools
2006-09-25 10:57:18 · answer #7 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, men love the thrill of the chase. The more unreachable a woman seems to a man the more he's going to chase her. If you're an easy catch, there's no thrill and they move on to the next.
2006-09-25 10:18:40 · answer #8 · answered by greenejl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys often want what they can't have, so as long as you are right there ready and available there is no trill of the chase so they aren't interested. As soon as you don't want them they become intreaged. Thats why it's usually best to show a bit of interest but don't sit around waiting for him be busy once in a while.
2006-09-25 10:03:52 · answer #9 · answered by PrincessB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men love the chase period!
Anything you go after and you finally get is always more rewarding than something that is just given to you.
Think about spoiled children
2006-09-25 10:02:16 · answer #10 · answered by gstolard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋