Family & Relationships - 25 September 2006

My ex-girlfriend is my best friend, and we still love eachother, but we also know it can't work at the moment, so we are content with being friends. The problem is that she has been pretty much ignoring me, i ask her about it and she doesn't seem to understand what i am talking about, and since we are just gonna be friends for now we try not to show the other the type of emotion or attention that may be considered to be more than friendly. She seems to think i am doing just that, problem being that i treat just like i do the rest of my friends, but because she thinks i am trying to be more still instead of backing off like we agreed, she is getting mad at me and ignoring me, she says we are friends but she don't hang around with me and when she does she acts like its a burden to her, like she shouldn't, and its hard to watch her walk around with her other friends and talk and laugh and carry on like lifes great and completly ignore me, i don't even know how to react anymore, help pls

2006-09-25 03:32:39 · 17 answers · asked by William R 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 03:32:38 · 25 answers · asked by *JC* 3 in Singles & Dating

Hypothetically speaking let say I was your man and I just got back for a year at war in Iraq what would you do for my first night home?

2006-09-25 03:32:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 03:32:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are arguing over my insecurities. He told me this weekend that if things don't change our marriage is not going to last. All he wants is for me to trust him. I am always thinking the worst. If he doesn't answer his phone I automatically think about another woman. If he's gone somewhere and I am at home I start thinking all these thoughts! I know it's me obsessing but I can't seem to make my head shut up. He has never done anything to make me feel this way. I know this comes from past relationships, being hurt and cheated on. I know that he is not like that. He tells me, "I married you, I love you, why can't you get that through your head". I know he loves me and I know he wouldn't cheat on me. All he does is work and come home!! It's like my heart says one thing and my head says another. I am going to loose him if I don't quit letting my insecurites rule me! What can I do to trust my husband?

2006-09-25 03:31:42 · 7 answers · asked by faith 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been in a relationship with this guy for 1 1/2 years. our realtionship is not a healthly one. we rarely get along. it's just that we have a lot together. we got a car together a dog together and 6 mths into the relationship i moved in. (big mistake) lately we have gotten into drugs and are only nice to e/o when we are getting high. doesn't help either. i just want to either get the realtionship better or leave but i find it very hard b/c of eveything that we have together. i am miserable. Reasonable advice please.

2006-09-25 03:31:24 · 18 answers · asked by Sheilamarie 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating my girlfriend for about 9 months now.I finally got to meet her parents this weekend.Any tips,advice on how to deal with this?
Thanks

2006-09-25 03:31:21 · 2 answers · asked by medotech 1 in Singles & Dating

A good girlfriend of mine is talking to this guy he has friends that go to our local gay club and also i saw him in the gay area of town and he claims he is straight

2006-09-25 03:31:14 · 5 answers · asked by James T 1 in Singles & Dating

I was invited to a cookout..after the cook out this lady puts in a movie with BUFFY THE BODY (who is known for having a big a*s*s).She wanted me to look at how big this ladies butt was.She got really into it and we watched the whole movie...I didnt know what to say or think so I didnt do or say anything.Could she have been trying to let me know something?Is she a lesbian or bi-sexual??

2006-09-25 03:30:38 · 22 answers · asked by FLORIDA 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is there any only children out there? Do you feel you missed out on anything not have a brother or sister or did you like it? He doesn't want a brother or sister he say's, What do you think?

2006-09-25 03:30:08 · 16 answers · asked by sexyass 3 in Family

Do married men look at other women the same way they look at their spouse? if they only look at the same type of women that are the opposite of their spouse. Why is this done by the men?

2006-09-25 03:30:04 · 18 answers · asked by tisha 2 in Marriage & Divorce

A very good friend of mine was in a VERY serious relationship up until a year ago, when her guy broke the relationship off, and left her heart in pieces. She was in a deep depression for awhile, but then decided she wasn't going to let this guy get her down. She went back into the dating scene - problem is, she is now having a very tough time finding anyone. From my observations, and from what she tells me.... They all just end up using her, saying they only want to be friends, or altogether don't call her back. She is confused to why this is. But - I've seen firsthand why this might be! She meets a guy, keeps calling and calling, texts non-stop, and is extremely over-bearing. It without a doubt would make most men run for the nearest exit, in my opinion. Now to my question - Should I offer my thoughts on this to her? Should I tell her that this over-bearing activity could be scaring men away? And if so, how do you say it in a nice way without insulting her?

2006-09-25 03:28:26 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 03:27:56 · 28 answers · asked by khushy j 1 in Singles & Dating

looking for robert anderson from michigan

2006-09-25 03:27:31 · 1 answers · asked by kathy a 1 in Family

in the store. Now I just can't stop thinking about licking female booties. Do you think that this is wierd.

2006-09-25 03:26:41 · 16 answers · asked by Tony 1 in Singles & Dating

HUH!

2006-09-25 03:26:11 · 14 answers · asked by Alex g 2 in Friends

like for like monthes or years

2006-09-25 03:26:09 · 18 answers · asked by audrea and andre jr 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 3 weeks. we see eachother almost every day. even if we don't actually hang out we at least see eachother. like there are the days that we just call eachother and leave it at that, but as often as possible we see eachother. now this is all new to me because i have been single for nine months and before that i was in a two year relationship with a guy i only saw like once a week. i love spending time with my bf and he loves spending time with me, but are we overdoing it? neither one of us has any trouble spending time apart. we are having sex but not very often. the sex is good we just don't feel we have to **** like stoned test bunnies all the time. sometimes we just cuddle and watch a movie or go for a drive. but sometimes i do want my alone time, but at the same time i want to be with him. as long as none of us feel crowded we should be okay? right?

2006-09-25 03:25:26 · 16 answers · asked by 1 Hott Mami 4 in Singles & Dating

just when i thought things couldnt get much worse... i think its sometimes better to think negative at times... at least if something goes wrong u'd expect it!
ever get that feeling where u dont know who u are?? as in u dont know why or how u reacted a certain way to a certain situation... all u know is that u did and did some pretty dumb stuff while your at it... sigh..well i sure do... i mean i didnt mean to react like that... i dont even CARE abt stuff like that.. i mean who cares if a 14 year old girl is hitting on a guy u recently liked..but DO NOT i repeat DO NOT like anymore?? stupid children... they should act their age! heheh.... i'm not jelouse or anything..i mean whats there to BE jelous of??..their just freinds who met on a site... well technically WE did meet online too... but thats besides the point... they shoudl ban the net till your 18! whats the world coming to??? *grin* ok ok ..being dramatic now... ayyooo... but whyyyyy??? so mean no...sometimes it frustrating how u have everything u need but nothing u want... and the annoying part is that u CANT get what u want... theres a difference between NOT having what u want and and NOT getting what u want... not having wat u want could mean that u COULD have it but but just dont have it "yet".... ah but not getting what you u want it but u cant have it. period. so unfaaiiirr yar... i'm not making any sense even,.... i hate this down feeling....totally changed me... to a point where i cant remember who i am or who i was.... it so weird..so not like me to be this caught up in such a weird unhappy-ness.... I MISS THE HAPPY ME!!!! how to get over this though... first time situ... me no likey.....

2006-09-25 03:24:56 · 10 answers · asked by Lamb 1 in Friends

hugging, holding hands, kissing is fine but how do u know he's doing it out of affection n not just for his personal pleasure...

2006-09-25 03:24:51 · 6 answers · asked by dawink 2 in Singles & Dating

i know men are visual creatures but, dont they want something more?...i have this friend who is really really beautiful and skinny....model perfect actually....but she is sorta a "player" and she is a ***** (forgive me)...and i met this guy...and we hit it off great...but as soon as he saw her, he ditched me....i mean i am NOT fat...but i have a soft stomach and i have a great personality....so why do guys overlook that and go for the peice of *** instead?

2006-09-25 03:24:36 · 14 answers · asked by krista_e2005 1 in Singles & Dating

THIS GUY I LIKE IS MY SISTERS BEST FRIEND AND I GO WITH HIM AND WE JUST GOT TOGETHER AND HE SAYS THAT HE REALLY LIKES ME AND I LIKE HIM TOO. HE ISA SENIOR AND I AM A SOPHMORE IN HIGH SCHOOL HE IS MY TYPE AND I REALLY LIKE HIM BUT I HAVE BEEN HURT AND HURT OVER AGAIN AND I CANT TAKE BEING HURT AGAIN SHOULD I BELIVE HIM OR JUST KEEPLOOKING OR STOP LOOKING UNTIL THE MAN OF MY DREAMS COMES ALONG.?????????????????????

2006-09-25 03:23:34 · 16 answers · asked by BRITNI S 1 in Singles & Dating

I like a girl but that girl likes people who get straight A's and be perfect. I am not perfect. How do I suppose to get that girl? I really like her a lot. I usually get B's and C's.

2006-09-25 03:22:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He's perfect for me, but I just don't want to talk to him. I avoid his calls, and I never call him anymore. Why am I doing this? Please help me figure out what the problem is! I don't want to ruin an incredibly good thing!

This is a serious question, so please, ONLY serious answers.
Thanks in advance...

2006-09-25 03:22:50 · 1 answers · asked by Loving Life 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Set aside the women's rights issues and the civil rights movements, and other special interest groups, families consisted of married couples that stayed together, women who put their homes and families first, and men who provided for their families. Sure there were so bad ones , but it was not the norm as it is today to have children out of wedlock, broken marriages, etc. The streets were safer, women were respected more, schools were better, etc. I would trade all the modern technology of today to live in a safe, family oriented world of decent people.

2006-09-25 03:22:47 · 11 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a very close friend who compains about her boyfriend a lot and she has every right too. The problem is that she bitches about him but at the same time justifies him. He is lazy, uninvolved, a pot head, and whines like a baby. She hates it yet she makes excuses why he's that way. How can I help her without loosing her? She has asked for my advice on numerous occasions.

2006-09-25 03:21:42 · 4 answers · asked by ? 3 in Friends

2006-09-25 03:21:35 · 6 answers · asked by smilie70002 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We dated for 2 days then he broke up with me. Then a couple of weeks later he asked me out again. I turned him down. Then he found out I like his brother and twice he called me a slut for that. He always hangs around my block. Today he smiled as soon as he saw me. I totally don't understand him.

2006-09-25 03:21:32 · 16 answers · asked by lovechica 1 in Singles & Dating

I really like her and at one point she really liked me. Now it seems like shes not so sure.

2006-09-25 03:21:27 · 11 answers · asked by yankeefreak 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been in a long distance relationship for 4 months. This girl flies down, or I fly up, once per month to see each other, and spend about 3 days together. I'm in love with her. She's everything I've always wanted. She's in love with me even more. But I've never been single before, and I think I want to be. I have a strong urge to be single and let loose for awhile. And also a strong urge to be with her. She even said she's willing to move town, just to be near me. What the hell do I do? I'm drawn between both urges!

2006-09-25 03:21:12 · 10 answers · asked by Noname 1 in Singles & Dating