THIS GUY I LIKE IS MY SISTERS BEST FRIEND AND I GO WITH HIM AND WE JUST GOT TOGETHER AND HE SAYS THAT HE REALLY LIKES ME AND I LIKE HIM TOO. HE ISA SENIOR AND I AM A SOPHMORE IN HIGH SCHOOL HE IS MY TYPE AND I REALLY LIKE HIM BUT I HAVE BEEN HURT AND HURT OVER AGAIN AND I CANT TAKE BEING HURT AGAIN SHOULD I BELIVE HIM OR JUST KEEPLOOKING OR STOP LOOKING UNTIL THE MAN OF MY DREAMS COMES ALONG.?????????????????????
2006-09-25 03:23:34 · 16 answers · asked by BRITNI S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Still thinking your going to find the man of your dreams in high school, huh?
2006-09-25 03:25:37 · answer #1 · answered by buldawg 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being liked is a good thing, it is fun and flattering. He can like you a whole lot and you can like him right back. He has no reason to lie about liking you. But don't be so quick to invest all your thoughts and hopes for life in the guy. That way you can enjoy your time with him and learn what you want to look for in the man of your dreams, thats the purpose of dating when you are in high school; refining what is important to you in a man. By not thinking of every boy you go with now as The One, you won't be so hurt when the inevitable break-up comes. It isn't till your twenties, (an eternity I know) that you need to worry about a permanent relationship. If you try to rush that, you'll be worn out and cynical. And what Mr. Dreamguy wants that?
2006-09-25 10:34:08 · answer #2 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For right now, put the man of your dreams out of your head, no man can be completely perfect. Ok, so you've been hurt, that's what dating is about, you experience different types of guys & situations, then you're supose to learn from it & move on. Don't try to get yourself wrapped up in one guy so fast. Stay with him and just let the relationship flow. It doesn't matter if it lasts or ends, you're young, just enjoy it while you have it, & quit stressing over it, that's one thing that will push him away.
2006-09-25 10:29:23 · answer #3 · answered by tanner 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No NEVER STOP Looking but on to the first question what i would do is when i was in my first year in High school i really liked this girl i was so focused on this one girl other girls where wanting to be with me and from past experience i know when i say don't focus on 1 guy because just in case he is lieing to u but at the same time if he is not put more trust in him then your other friend but again do not focus on one guy.
2006-09-25 10:37:10 · answer #4 · answered by ivan j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, I am going to give the big secret about guys away so consider yourself lucky and BELEIVE ME!!!!!! Guy want one thing and one thing only and will go to any length to get it.. I don't care if he rescues puppies or washes old ladies after school.. He wants in your pants.... To keep form getting hurt, keep all of your relationships loose and friendly untill you are at least 25 or until you can start dating guys this age.. This is about when we start to mature a little and I stress the word little.. Now, I understand that you have needs to, so do what you have to do.. Now some guys may have noble intentions, but those intentions are overridden by the brain in his pants every time.. You may date him for 2 years and he may be the loyalist guy in the world.. Then some hussy home wrecker comes along and rubs her coochie on his knee and he is hers.. Hey, look what p u s s y did to Bill Clinton.. It ruined the presidency and she wasn't even hot.. You have a gift between your legs and if you learn to use it right you may rule the world some day... Trust Me..
2006-09-25 10:26:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bless your heart ! You will have boyfriends over & over being you are young. Have fun ! Date him ! Enjoy yourself! One thing of advice to you as a young person take time to know who you are as a person Not as someone's girl.Being hurt happens & will happen alot in your journey but let your past stay in the past cause it can cause problems in your future.As far as the man of your dreams you'll only see him in your sleep. We all want to much But if you get a good guy you can work with it. Best wishes & focus on school 1st.
2006-09-25 10:30:59 · answer #6 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should concentrate on your studies rather than on the man of your life. He will come on the right time. For now, go out with this guy and see what happens, but your studies should come first.
If you really concentrate on your studies you would have learned by now that it is very rude to write in capital letters on the Internet as this implies shouting.
2006-09-25 10:28:06 · answer #7 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TAKE A CHANCE, IF YOU BOTH DIG EACH OTHER THEN YOU HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE, BUT KEEPLOOKING BECAUSE PRINCE CHARMING DOES NOT KNOCK ON DOORS YOU HAVE TO LOOK FOR THEM... TRUST ME I'VE BEEN HURT TOO AND YOU KNOW WHAT I DO I JUST KEEP LOOKING
2006-09-25 10:29:19 · answer #8 · answered by busybeee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're only in high school, the chances of finding the one is slim, sure enough there are people who fell in love in high school stay in love till they're old, but that doesn't happen often, I think the best thing for you to do is to wait till you finish high school, then let the guy come and find you. your priority now is to finish high school, and then go to college, focus on guys later.
2006-09-25 10:26:34 · answer #9 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a chance although you have been hurt you can't base your past relationships and hurts with someone new, you have to give him a chance who knows he just might be the man of your dreams.
2006-09-25 11:54:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋