Family & Relationships - 25 September 2006

You can say I know this person through the six degrees rule. but I know for a fact drugs are involved and the children are in harms way. my fear is that if she finds out it is me that reports her -retaliation. I live in a very nice n'borhood and I dont believe she knows where i live. i have children myself and am not in the drug scene. her children are filthy. Stupidly, i let her borrow almost 100 dollars which i will never see again, but money is not the issue with me, it is the kids. i want to get protection for them. they are not going to have a life and are already in the system for being taken from her but does the system really work???? you hear of all these kids being taken away from parents who do not deserve it or it was a misunderstanding but this is no way a misunderstanding, I saw it. I need advice. plz don't reply i was stupid for giving her the $$. I paid her rent on certain times and I took food to the kids to see how they were doing. kids are main concern.

2006-09-25 04:00:25 · 47 answers · asked by childprotector01 1 in Family

What happens if I get two marriage licenses to the same person? We wanna secretly get married but not spill the beans later, so what would happen if we got another marriage license? Is it against the law or anything like that?

2006-09-25 04:00:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

native black americans have an out of wedlock birth rate of 69%, is it time black men stop entrusting the black women with the responsibility fertility rights?

2006-09-25 04:00:09 · 4 answers · asked by JM 2 in Singles & Dating

I was just emptying out my husband's pockets from his pants while doing laundry and found a fingernail in there he had apparantly chewed off and decided to keep for some reason!! EWWWWW!!

2006-09-25 03:59:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I are arguing over my insecurities. He told me this weekend that if things don't change our marriage is not going to last. All he wants is for me to trust him. I am always thinking the worst. If he doesn't answer his phone I automatically think about another woman. If he's gone somewhere and I am at home I start thinking all these thoughts! I know it's me obsessing but I can't seem to make my head shut up. He has never done anything to make me feel this way. I know this comes from past relationships, being hurt and cheated on. I know that he is not like that. He tells me, "I married you, I love you, why can't you get that through your head". I know he loves me and I know he wouldn't cheat on me. All he does is work and come home!! It's like my heart says one thing and my head says another. I am going to loose him if I don't quit letting my insecurites rule me! What can I do to trust my husband and quit being so insecure!

2006-09-25 03:59:52 · 6 answers · asked by faith 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-25 03:58:06 · 22 answers · asked by raj 1 in Family

2006-09-25 03:57:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Anyone ever been involved with someone younger/older? How much younger or older? (We're talking LEGAL of course) How did it happen? Any surprises? Any great stories? Is it still taboo? Did you learn anything about yourself? Would you do it again?

2006-09-25 03:57:07 · 22 answers · asked by Glockmeister 2 in Singles & Dating

if your legs were named "grand"....i would definitely buy tickets to attend the grand opening

2006-09-25 03:56:47 · 23 answers · asked by barnabus finkle 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 03:55:14 · 32 answers · asked by A True Gentleman 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I were friends for three years then started a relationship, 4 months later I moved in with him. we have been datng for over a year, just bought a house over the summer. We are talking about having kids, marriage, etc. This is the lan-but what is taking him so long to ask the question!?

2006-09-25 03:54:55 · 26 answers · asked by llisaisme80 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I met someone 4 years ago, bought a house together, had a baby then he left. He took me to court last year to see the baby although I never stopped him seeing the baby, he just wouldn't turn up to the places that he told me to go to when he wanted to see the baby.

He asked for an hour a week of the court which I had no objection to. Now he has called me fat *****, threatening to stop the CSA money, threatening to take me back to court and it goes on... its getting horrendous at the moment. I have constantly told him to stop texting, I even started saying the most horrible things back so hopefully he can see that I hate him. I also don't answer him and just delete them off.

I hate that you have to go into the text to delete them instead of having the delete before you go into the text.

Please help, at the end of my tether now.

Elaine

2006-09-25 03:54:34 · 20 answers · asked by Elaine J 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my family are forcing me to get married b4 im ready. they are turning my world upside down

2006-09-25 03:54:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He says that he didnt come home because I was bitching. Well, I was bitching because he didnt come home. What do you think??

2006-09-25 03:54:05 · 21 answers · asked by imflexable2 2 in Marriage & Divorce

why does my wife clam up on me when i want to talk about sex. she saids she don't want to talk about it or that it's the only thing i think about HELP!!

2006-09-25 03:53:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-25 03:53:31 · 6 answers · asked by w_sandlin 1 in Family

This weekend my husband did something low and stupid and lied to me about it. I knew in my heart he was lying, yet he turned it around and made me start doubting myself. Finally he told me the truth after a day of lying like a dog about it. It really hurt me and now I feel I can't trust him. If this sounds familar, how did you deal with it? Every time I think about it, I get enraged. Any stories or advice?

2006-09-25 03:53:22 · 12 answers · asked by limeallure 3 in Marriage & Divorce

with a cute guy

2006-09-25 03:52:47 · 14 answers · asked by poplockerbreaker 1 in Singles & Dating

If I establish any property or a business after I get married, in the event of a divorce will my Spouse be entitled to half? If I set up a trust fund with a Power of Attorney other than my spouse, to put my earnings and savings in, will that be accesible to my spouse, as well?

2006-09-25 03:52:27 · 15 answers · asked by Key Key 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we always argue u know like in play and iv known him 4 ten yrs and i know i love him but wat should i say 2 him so that it wont feel alkward please help me

2006-09-25 03:51:35 · 16 answers · asked by xxholistergurlxx 1 in Singles & Dating

To take advantage of a girl that says she loves me and wants to marry me someday? because I just like the sex.

2006-09-25 03:51:03 · 22 answers · asked by poplockerbreaker 1 in Singles & Dating

ok no im not racially i love all colors please tell me i dont wanna feel weird

2006-09-25 03:50:02 · 20 answers · asked by xxholistergurlxx 1 in Singles & Dating

i met a boy who i like and i think he likes me he gave me his number after i asked for it without hesitation when should i call him or tex and should i tex or call
i dont want to seen desprate !!!

2006-09-25 03:49:56 · 4 answers · asked by Vain Bitch 1 in Singles & Dating

I uh.. I will honestly tell you guys that I am bisexual.. and I think I'm in love with my straight best friend... I dont know what to do! Help me.. Should I ignore her for a while and talk to her after my feelings are gone or Should I tell her? Its really hard... I can't just tell her cause I know it'll be awkward. Plus, she likes someone.

2006-09-25 03:49:29 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I would like to organize a wedding trade show geared toward the groom (Tuxedo rental places, travel agents for honeymoons, local hotels for the wedding night, D.J's, wine and beer tasting etc) would you go - or would it be better to combine one for Brides and grooms together?

2006-09-25 03:49:28 · 12 answers · asked by family_matters 3 in Weddings

Going to NYC in Dec for four days....want to propose to g'friend. Where is a good place to buy a ring? How much shoud I spend?

2006-09-25 03:49:25 · 16 answers · asked by Nigelmoore 1 in Weddings

Don't be shy, I'm sure they would love to hear you say it!!

2006-09-25 03:49:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex-boyfriend was sweet, caring and we had a very innocent relationship, it never went past kissing. While we were dating, I told him that I really wanted to see the classic love story movie "The Notebook" with him, but we never had a chance to see it together since he ended the relationship. But he told me that he had downloaded "The Notebook" movie on his labtop computer.

Neways, after he broke it off, he would still say hi to me on msn. One day, I put a picture of the couple from "The Notebook" movie kissing in the rain, as my msn pic. As soon as I logged in, he said hi to me and he was like "hey, isn't that from the notebook" and I was like "yeah" and he said "oh, I still haven't seen that movie, it's been sitting on my computer" then I said "yeah, it's a good movie, you should see it."
Was he playing with my emotions?, or was he hinting to me that he wanted to see the movie with me?
Or was it just an innocent remark?

2006-09-25 03:49:06 · 5 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Singles & Dating

i believe in god and i believe in the devil but i dont believe in hell, i think when u die you are dead just like before u r born.. u just dont exist anymore..what do u think?

2006-09-25 03:48:27 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm told that I look very young for my age but I can't work out why this keeps on happening to me.

2006-09-25 03:47:15 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends