I'm told that I look very young for my age but I can't work out why this keeps on happening to me.
2006-09-25 03:47:15 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You're obviously still a hottie! Men are always looking for a sexy lady - usually to have their wicked way with ... and if you look as young and sexy as you've been told, then you shouldn't be surprised.
There's also an element of the "Mrs. Robinson" thing - even guys in their 30s would consider you to be "their girlfriend/wife's mother" so there's also a bit of the "I f**ked my mother-inlaw" thing there too!
As long as you keep fighting them off with a big stick and don't actually succumb to their advances, I would say "Enjoy!" ... You should feel really flattered!
2006-09-25 04:51:05 · answer #1 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was going to say...you should be so lucky!...then thought better of it because of my own recent experience..I am 55, single, look younger and also have a young mindset...When I moved to where I am living now, a 36 y.o. with mental problems took a liking to me..well more than that as it turns out..a fixation is what it is, now turned to stalking....unfortunately he wont take..NO..for an answer and has made my life as I know it a living hell..He is an alcocholic as well !!..(long winded I know, but what I am trying to say is, their reasons may not be what you think they are)...Please be careful...seek someone out closer to you own age...or find out their motives..but quick...It is flattering and a confidence booster, but that is all it is, just that........good on ya for hanging in there and looking after yourself...
2006-09-25 03:57:10 · answer #2 · answered by ozzy chik... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Older women seem easier to younger guys, because they believe their youth is far more important to an older woman, than is their personality. However you must remember that men are attracted to women sexually first, then romantically second, and here in lies the problem... They may be interested in you, but will they remain with you after they have gotten what they primarily wanted?
I have seen this many times with recently divorced women that kept believing all the younger guys were truly interested in them, only to have their hearts repeatedly broken, until they realized men closer to their own age were far more interested in having a long term relationship with them.
2006-09-25 03:57:45 · answer #3 · answered by eric l 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you have said it yourself of looking younger, which sounds like a compliment. Plus I would say you act younger as well probably like to laugh and have a good disposition. I am sure your husband enjoys having you looking and acting so healthy. Wish I had the same problem, I am 57 and single and wouldn't mind being asked out. Anyway, enjoy the compliments.
2006-09-25 03:52:39 · answer #4 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you have just seen the last "chick" out of the home-nest. If so, your sense of renewed freedom just asserts itself in your aura.
Maybe you're nicely past menopause and younger men probably see that you are reinventing yourself and that there is a new vigor about you, even if you ARE married. Take this new attention, mal-intentioned as it surely is, as something of a compliment.
2006-09-25 03:54:42 · answer #5 · answered by Jeff W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are a seriously hot looking lady. Only you can answer that one!
Enjoy the attention, you don't have to do anything, being chatted up is not an offence.
2006-09-25 05:30:21 · answer #6 · answered by advent m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being attractive is more about personality than age. You're obviously an interesting person (and maybe a bit flirty?) and guys think it would be fun to spend time with you.
Take it as the compliment it should be intended as - and laugh about it with your lucky husband!
2006-09-25 03:49:48 · answer #7 · answered by gvih2g2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because your starting to look desperate, and men in there 30's will hump anything that moves..
Damb it,i'm 40 next week...
Oh well life begins at 40..
Move over boys my turn on the ol fiddle..
2006-09-25 03:50:59 · answer #8 · answered by martinsbits2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
consider yourself privileged and enjoy the attention to boost your ego,if you look great and feel great then that's fab! Perhaps you are giving off so much confidence that its attracting younger males looking for an older mature and seasoned woman.Your hubby should feel lucky as well to have a very desirable wife :-)
2006-09-25 03:49:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not just you - I think men are beginning to discover the advantages that are unique to older women. What a great trend! :) My current husband and the 2 boyfriends previous to him were all significantly younger than me... and I didn't pursue them it was the other way around!!!
And that makes me a happy woman ;)
Enjoy the attention!
2006-09-25 03:50:04 · answer #10 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋