ok no im not racially i love all colors please tell me i dont wanna feel weird
2006-09-25 03:50:02 · 20 answers · asked by xxholistergurlxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have to ask the question, they you are not ready to be with a black person.
2006-09-25 03:56:11 · answer #1 · answered by capu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you figure it out? Have you spent a lot of time with him? Do you engage in the same hobbies? Do you read the same books?
Yes, it does matter. I've been with a lot of blk guys, and they think it is a real feather in their cap to bag a white chick and they are great in bed. He will be really nice to you. The sex will be fantastic! Eventually, he will want to show off and share you with his friends. It can be a lot of fun, if your into that. The down side is he will have a deep-seated resentment against you and you get beaten. As far as blk men go, O.J. was a prince. But you will keep going back for that great sex. I do.
2006-09-25 04:07:06 · answer #2 · answered by ann_tracks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you like him - so when did you figure you love him? Honestly, if you loved him - you wouldn't be asking strangers what you should do. The fact that you feel weird tells me that you are a bit racial and you are more worried about what your white friends and family will say. He's a man - stop prefacing him with the fact that he is black! What does it matter? If you date an white guy do you tell people, "I like a white dude?"
Come on, now - what's your motivation??
2006-09-28 04:17:11 · answer #3 · answered by NoPeace4Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have already assessed that your racial difference will affect your relationship, so its best to make sure you want to go through that stress before you take a bite out of THIS cake.
Be prepared for callous slurs made in your direction on the street. If you can't handle that, don't go any further. If your love is able to stand up to the rudeness and smallness of other people, then go right ahead.
2006-09-25 04:01:22 · answer #4 · answered by Jeff W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not bothered by his colour, then I see no reason why you shouldn't try to have a relationship with him. It will only be uncomfortable for you if one of your family or close friends is racist and do their best to either put you off him or to be very antagonist towards him (or you or both)
As long as you are prepared for any kind of negative response, I wish you luck in being with this guy ... have fun together and stick a finger or two up to anyone who doesn't like it!
2006-09-25 03:58:45 · answer #5 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, but has he figured out that he likes you? It takes "two to tango", as they say. Do you know this guy? Maybe HE"S a racist.
Other than that, colour shouldn't matter!
2006-09-25 03:56:22 · answer #6 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your are scared because there are still some sick people out there who are going to make stupid comments or remarks about your relationship....but if you really love him then that's all that matters....be happy...
2006-09-25 03:52:49 · answer #7 · answered by bellita_716 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
""ok no im not racially i love all colors "" then why would it matter what anyone ealse thinks? its right
2006-09-25 04:36:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy is the guy that you will know that will make you happy that is all that matters.
2006-09-25 03:52:44 · answer #9 · answered by Cindy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it don't matter what your boyfriends color or race is,,its if he's up to your standards or not is what matters,ya know if he's a jerk forget him,a nice guy,you like him,then hell ya,you should date him
2006-09-25 03:55:29 · answer #10 · answered by steve 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋