why does my wife clam up on me when i want to talk about sex. she saids she don't want to talk about it or that it's the only thing i think about HELP!!
2006-09-25 03:53:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Some people are simply shy about it. But you are her husband, she should be able to open up. Ask her why she cant talk to you.
2006-09-25 03:55:52 · answer #1 · answered by JC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you haven't disclosed your age I will try and
answer the best as I can. Some women feel uncomfortable talking about sex. Sounds like your wife is one of those people. Respect this and don't
bring up the subject any more. Perhaps you do dwell on the subject and that is just becoming too much
for your wife to handle. Surely there are other things you can talk about.
2006-09-25 03:58:46 · answer #2 · answered by Precious Gem 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could it be something to do with the way that your broach the subject. Don't wait till you get to bed to talk about it.Explain that you will try and understand her point of view if she has a problem with talking about sex. And that you will support her whatever happens. With love and understanding I am sure that you will overcome this problem.
Though if you find that you are not making any headway suggest to your wife you that you both go to a relate counsellor who would help you to overcome this problem.
2006-09-25 04:11:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well do you ever speak to her about anything she's interested in. I don't mean the kids or decorating the house.
Do you still date? Don't talk to her about sex but imagine you were just starting to date and think of the things you'd do to try and impress her. Dinners, gifts, trips out etc...
You need to woo her again, you don't get sex on tap just because your married.
2006-09-25 04:00:03 · answer #4 · answered by Gonrecht 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she has issues in the past. has she been abused or raped?
or it could be that u just jump in for sex and dont give her romance. every woman deserves romance thats what makes sex more intresting.
show her love and she will give u sex. best of luck
2006-09-25 03:58:13 · answer #5 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO me a favor. DONT TALK ABOUT it. SOME women were brought up to not say things like that. BUT do be gentle and kind to her and romantic. THAT will go farther. good luck
2006-09-25 03:56:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes doesn't want to talk about it, shes not interested in that topic, she rather talk about something other than sex, sex is not on her mind, that's the last time she wants to about right now, she thinks sex is just not that important, can you not carry a decent conversation that have nothing to do with sex.....GEEZ!
2006-09-25 03:56:10 · answer #7 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She is insecure about your subject. Just talk and let her listen, she will hear you and it will make it a little easier in the long run.
2006-09-25 04:03:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many women LOVE sex, but they just cannot talk about it! Just take it slowly.
2006-09-25 03:56:03 · answer #9 · answered by Hammer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you want to talk about sex so that you can perform better and better please her in bed. If you make it about her instead of about you she might be more willing to talk about sex.
2006-09-25 03:56:20 · answer #10 · answered by AKA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋