I uh.. I will honestly tell you guys that I am bisexual.. and I think I'm in love with my straight best friend... I dont know what to do! Help me.. Should I ignore her for a while and talk to her after my feelings are gone or Should I tell her? Its really hard... I can't just tell her cause I know it'll be awkward. Plus, she likes someone.
2006-09-25 03:49:29 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh c'mon!
It's your best friend!
tell her!
get it off your chest and move forward.
2006-09-25 03:51:21 · answer #1 · answered by Warrior 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have a crush on her and I think you're right, it would be awkward....for both of you. You already know that she is straight so allowing yourself to nurture these feelings you've developed for her would just be torturing yourself to no good end. You just need to decide how best to handle your friendship while you are working through these feelings and not knowing your friend I can't advise on the best way to do that. However, I don't think you should just start ignoring her, she won't know what's going on and if you are her best friend she would likely be very hurt by that. I dont think you want to hurt her feelings. Especially if you still want her friendship after you've worked through all this. I think I would just keep it to myself and work through my feelings reminding myself that we could only be friends and nothing more. Your crush on her will deminish in time and you will still have her friendship.
2006-09-25 04:03:56 · answer #2 · answered by Tallulah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
falling in love is normal! its either your bisexual or not, be true to yourself and tell her than ignoring her, ignoring is not the solution. I know it'll be awkward to tell her how u feel but go on and try, if she's really your bestfriend she'll understands you, but, you should also face the fact whatever she tells something that'll hurt your feelings if you know she's interested with somebody you must accept it, but the point is you shared to her what you felt and you wont regret it!
2006-09-25 04:12:31 · answer #3 · answered by via 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ignore her! What did she do to deserve that? If you want, tell her how you feel. But do it before she decides to make a move on someone. Otherwise, it's best to remain friends. Good luck!
2006-09-25 03:53:01 · answer #4 · answered by tmac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to confront this situation head on and talk about it with your best friend. Better to find out now, than later if you stay in the relationship and do not like it. If you cannot bring yourself to talk about it, I think you should move on!
2006-09-25 03:51:36 · answer #5 · answered by Hammer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her and get it over with. But make sure that your friendship does not get effected by this news. If she really is your best friend then she'll understand.
2006-09-25 04:07:06 · answer #6 · answered by blackdahlia616 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you know your best friend. How do you think she would react to what is is you want to tell her. You could try telling her I know I would. If it weards her out then stop or change the conversation. Good luck........
2006-09-25 04:04:22 · answer #7 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if shes straight then shes not going to b into u so u can either tell her and ruin ur friendship or forget about it....look for someone else cos shes not that into u!!
2006-09-25 03:52:10 · answer #8 · answered by nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tell her b/c you're going to ruin the friendship that you have. chances are she's not going to become gay/bisexual for you. she's straight for a reason and you should accept her for that.
2006-09-25 03:51:53 · answer #9 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in lust.In love takes 2 people who feel the same way.
2006-09-25 03:50:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋